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- ***Is Your Partner Your Life Partner? - by Submitted on May 09, 2014 from Emma ViglucciHonor your Self. What does that mean? In my book, it means getting in touch with our Core, True, Authentic Self, our Soul, and operating from it in all we do. This means being in connection with our Self, knowing our Self. Most of the time we are in a fog and cacophony of daily minutiae, ...
Views: 2059 - ***Keep Your Broken Heart Open - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2017 from Tom KingI don’t understand, she said. I had a great trip being by myself experiencing the beauty of the gorgeous national park around me. I was not lonely and I felt very much in tune with nature and I felt happy. And then as I was driving home I was overcome by a deep sadness and I found myself ...
Views: 1089 - ***Losing Your Voice in the Club Scene? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2014 from Nancy DanielsDoes this sound familiar? You go to a loud club and your friends tell you that they can’t hear you even though you’ve been talking in a louder voice. Your throat feels raw and sore or perhaps you have lost your voice after an hour or two of straining to be heard. What you are experiencing ...
Views: 1825 - ***Managing Expectations In Dating and Relationships - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2007 from Debi BerndtSusan was excited about her date that evening. She spoke with Brian a few times over the phone and felt an instant connection. She called her girlfriends and her mom to announce that she finally had a date with a guy that could be the one. She arrived at the restaurant in her new black pants ...
Views: 6907 - ***Moving Away From The Familiar - by Submitted on May 21, 2008 from Debi BerndtHave you ever noticed how uncomfortable you feel when you do something for the first time? Remember your first day at school, the first time you rode a bike or even your first day at a new job? Change can be scary and that is why people avoid it so much. The reason you tend to cling to the ...
Views: 1272 - ***Moving Beyond Limitation: How To Use The Creative Mind - by Submitted on May 04, 2008 from Debi BerndtRelationships and Our Minds Everything in the universe is created by one original substance. This formless substance or energy is neutral. It is the thought applied upon this substance that creates the thing that is imagined by the thought. Since you are thinking source, you can create anything ...
Views: 2156 - ***Nasality Puts a Real Damper on a Sexy Speaking Voice - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Nancy DanielsWhenever I hold a 2-day workshop, my clients do a ‘before & after’ video which is not only eye-opening but most definitely ear-opening as well. What is striking is the decrease in nasality no matter the background, the language or the culture of the individual. This change occurs because of a ...
Views: 2796 - ***Office Affairs - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishWhy do office affairs happen? And What to Do about Them? Office romances are commonplace these days. Television shows such as Boston Legal and Grey’s Anatomy remind us about the temptations and ...
Views: 2692 - ***Online Dating - When and How Much Do We Open Up? - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2007 from Debi BerndtOnline Dating - When and How much do we open up? I recently was interviewed by a writer on Match.com regarding the email communications between prospective online daters. It made me realize how our dating society has changed. In my dating days, I remember the difference in how men ...
Views: 1089 - ***Online Dating Strategies That Set You Up for Success - by Submitted on May 25, 2016 from Valeria ChubaAre you currently dating - or getting ready to start dating online? Have you dated unsuccessfully in the past, and want this time to be different? When it comes to dating, It's especially important to get started in a way that will set you up for success. In this episode of the Get Sex-Smart ...
Views: 8272 - ***Prenups 101: Seven Love Tips to Make them Work Out - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana Kirschner1. What are the most common prenuptial situations for first-time marriages? A: There are two types of prenuptial agreements or prenups: One is where the groom or bride is part of a large family business like a real estate empire. Here, the prenup is intended to protect the family from ...
Views: 2307 - ***Revenge Sex - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishDangers of Revenge Sex and Other Stupid Relationship Mistakes Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., MSS Relationships hurt sometimes. People always seem to provoke emotional ...
Views: 1684 - ***Ten Tips to Kick-Start Positive Change - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAll right, ladies. I trust we all got through Valentine’s Day, right? But let's make this your last February fourteenth when you don’t have a fab date! To do that, you’re going to have to make some changes. Put simply, stagnation is never good. When you refuse to change or embrace new ...
Views: 1804 - ***Ten Ways To Increase Dating Confidence - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2008 from Debi BerndtInstead of getting a tummy tuck or eye lift, you may want to consider these ten ways to increase your dating confidence for an inner makeover. 1. Be conscious of your self-talk. Identify the voice inside that doesn’t often speak nicely to you. Become a witness to those defeating thoughts from ...
Views: 1119 - ***Texting 101 in Dating and Relationships: 7 Do's and Don'ts - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerI think texting rocks! It means that no matter what you are doing you can be in touch with and connected to your loved ones. Texting has absolutely deepened our dating and love relationships. Now your “A” level friends, family and lovers can be in a constant secret dialogue with ...
Views: 3494 - ***The 3 Step Approach for a Deeper Speaking Voice - by Submitted on May 06, 2011 from Nancy DanielsWhile there are various methods and suggestions as to how to make your voice deeper in pitch, the difference between those approaches and the one that is correct lies in the word make. As soon as you make your voice do something it shouldn’t, you are forcing it. When you force your voice into ...
Views: 3461 - ***The Movie "Knocked Up": How Realistic and How Recommended is This Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishThe movie “Knocked Up”: How realistic and how recommended is this relationship? No surprise that the 2007 movie “Knocked Up” is a hit. The women of Generations X and Y especially recognize this increasingly familiar kind of relationship—the educated, successful and professional woman who ...
Views: 2499 - ***The Power of Positive Self-Affirmations for Dating Success - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerResearch has repeatedly shown the power of positive self-talk, which is what most of us call affirmations. Positive affirmations have been used to: change behavior in under-achieving students; increase nurses’ and doctors’ well-being and lower their stress levels; reduce breast ...
Views: 2641 - ***Top 10 First Date Tips - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2008 from Debi BerndtTip #1 – Revealing • Don’t give your whole story away on the first date. If you are meant to be together, you will have plenty of time to tell him about your life. If your stars are not aligned, there is no reason to share your personal history anyway. • Do reveal some tidbits about yourself ...
Views: 1197 - ***Top Relationship Problems: The Danger of Women Having Affairs - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishTop Relationship Problems: The Danger of Women Having Affairs Think having an affair is just one of many dating choices these days? Think again. The number of women having affairs is rising--approximately 25 % of women have them. Smart, professional women know that affairs make you crazy—not ...
Views: 2390 - ***Using The Law Of Attraction In Dating - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2007 from Debi BerndtThe circumstances in your lives seem to happen by chance. You may blame your single status and dating bad luck on others and good experiences on random fate. The Law of Attraction states that your life experience is a direct result of your thinking. In order to change those ideas to attract the ...
Views: 1061 - ***Valentine's Day Stress Busters - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishValentine’s Day Stress Busters: How to avoid the “ache-y, break-y heart” of disappointment Dateline: Any town. Five-thirty p.m., Valentine’s Day, and he’s read every card in the pharmacy. In his hand are a box of chocolates and a balloon with the words “MARRY ME” written ...
Views: 1082 - ***Viggo's Oscar Aura Readings - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2008 from Rose RosetreeWhen you think of Academy Awards, do you think "spiritual reading"? If not, why not? Bring a date to your TV and watch the Oscars. Then impress him/her by sharing deep thoughts. And yes, they can include deep readings of those stars everyone's talking about. I have an annual custom of doing ...
Views: 886 - ***What Is Your Dating Style? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2008 from Debi BerndtLori called her best friend crying because Steve, the guy she had recently been dating, had told her that he did not want to see her anymore. She explained how he came on so strong in the beginning, calling every day, sending her flowers, telling her that she was the one and then suddenly he ...
Views: 1108 - ***What Is Your Story? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Debi BerndtI hear many stories throughout the day. My clients tell me stories of their childhood, recent break-up, new love interest, or the latest tragedy in their lives. We are surrounded by gossip and tales from our family, friends and even the media. The stories we share are simply an opinion based on ...
Views: 1045 - ***Who Are You...Really? (The Masks We Wear in Dating) - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2007 from Debi BerndtAs Halloween approaches, funny costumes come to mind. Halloween always seems to bring out the wilder, crazy side of people. They feel free to express themselves during this season because their costume is a shield of armor. Why do people wait until a special occasion for permission to be ...
Views: 1336 - ***Who is Making Your Dating Decisions? - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2008 from Debi BerndtYou may think you are in control of who you want to attract into your life. You probably have a clear vision of the type of person that you desire. Having it down to a list of ten or more characteristics, you set your intention, visualize and wonder why you keep getting duds (or dudettes). The ...
Views: 1052 - ***Who's Your Daddy? A Father's Day Tribute - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2008 from Debi BerndtAs father’s day approaches, many women either acknowledge and appreciate the gifts their fathers have given them or recoil because of how he “wronged” them. An important aspect of having a healthy relationship is to heal your relationship with your parents. Like it or not, the type of men that ...
Views: 1085 - ***Why Is it Hard To Change? - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2007 from Debi BerndtMost people who come to me for hypnotherapy have had enough of their specific issue and they are ready for a new approach. After years of trying various prescription drugs, talk therapy and other alternative remedies they still seem to have a difficult time changing their behavior. With ...
Views: 1706 - ***Why Men Don't Call After A Date - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2007 from Debi BerndtNo matter who you are or where you are in your dating search, there is always at least one time when the guy you are interested in does not call. Sure, you had a great date and felt like you had a real connection. He said he would call during the week but the call never comes. You really ...
Views: 2975 - ***Why We Find a Deep Voice Sexy - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Nancy DanielsConsider the actors who have great voices: George Clooney, Cher, Vin Diesel, Julia Ormond, Kathleen Turner, Sean Connery, Peter Coyote, Morgan Freeman, Catherine Zeta Jones, Kate Beckinsale, James Earl Jones, Ashley Judd and the late great Barry White, to name a few. Now think about the voices ...
Views: 4224 - *Being Your Best - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2007 from Debi BerndtEveryone has unlimited potential, but they seem to hold themselves back from their greatness. They get distracted, talk themselves out of their dreams as if they were unattainable anyway and ultimately feel unsatisfied. It is a tragic cycle of dreaming, getting disappointed and giving up. Most ...
Views: 1395 - *Dating Decisions - How do I know if He's The One? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhen we are looking for our soulmate, we often have high expectations for each online date we go on. He is looking for love, you are looking for love - it has to be a match, right? Well, the problem with online dating is there are two types of men - the ones that are sincerely looking for a ...
Views: 2988 - 10 Best Cheating Dating Websites for Having Affairs - by Submitted on May 19, 2019 from emily miaEveryone thinks differently, no one thinks the same way. A man would always want what he wants and if he is not getting what he wants, there might be problem. May be you are looking to have an affair with married woman outside your marriage. Are you desperately looking for something which your ...
Views: 1482 - 10 Best Dating Sites for Women in 2020 - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2020 from Mike AndersonMany women struggle with online dating because they have a hard time finding the right community. From unwanted raunchy photos to spammy one-line messages, it can be tough for women to find something that works for them and avoid what doesn’t. But it is possible to find dates and partners ...
Views: 769 - 10 Best Places to Meet That Special Someone - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenIf you're single you probably already know how hard it can be to meet a new love interest. No matter if you live in a small town or a big city, now a days it just seems to be a challenge to meet someone different with whom you click and feel that there is an opportunity for a possible ...
Views: 2248 - 10 Best Things to Do on a First Date to Attract Single Women - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Don Diebel1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation. 2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh. 3. Act like you are genuinely interested ...
Views: 1431 - 10 Dating Resolutions For A Hot New Year - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2008 from Paulette Kouffman ShermanEvery year on January 1st we make resolutions to create direction to manifest our dreams. Why not with love? This year you can choose to be the captain or your own dreamboat. Embrace these 10 dating resolutions and your love life will sizzle. The best thing about it is these are all under ...
Views: 1372 - 10 Deadly Mistakes You Can’t Afford To Make If You Want To Get Your Ex Back - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Uadiale AmberBreakups are something that people go through all the time. It is something that can be painful and difficult to go through. This is why it is important to know how to deal with the problem as opposed to reacting to the breakup in a way that makes the process even harder to go through. However, ...
Views: 1784 - 10 Easy Ways to Learn How to Attract the Right Men into Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2019 from M Nasir Aziz10 Amazing Tips On How To Attract The Right Type Of Men Do you find yourself constantly dating losers? Maybe it's time to switch things up! Here are some amazing tips on how to attract the right type of men! To steer clear of toxic relationships and men who don't share the same values as ...
Views: 1175 - 10 First Date Spoilers and What You Can Do To Avoid Messing Up A Great First Date - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2007 from Yangki Christine AkitengIt’s ironic that sometimes we go out on a date and meet someone we are strongly attracted to but within minutes of the initial meeting things get so bad that the date ends in total disaster. The sad truth is that it's easy to walk away and dismiss good men and women just because of very minor ...
Views: 1102 - 10 First Date Tips Just For Men - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2016 from mahendra PingaleStarting a relationship is by and large the simple part; it's keeping up the association that gets somewhat precarious. That is why a developing number of twosomes (whether or not they've got married) are going into couples treatment as a pre-emptive strike against the intense ...
Views: 793 - 10 New-Year Resolutions Which Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Doron GilIf you wish wholeheartedly to succeed in cultivating a successful intimate relationship but haven’t been able to doing so this year, here are10 New Year Resolutions which, if you decide to adopt and follow, will empower you to develop the relationship you so much desire: 1. TAKE TIME OFF from ...
Views: 1706 - 10 Qualities to Look for in a Long-term Motivated to Marry™ Partner - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2014 from Amy SchoenDo you know what kind of person would make you happy? What qualities would you want someone you would want to marry have? As human beings, we all respond to certain gestures and behaviors positively. This dating advice for women and men are to describe which qualities you need to have on ...
Views: 4616 - 10 Reasons For Not Falling in Love - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2014 from Tina TessinaAlthough you might think of “falling in love” as romantic; we all fall in love many times in life: with a new lover, a new friend, a particularly cooperative co-worker, an appealing movie or TV star, a caring neighbor, siblings, relatives and even pets. Any close relationship ...
Views: 1889 - 10 Reasons Why Chatting Is Good For You - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2011 from Roxie GutierrezAs human beings, we sometimes forget how a simple conversation can make everything better. Why does this happen? Here are ten simple reasons: The first reason is that chatting forces one to show his or her qualities that others may find attractive, such as one’s sense of humor, intellect, ...
Views: 4049 - 10 Reasons why couples break up - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2012 from georgia andrewsPeople dream of everlasting love. Love does not last for ever. There are a number of reasons why people break up. There are ten reasons that are such common reasons for couple to break up that one has to take a step back and examine the structure of relationships. With women in the workforce ...
Views: 2005 - 10 Red Flags Of An Unhealthy Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2008 from Lisa PeckIn relationships, the term “red flag” is used to describe a warning signal that something could be really wrong. Learning to detect red flags and respond healthily is a valuable skill that can help empower the individuals and gives them more knowledge how to proceed in relationship. This tool ...
Views: 8360 - 10 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in a New Relationship - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Carmen HarraYou meet someone who’s simply charming, irresistible. You’re excited about this person and begin dating, spending more and more time together. Everything is going great, except that your new partner slips into certain “bad habits” here and there. You reassure yourself that this is normal. But is ...
Views: 1133 - 10 Sex Tips to Spice up Your First Date Night - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2019 from Karen ColeFalling in love with someone special is an amazing feeling and taking her for your first date can give you goosebumps especially if it is your first date night and hence you will need to put in efforts for ensuring that it will be full of sexy ideas so that you can take your relationship to the ...
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