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- ***How to be more effective at work: TLM Part 4 - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2012 from Morty LefkoeIn addition to the seven processes that can help free individuals from their limitations (which I’ve described in three other blog posts), The Lefkoe Method has two additional processes that were designed specifically for use in organizations. If you use them in your own firm, you will be ...
Views: 1792 - ***How to eliminate suffering and get enlightened - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2011 from Morty LefkoeThere are two fundamentally different ways in which we can experience ourselves. First, the way most of us usually experience ourselves: as a creation—a separate entity distinct from other entities, whose survival is always at stake. Some people call this the ego. Second, as the creator ...
Views: 1707 - ***How to stop being a victim? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2011 from Morty LefkoeWe all know people who are “victims”—people who view their lives through the filter: “It’s not my fault. They (or it) did it to me.” When you understand what the feeling of victimization really is, where it comes from, and how it affects people, you will discover it is even more widespread and ...
Views: 2667 - ***How to stop being a victim? - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Morty LefkoeWe all know people who are “victims”—people who view their lives through the filter: “It’s not my fault. They (or it) did it to me.” When you understand what the feeling of victimization really is, where it comes from, and how it affects people, you will discover it is even more widespread and ...
Views: 1495 - ***I Finally Stopped Bragging - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2010 from Morty LefkoeIt took me a long time to stop bragging. About 50 years in fact. As a child I always bragged about things that I thought would impress others. How good my grades were. Things I had done. Popular kids I hung out with. Having people think well of me was so important that I even lied just ...
Views: 3119 - ***This way to well being: TLM Part 3 - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2012 from Morty LefkoeThe Lefkoe Occurring Process (LOP) and the Lefkoe De-conditioning Process (LDP) are the two newest processes that constitute The Lefkoe Method (TLM). I’ve mentioned them before in other posts; today I will summarize each of them and describe how each offers a unique benefit not found in any ...
Views: 1717 - ***What is the relationship between personal and organizational transformation? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2011 from Morty LefkoeI wrote about three types of organizational change in my book, Re-create Your Life many years ago. Let me draw from several passages in that book because the business applications of this distinction should make the personal applications even clearer. Organizations, as well as individuals, ...
Views: 1815 - ***What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2010 from Morty LefkoeFor years I’ve thought that our lives—what we do, think, feel, and perceive—were the direct result of our beliefs and our conditionings. When I looked at the lives and beliefs of over 13,000 clients, I noticed a very close correlation. In the past few weeks I’ve had reason to rethink that ...
Views: 2074 - ***What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2010 from Morty LefkoeFor years I’ve thought that our lives—what we do, think, feel, and perceive—were the direct result of our beliefs and our conditionings. When I looked at the lives and beliefs of over 13,000 clients, I noticed a very close correlation. In the past few weeks I’ve had reason to rethink that ...
Views: 1984 - ***What should I do to get what I want? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2011 from Morty LefkoeIn this post I will answer a question I hear frequently in various forms: What should I do to get what I want? To begin with, there is no single “right” way to accomplish anything. What works for some people, won’t necessarily work for others. And what is effective today, won’t ...
Views: 1394 - ***What’s the difference between change and transformation? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2011 from Morty LefkoeIf you’re reading this article here you probably are interested in transformation. But I suspect that what you mean by transformation is very different from what others mean by the same word. I’m a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a group of “transformational” leaders, and ...
Views: 1819 - ***You create your experience of reality - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2011 from Morty LefkoeWhen you realize that you never saw your beliefs in the world, that you only saw events that had no inherent meaning, it becomes clear that you create your beliefs—and, ultimately, reality as you experience it. Thus, everything we say is “out there”—other than what we sense (in other words, what ...
Views: 2058 - Getting Rid of the Fear of Public Speaking Has to be Difficult ... Are You Sure? - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2009 from Morty LefkoeIf you’ve had an intense fear of public speaking for many years and have tried a variety of ways to rid yourself of the fear – without success, you’ve probably concluded that you’ll probably never get rid of the fear. Or, if you do, it will take a lot of time, effort, and reinforcement. If ...
Views: 2312 - How to Have Natural Confidence - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2009 from Morty LefkoeMost people think confidence is something you gain by being successful at something. Yet others say that you need to generate confidence in order to succeed. It's almost like the question "which comes first the chicken or the egg?" Well, after over 20 years of helping people reach their ...
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