When I first started my coaching business, I was 110% committed to making it work. I kinda had to be because I’d cut off all other options and safety nets and promised my family that I’d made the right decision. I was convinced that God had led me in this direction and He confirmed this by opening doors for me and connecting me the right people at the right time. In spite of all this, 6 months into the new venture all my work dried up and I had zero clients and therefore zero income. On top of this, there was a glitch in my website which meant that no one could sign up to any of my offers and no one knew how to fix it.

The craziest part of this very stressful time was that I felt like it was God who was in my face stopping me, not the Devil. That made no sense to me, because it was God who opened up the opportunities in the first place and I couldn’t understand why He would change his mind. I cried out to Him on numerous occasions to come to my rescue and fix my situation, but nothing happened for three whole weeks. Finally in desperation I stopped praying the prayer of anxiety and decided to listen to what God was saying to me.

It turned out that He wanted me to make some changes in my life before He was willing to open the doors again and bless what I was doing. Internal changes unlock external doors.

Although this was such a difficult time for me, God proved His love for me by pulling me to a holt until I made the changes. If He had continued to let me carry on as I was, I would end up hurting myself by living unsustainably. Of course God wants me to grow and prosper, but he is more interested in building my character in the process and enlarging my capacity as a person so that I can contain what He wants to do in my life.

I discovered that God wanted me to address three things.
1. Make sure Church was priority over business.
2. Make sure I’m smoking what I’m selling.
3. Develop a rhythm of rest starting by taking a day off each week.

As soon as I made the changes, everything opened up again. A mate of mine happened to stumble across the problem with my website and fixed it in about 30 seconds, I picked up 9 new individual coaching clients in the next two weeks, and my work with the employment agencies all of a sudden started up again. It was incredible!

Since that time, this theme of ‘internal change unlocks external doors’ has come up again and again. The natural tendency when things stop working well is to get frustrated and just push harder on the doors, yet whenever I step back and listen to what God is asking me to change internally instead, everything else seems to work out fine. God has astounded me by just how many things He has open up that previously seemed too big or too hard all because I’d been prepared to deal with the things in my life that God had put His finger on.

So here is where it hits the ground for you right now. What are the doors that you are desperate for God to open for you right now? How long have you been pushing and praying for them to open? Take a moment to step back and ask God what He wants you to deal with in your life before he answers your prayer and opens the doors for you.

Author's Bio: 

For over 14 years Jaemin has been actively helping people bring about change in their lives through coaching, mentoring and various leadership roles. Jaemin is a gifted communicator with a genuine desire to see people grow and flourish in life.) He has a passion for helping people achieve holistic success in work, relationships and personal spheres. Jaemin is the founder of the largest life coaching company in australia (Frazer, Holmes and Associates.) and has been the senior pastor of Liberty Christian Fellowship for the last 10 years and worked as the school chaplain at Mulwarree Highschool for 2 years. Jaemin has been married to his lovely wife Katherine for 13 years and is a proud father of two young children.