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- Sex Drive Boosters - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the ...
Views: 1645(4 votes) - Your Perfect Guide To Kissing Passionately - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWho doesn’t want to be kissed? Nobody. Each and every one of us loves it. It has that certain magic that leaves us in a daze. Kissing passionately is truly one magical art. It enchants…enthralls. Kissing passionately is usually a prelude to a more appetizing and exciting action. Even the ...
Views: 1643 - Dog Disease: The Anal Gland Disease - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWhen a dog meets another, it's natural for them to go to the behind and take a sniff. This is a normal social practice among our pets that done to identify one another. Each dog has their own unique smell, which they use for marking territory or remembering a fellow pet. Again it's normal and ...
Views: 1638(2 votes) - Understanding Bisexuality - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSome people are straight, while others are not. We often refer to those who are not straight as homosexuals—either gays or lesbians to be exact. But, there is an often-overlooked segment of the gay/lesbian and straight communities: the bisexuals, also popularly known as “bi’s”. So what exactly ...
Views: 1633 - How To Move On From A Bad Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt has to end... No matter how painful it is, that time is now. Breaking up is never easy. Deciding to end a relationship, no matter how imperfect it is, will always be emotionally and mentally traumatic. In spite of the imperfections, you did share wonderful and intimate times together. Like ...
Views: 1624 - Ancient Healing Art for Holistic Wellness: Asian Massage Therapy - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMassage has been practiced for thousands of years dating back to the ancient Greece. In fact, the word “massage” is Greek in origin meaning “to touch”. Today, massage is one of the most popular spa services and therapy that include stroking of the skin or kneading and ...
Views: 1618 - Aphrodisiacs: For A More Satisfying Sex Life - by Submitted on May 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex is essential to a marriage or any other romantic relationship. Without it, no matter how much you love each other, you will feel there’s something missing. Sex is an expression of your love and it releases tension and makes you feel good afterwards. But no matter how much you love to have ...
Views: 1605 - Living Life To The Fullest With Menopause - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraMenopause is that period of transition from a woman’s life from being reproductive to being non-reproductive. To say that that transition is “inconvenient” is an understatement because in most cases, menopause symptoms can be an uphill battle for most women. The average ...
Views: 1601(1 vote) - Friends Turning Into Frenemies? What To Do If Friendships Drift Apart - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLet's face it, not all friendships are bound to last forever, as there are times when friends cannot withstand and keep up with the shift or the dynamics throughout the years. You may outgrow each other and reality sets in and it happens--just like marriages fail and lovers experiencing ...
Views: 1600 - Aspire to Be Yourself - by Submitted on May 24, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIn the everlasting journey called life, human beings are almost amusing in a strange kind of way. Most people think and believe that they have to “live up” to another family member, relative, or screen idol. Some even have become envious or jealous of popular celebrities and want or even aspire ...
Views: 1587 - Rebound Love: Is He Really Seeing Me? - by Submitted on May 07, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou swoon, you sigh. He is so romantic, so perfect! He is constantly calling you, giving you sweet nothings. He pampers you tremendously. He tells you every day that he will do anything and every thing you want. Your heart sinks every time he cries by the mere thought of you leaving him. You ...
Views: 1585(4 votes) - De-stress- Nobody Can Get Rid Of Stress But You Can Reduce It - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWho wants to destress in life? No one wants to have stress but almost everybody has it. Young or old, students or professionals, gay or lesbian, and worker or employer, everyone don't have a choice but to face the fact that once you live in this planet, stress is always with you. Simple ...
Views: 1571(5 votes) - Step Up to Step Aerobics - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraPerhaps you have heard of the term “step aerobics”. It was popular some time back. To some people, step aerobics is a refined substitute for aerobic dancing. Are you still in for the groove of step aerobics? It may be quite some time since you have last done it. Step arobics is a ...
Views: 1568(1 vote) - Dog Food Poisoning - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraBad things can come in packages nicely wrapped. Looks can be so deceiving. This is very true for dogs. They just love taking peeks in garbage cans in search for a meal. It's just so appealing to them. Food on the floor with flies swarming around it is the apple of their eyes. Keeping a look out ...
Views: 1566 - A Man Worth Keeping - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFinding a man worth keeping these days is like going fishing in Citarum River, the word’s most polluted river- instead of finding a good catch, you find yourself surrounded with crap! To avoid wasting your time with crappy men, here are some guidelines to consider if the guy is a keeper or ...
Views: 1560(14 votes) - Prolific Writers In History - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMost of the prolific authors or writers write; they just don't dream or think about it. A good example is Honore de Balzac (1799-1850) of the 19th century who wrote from midnight to dawn almost day by day of his life, hence creating a million words a year. Though he was extraordinary, he was ...
Views: 1555 - Ways To Know He Loves You - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraStop plucking the petals off the daisy; it will never give you the real answers. Looking for Mr. Right is never easy, but one doesn’t really need special powers to know if your man is in love with you or not. And plucking petals won’t tell you if he is in love with you or not either, but paying ...
Views: 1555 - He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not - Is He Falling In Love With You? - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraDon’t you wish that you could just crack his head sometimes and read his thoughts? It would be easier than constantly plucking petals off a daisy, chanting an endless “he-loves-me, he-loves-me-not’s”. Looking for Mr. Right is never easy, but one doesnt really need special ...
Views: 1553 - Signs That You're Unhappy At Work - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you feel happy in your job? There are tell-tale signs of unhappiness in the workplace. Check out if you're feeling these stuff: 1) You're always procrastinating at work. This is by far one of the obvious signs of unhappiness in the workplace. When you feel unmotivated, it's only natural ...
Views: 1534 - The Debilitating World Of Emotional Abuse- Are You In One? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAre you happy? You can’t point your finger why or what exactly, but you are just sad. You don’t know what’s wrong but it is so hard for you to make any decisions by yourself now. How can this be- you use to be so self- sufficient, independent and decisive. You are so confused, can’t ...
Views: 1528 - The Enneagram Of Personality In Coaching - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhat if humans had spent many centuries contemplating on the trends of motivation which sit outside the awareness of individuals and support the choices they make? The Enneagram is a system with profound origins which has been built and evolved through several years and several frameworks. It is ...
Views: 1516(1 vote) - Hypnotize Yourself - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe advantages and benefits of learning how to hypnotize yourself could be many. Though it may seem quite strange and new age to most people, there are really several good reasons to learn how to hypnotize yourself. In this high tension, fast-paced times, the physical as well as emotional ...
Views: 1514 - Grief Recovery Tips For The Grieving Souls - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe different stages of grief recovery are never easy, and it’s entirely up to the person how long it takes someone to be on the grieving process. There are different essentials when it comes to grief recovery, and it’s a must to help you to be on your way to recover. Bear in mind that tears ...
Views: 1496 - Caught Cheating? Here's The Key To Winning Trust Back - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou never thought that this would happen. You cannot even believe that it’s happening now. Everything is so surreal, so unbelievable. You were caught cheating with undisputable evidences. Now, you have no choice but to come clean. Coming clean and ‘fessing it all up is probably the hardest ...
Views: 1496 - Taming The Blue Pitbull - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOne of the most stereotyped breeds up to date. When people hear the words “dog” and “attack”, they usually think of none other than the pitbull - a dog with a very bad reputation. This bad boy is short in height, but makes up for it with its very muscular build. It has a huge mouth with jagged ...
Views: 1495 - The Basics of Transcendental Meditation - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraTranscendental meditaion is a meditation technique that is effective and easy to learn. If you seek refuge from the hustle and bustle of eternally ringing mobile phones, endless traffic jams and disgruntling screaming kids, transcendental meditation could well be that refuge you are looking for. ...
Views: 1493 - Dress To Impress! - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraClothes are a part of a person’s individuality. What a person wears usually speaks volumes about his/her personality. Often, it is an essential factor in the dating game. The majority of the first impression a person creates is largely based on how the one looks—especially on the clothing style. ...
Views: 1489 - Chat Room Etiquette for Beginners - by Submitted on May 25, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOnline dating and chatting is a fine art that a lot of singles try to perfect. It can be quite confusing at first, but once an individual gets the hang of it, it can be pretty interesting and quite helpful. The rapidly increasing number of online dating site tells us only one thing: this is the ...
Views: 1487 - Dealing With Money Issues in a Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2009 from Menno Spijkstra“Love is all that matters faithful and forever, keepin’ us together, love is all we need.” Anybody older than 30 (or even younger) might be familiar with this song which was popularized in the late ‘70’s to early ‘80’s. Various artists have since ...
Views: 1486 - Don't Be A Downer-- Your Friends Love You! - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThere's a reason why you've got friends--it's because they like you! So don't try to label yourself a Loser because nobody wants to hang out with a loser. Don't try to sound like you are your own worst enemy, because your friends are there for you. Don't be a downer; if you hang out with your ...
Views: 1480(1 vote) - Make Your Imagination Work At Your Advantage - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn Napoleon Hill’s classic book Think and Grow Rich, it explains that there are two proficiencies of imagination namely, creative imagination and synthetic imagination. Also, as outlined by Denis Waitley in his Seeds of Greatness, it becomes significant and essential to learn precisely how every ...
Views: 1477 - Understanding Your Pre School Child - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf your child is in the pre school stage this only means one thing- you are done with the terrible 2’s and 3’s. Now, comes a new world for parenting, the pre school age. This is now a whole new different ball game. This is the time when your precious ones are starting to explore. Pre school ...
Views: 1454(3 votes) - Incorporating Aerobic Acitivity Into a Healthy Lifestyle - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThere is no arguing that a guaranteed means of achieving overall wellness is through a healthy diet and a regular exercise regimen. A large percentage of individuals may be able to regulate their diet but still, majority may find it challenging to adhere to a regular exercise routine. It’s ...
Views: 1452(2 votes) - Go Ahead: Set Those Dream Goals Now! - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLife indeed is just too short to let it pass by and success in its most phenomenal state is just around the corner if you simply apply a few of these theories and principles. 1.) Focus, focus and focus. By concentrating and focusing on your dream goals and steps for at least one hour per week, ...
Views: 1451 - Drop Your Great Expectations And Live Lightly - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraLife is complicated, so as they say. But let me tell you something; it only becomes so when you got some great expectations. It's just a tiny thing to change: stop expecting. I know it takes practice to do so. If you can see things as they are without having great expectations, then life will be ...
Views: 1450 - Certain Activities To Perform To Improve Your Memory - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIndividuals are often advised to perform certain activities to foster their memory improvement. The best results are noticed in most students, who carry out some activities to help improve a person's memory such as through writing and reading. One proof that writing facilitates individuals to ...
Views: 1445(1 vote) - Perfect Couple, Imperfect Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraCouples come in different shapes and sizes. There are power couples, the sporty ones, and the save-Mother-Earth ones. We also see a lot of young couples, often with a toddler in tow, and of course there are those who quietly sit in a park bench, holding hands—the old couple that never fails to ...
Views: 1439(2 votes) - Parenting Advice: Promote Imaginative Play - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraImaginative play should be encouraged and fostered in children because not only is it fun for them but it is also a significant part of growing up and learning. Playing through imagination is an essential part of childhood. Through this, the child learn more about the world and about himself and ...
Views: 1432 - Attractive Females: What Do Men Really Find Attractive? - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraFor women out there, are you looking for ways and styles to be more attractive to men? Unfortunately most women get caught up or deceived by the multi-million dollar “attractive and beauty marketing schemes” and lose sight of what really makes a female attractive to a man’s eyes. Try to look and ...
Views: 1428 - The Boxer's Flaw: Hip Dysplasia - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThis dog is beautiful, strong, and well-built. It's energetic and playful too, making it great for outdoor people. Social and obedient by nature, some people get this breed as a house pet. This is what makes it the Boxer breed a popular choice amongst dog-owners around the globe. Despite of his ...
Views: 1425 - Australian Shepherd Training - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraFarmers or people having jobs related to farm work will always find a dog willing to lend a helping hand, handy. For these guys it's like having a worker that doesn't accept pay. One breed very good at working as a sheepdog is the Australian Shepherd. Its name is very descriptive of its intended ...
Views: 1421 - Save Your Relationship: Watch Out For Hidden Relationship Traps - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOften times we get to wonder why it’s so difficult to maintain a peaceful loving relationship. Why it’s hard to keep the fun and frolicking last for even a week. Why it’s impossible to have a month long of harmony in the relationship. There are times when we get tired of feeling empty in an ...
Views: 1421 - Dog Clothes: Looking Good, Feeling Good - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraHow much do you love your dog? How far are you willing to go for your pet? For some very much, and very far. Some owners feel that providing the basic needs of their pet, such as a doggy bed, grooming products, and food isn't enough. They love making their pets feel special, and what better way ...
Views: 1408 - Do You Know Where Your Pleasure Spots Are? - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWomen are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the ...
Views: 1401(2 votes) - The Transitory Yet Gripping Sleep Paralysis - by Submitted on May 25, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraFrom time to time, a person may experience that gripping sensation overcoming the whole body while sleeping. It can be a terrifying experience and a lot of superstitions ranging from the strange to the supernatural have been associated with it. In medical terms, however, such condition is called ...
Views: 1379(1 vote) - How To Turn A Girl Friend Into A Girlfriend - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraYou liked her from day one, and she liked you too—as a friend. You’ve tried every trick up your sleeve to make her see you in a different, perhaps more romantic light. Problem is, she’s already had you classified as a friend, and that’s where you’ll be. Getting out of the friend zone is ...
Views: 1364 - Living After Death: Loss Of A Spouse - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen the angel of death arrives in your family, there is no way of stopping it. When it comes and takes the life of your spouse, you have no choice but to cope with it. Easier said than done because part of you went to the grave with your spouse. The pain is excruciatingly paralyzing, you ...
Views: 1364(1 vote) - Great Sex Life for Seniors - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraA good sex life for adults over 60 depends largely on health conditions and lifestyle. Younger folks generally have a hard time believing that their aging parents (or even grandparents!) might still be sexually active; the truth is only 5% of those considered over-the-hill feel that sex is only ...
Views: 1360 - Creativity Activities To Stimulate Working With Others - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSeveral brainstorming books and hypnosis CDs for creativity activities are available these days. But then, there are other ways to seek inspiration while working with other people without using all these. Here we have some ways of working with others. The more classic solution is trying to set ...
Views: 1358 - Barking Dogs Can be Trained - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraThere are many possible reasons why dogs bark. Aside from it is the most prominent sound they could ever give out, barking is one normal behavior of dogs. It is also their way of communicating. Barking dogs sometimes signify an invitation to play with them that is why they give effort in ...
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