Do you know what love is? What is unconditional love?

Love is the one of the strongest emotions a person can have. It is a tender feeling of affection that you feel for another person. Everyone seems to have his own opinion of what love is. Regardless of what definition you want to give it, when we talk about love between a man and a woman who want to spend their lives together, there are two kinds of love, conditional love, and unconditional love. In this article I will discuss what unconditional love is.

Unconditional love is when you love someone the way he or she is without rules, not the way you want him or her to be. Unconditional love is the only kind of love that fills you up. Unconditional love is when you love without expecting anything in return. It is when you love without trying to change someone’s behavior and personality.

God’s love for us, for example, is unconditional. God has given us life, food, water, brain, body, hands, eyes, health, among other things.

Unconditional love is when you love your partner without trying to affect him or her. For example, don’t get upset at your partner if he or she forgets to do something for you. You might get upset at the behavior, but not at your partner. You have to distinguish between the action and the one who takes the action. I mentioned in my book “How to win your lover’s heart” that being able to differentiate between the action and the doer is an important concept in every happy relationship. The action is something you might not like, but the doer is your partner whom you love with all of your heart and soul. This is one of the most important concepts in happy relationships and the basis of unconditional love.

Parents for example, might get upset at their child’s behavior. They might not like their son or daughter to stay out late at night, and if they do, the parents might get upset, but they don’t stop loving their children.

You should do the same to your partner. How many times have you heard men say, “I started to hate my girlfriend because she does not do this or that?” Or a woman says, “My partner doesn’t listen…” This is a problem where you have to distinguish between the action and the doer. You should dislike your partner’s action, not themselves.

Author's Bio: 

Dia Thabet

Love is like a plant. It needs consistent, careful attention to thrive. Without it, your relationship is destined to wither away. How to win your lover’s heart was released by to help you win and capture your lover’s heart and avoid breakups