It can really stink to realize, after the breakup, that you still love your ex and you wish to learn how to get back together with your partner. This can be so painful for not only your ex, but for you as well It is not easy for you to admit that you made a mistake of breaking up with your ex, much more when you ask for your ex's forgiveness and hope that the relationship can still be repaired and there is still a chance of getting back together.The goods news, is that yes, in many cases it is possible to reconcile no matter how hopeless it may seem.

Now, if you want to be reunited, here are some sure hit tips on how to get back together; it worked for many and if you just follow these, it will work for you too. Before you can officially start working on the tips, you have to make sure that your intentions are clean. When your lonely or sad, do not make it as the top reasons of wanting to get back with your ex.

Give yourself time to think a lot of things and do not just rush into a decision of winning your ex back just because the night is so cold without him/her or your ex has a new partner in his/her life. OK, now that you've spent some time analyzing your feelings and you're sure that the only reason you want your ex back is because you think the two of you can have a great relationship and you still love them, follow these steps:

1. Allow them space they need. This time, you should avoid texting/calling your ex. It's important that you both have breathing room so that you can each miss the other Communicating with your ex from time to time will not give your ex a fear that they really have lost you. When there's fear from your ex, he/she will become more amendable to try the things in the failed relationship one more time.

2. Take stock of the person you are and what you need to change. This can be a difficult thing for you as accepting your own flaws is hard to do as well, however if you desire to enter or re-enter into the best relationship in the future with your ex or with someone new, it is crucial to change what is ought to be changed. There's no point at all in going from one relationship to another or gaining the same relationship for the second time when you still bring with you your shortcomings and flaws. If you do that you will just leave a trail of destruction that will cause you and your ex a lot of pain.

3. While you are working out to improve some bad traits in yourself, take also some time to be with your family and friends and together, do the things that's enjoyable for you. This is your time to enjoy and live life to the fullest; the time to do things you love and give you happiness. Doing such thing instead of crying can make your ex think that you are still the same person he/she fell in love with.

These 3 best tips on how to get back together are proven effective and these can also work for you only when you submit yourself fully to the steps with determination and willingness.

Author's Bio: 

Johnny Wayne personally believes that all relationship can be saved but it all depends on how much effort is being put in. You can find out more about our Ex Recovery System Review and the tips on How To Fix a Broken Relationship.