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Certainly we are all aware of the health effects of having a positive attitude throughout life and of the improved mood we are going to experience if we remained positive yet sometimes we betray our knowledge and dwell into negative thinking for prolonged periods.
I have been searching for ... Views: 2191
Confident people are the ones who feel in control of their lives. Loss of control over one's life is always associated with feelings of helplessness followed by depression.
Finding yourself not in control of situations over regular basis can let you form false beliefs that limit your ... Views: 2889
Emotions are messages your mind uses in order to motivate you to take a certain action. Just like hunger can be a message your mind uses in order to motivate you to eat emotions are methods your mind uses to motivate you to get something done.
Worrying just like any other emotion is a message ... Views: 1280
A friend of mine had intense hatred towards her job, she used to explain to me how much she suffers every morning on her way to the office and how horrible she feels at the end of each weekend.
Whenever my friend told her friends or relatives about her problem they always gave her the same ... Views: 1373
The problem with self limiting beliefs is that they appear so real to the extent that the person can hardly tell whether he has a self limiting belief or a real one. In addition to that whenever someone attempts to help a person remove his self limiting belief the person becomes anxious, very ... Views: 1385
limiting beliefs can negatively impact your life and change your reality to the worse.
Because of the dangers of limiting beliefs and because of the bad impact they have you must be aware of their creation process so that you can do your best to avoid them.
In this article i will tell you ... Views: 1428
Usually a person decides to break a bad habit after he gets a positive charge of motivation which lets him try to change his bad habit immediately.
Thinking that will power and persistence is all what’s needed to break the habit the person tries to use them both to stop the habit but he ends ... Views: 1158
We all have at least one habit that we want to get rid of. Whether this habit is procrastinating or waking up late, smoking or excessive drinking, negative thinking or worrying our lives become badly impacted by it.
Research has shown that any attempt to not think of something by force always ... Views: 1658
Everyone wants to build self confidence and the reason most of them fail is not that they don't do enough effort but its because they apply the wrong advice.
Self confidence is all about a set of beliefs that a person has about himself, in order to build self confidence successfully you must ... Views: 1535
Broken hearted?
Don’t worry, here 10 things that you can do in order to recover in few days:
1)Kill uncertainty: People usually accept death faster than they accept breakups because when it comes to death people are 100 percent sure that the dead person cant return back once again, in short ... Views: 5536
Everyday millions of people try to become more confident by acquiring fame, power, money and popularity but in the end most of them never make any progress and end up feeling the same.
Most of those people were told to repeat affirmations, think positively or to believe in themselves but in the ... Views: 1193
Why do people fall in love? Why do we become attracted to certain people and not others?
Why do we sometimes fall in love at the first sight?
What is love all about??
Before studying psychology i used to think of love as something supernatural, unpredictable and that follows no rules. Later ... Views: 1792
With all of these books around talking about affirmations psychologist became curious to know whether they work or not.
They brought lots of people who have various degrees of self confidence then told them to repeat positive statements about their self confidence such as “I am confident” ... Views: 1132
Ever wondered why things that used to be very interesting seem boring now?
Do you remember the excitement you felt the first time you started using a computer or browsing the internet?
Why do you feel bored now even though you are doing the things that used to make you excited?
The answer ... Views: 2693
Dreams can be an expression of the desires we want to fulfill, the reflection of our fears or our current emotional states or even a suggested soloution by our minds to a problem that is bothering us.
One of the most common misconceptions about dreams is believing that symbols have universal ... Views: 1325
We all want to be productive but sometimes we find ourselves procrastinating and wasting our time without intention.
I interviewed many people who are known for their productivity and also interviewed some of the procrastinators I know and as a I result I discovered 7 points that could you ... Views: 1297
Lots of people spent years trying to become confident without succeeding.
When those people begin the quest they usually start by looking for online tips that can help them become confident quickly and this is usually what they come across:
• Say "I like myself" everyday out loud Not ... Views: 1377
ICE
What came to your mind when you read the word ICE out loud? most probably different thoughts and things that are related to this word jumped into your mind quickly.
Your mind is just like a large computer that has billions of folder, once you access a folder you can reach all the ... Views: 1504
He is well educated
He is more successful than most of his friends
He even has a PHD degree
but the last time he was in a social gathering. He didn't find the right words, didn't feel secure and felt like a complete loser.
The man felt as if he had no self confidence and wondered, why ... Views: 1409
Some people mistakenly believe that being depressed means that they lack self confidence. While this is a completely incorrect assumption still we can't say that there is no relation between self confidence and depression.
Being depressed doesn't mean that you lack confidence but in many ... Views: 1733
When Andre Agassi won the cup and became the champion he was asked how he it feels like he replied saying:
"I have already won Wimbledon at least 10,000 times before"
People first laughed because they believed he was joking but when Andre explained that he had visualized himself winning ... Views: 1362
I am sure you know one of those people who are always angry
Why do those people shout all the time?
and why do they lose their temper whenever the slightest thing happens?
In this article i will explain why are some people always angry.
Our perception changes whenever our emotions ... Views: 1565
When I asked my friends to tell me their opinion about the movie requiem for a dream some of them said that it was the most depressing movie they ever saw, after all the movie discusses shattered dreams and people who were never able to reach their goals.
What’s strange is that some people ... Views: 2897
How to change someone's mind
During our lives we encounter many situations where we become in need to change someone’s mind about something.
When someone refuses to change his mind about something it doesn’t mean that he is stubborn or annoying but it simply means that somewhere in his belief ... Views: 4011
Why isn’t the button responding??
Have you ever tried to turn your TV on then found that the button was not working?
In such a case there seems to be some kind of short circuit that prevents the button from operating the TV.
Thankfully Living without TV for few days wouldn’t be a big ... Views: 2503
One of the main reasons lots of people never manage to build solid self esteem is that they never manage to determine the real reason behind their lack of self esteem.
After talking to ten people who lack self esteem you will discover that each of them lacks self esteem because of a different ... Views: 1539
Yesterday i was in the gym and i had a hard time doing my regular exercises because my Ipod was out of charge and i had to listen to the romantic songs that were played there.
They weren't that normal kind of romantic songs but they were the type that gives you the impression that the singer ... Views: 2358
Time is the most precious asset you have and even though most of people are aware of this fact still some of them keep wasting time.
Most people don't waste time on intention but instead they do some mistakes that kills their time without noticing and that's why in this article i will point ... Views: 1347
Have you ever tried to turn your TV on then found that the button was not working?
In such a case there seems to be some kind of short circuit that prevents the button from operating the TV.
Thankfully Living without TV for few days wouldn’t be a big problem but what if one of your own ... Views: 1046
Recently one of my friends sent me a mail asking me whether its possible to stop lying or not. After i told him that its completely possible he replied back asking me how can he motivate someone to stop lying.
In response to his message i decided to write this article so that i let everyone ... Views: 1500
During our lives we encounter many situations where we become in need to change someone’s mind about something.
When someone refuses to change his mind about something it doesn’t mean that he is stubborn or annoying but it simply means that somewhere in his belief system there is something ... Views: 6462
Do you think that if you were living alone on an island you would have been doing the same things you are doing now?
A very big part of our behavior, actions and thoughts are highly affected by the people around us even if this is not apparent to us.
Peer pressure or the pressure a person ... Views: 1336
Ask anybody about the things he wants in life and he will tell you that happiness is one of them. Ask the same person if he is happy with his job and he will tell you no!!
One of the main reasons people are unhappy with their jobs is the incorrect priorities they assign for different things ... Views: 3803
I have helped thousands of people get over the depression they felt after breakups and while each one of them had a completely different story than the others they all shared one common cause for the suffering they experienced after the breakup which is having false beliefs about both breakups ... Views: 3301
What motivates people to change
Lots of theories have been developed with the purpose of explaining what motivates people to change. Some theories provided a good insight on the methods that can be used to motivate people while many others gave a very superficial explanation of motivation ... Views: 16055
The person who is laughing out loud, capturing the attention of everyone in the room while gossiping about someone who is not present is not as happy as he seems.
From the outside he seems strong, popular, interesting and in control but if you peaked inside his mind at the time he was ... Views: 8711
How effective is depression medication
I have helped thousands of people to get of depression on their own by teaching them depression self help methods.
Lots of people mistakenly believe that drugs are the solution for depression while the truth is that psychotherapy is usually much more ... Views: 1846
Depression self help
I have helped thousands of people to get of depression on their own by teaching them depression self help methods.
Lots of people mistakenly believe that drugs are the solution for depression while the truth is that psychotherapy is usually much more effective for ... Views: 1556
How to forget someone you love
Long ago when it used to take me more than three days to forget about someone I used to do the same wrong practices people do when they get into a relationship but as I read a lot about psychology I discovered that forgetting someone you love would take a maximum ... Views: 3616
She is really arrogant
Jason has never managed to have a successful relationship with a woman. He grew up as an introverted and shy adult who believes that all beautiful women were arrogant.
Sam had a similar problem, he always had troubles talking to members of the other sex which resulted ... Views: 1374
Lacking confidence around strangers
Do you sometimes find yourself feeling very anxious around people?
Do you sometimes manage to talk confidently to some people while in other times anxiety prevents you from properly choosing the right words to say?
If your answers were yes then read this ... Views: 2208
I cant tolerate criticism
Do you find it very hard to tolerate criticism even if it was constructive?
Do critical comments make you feel bad for days and days?
Do you hate to be criticized?
Every normal person should not like the idea of being criticized but when you become extremely ... Views: 2132
People have multiple identities
When you play with a little child you will find yourself talking and acting in a childish way, When someone bothers you at the street you might find yourself shouting at him and when you are with the person you love you might find yourself cheerful and ... Views: 7099
Why is gossip bad
I never understood how dangerous gossip is until I studied psychology where I discovered that a word or two that we say can result in destroying the relationship of many people months later!!
Your mind doesn’t see, hear or read but it tries to match what it receives from ... Views: 3401
What attracts women?
Psychologists say that men become attracted to women who have higher reproductive abilities like more female hormones and an hour glass body shape. They also say that women are attracted to men who are resourceful and who can protect them.
So to put this in another ... Views: 14791
Always feeling guilty
I am sure you are aware of the feelings of guilt that comes when you do something that you didn’t want to do, but do you know that you could be feeling guilty for your whole life for something that you are not even aware of??
Feelings of guilt arise as soon as you do ... Views: 1670
Always feeling guilty
I am sure you are aware of the feelings of guilt that comes when you do something that you didn’t want to do, but do you know that you could be feeling guilty for your whole life for something that you are not even aware of??
Feelings of guilt arise as soon as ... Views: 1194
One minute you're confident and the next you're feeling inferior
One day Sam was walking down the street, on his way to his work. On the pavement, he saw a man in torn clothes. To himself, Sam thought: ' That's a very poor man; he can't afford to even buy new clothes instead of those torn ... Views: 1157
Controlling anger
The following is a very practical list that will help you control your anger instead of letting it control you. Note that any single technique will be effective in dealing with anger but knowing all of them will let you select whichever suits you. It will be much helpful to ... Views: 1187
I Failed!!
Justin was heading towards the restaurant's door in a hurry as he was a bit late. When he arrived to the door he quickly pushed it inwards but it didn’t open. He paused for a moment then tried to pull the door back, but still, the door didn’t open. He paused again and ... Views: 4002