Is attracting a lover difficult? Can you really attract your soul mate? How to attract the love of your life?

Many people wonder how to attract someone they really love. I talk to many people who are trying to find their soul mate and someone to share their life with, but they stay frustrated when they don’t get the results that they desire.

I see many unfortunately in negative relationships, where there is no emotional security, no love, and not loyalty. Yet, they stay with their current partner for various reasons such as lack of self confidence, low self esteem, and for not believing they really can attract the love of their life.

I always had high standards for the woman I want to be with and I wasn’t going to settle for anything less than what I want in a woman. I started applying what I have been learning in my journey in personal development and positive results started to appear in my life.

As I mentioned in my book “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals” you really can achieve everything you set your mind to, you just have to take action and apply what you learn in your life.

In this article, I’m going to tell you how I attracted the woman of my dreams who has over 97% of the inner and outer attributes that I want in a woman into my life.

If you want to learn how to attract a lover into your life, follow the steps below:

1. Know what you want

To be able to attract the lover you want, you first have to know the qualities and characteristics you want in a person. After all, how can you attract something that you are not clear about?

Write a list with all the qualities you want in your lover and read it a few times a day. This will help you focus on what you want.

When I attracted the woman of my dreams into my life, I knew the exact characteristics I want. I was very specific. Knowing the

qualities and the attributes I want in a mate has helped me to focus on what I want instead of what I don’t want.

2. Visualize

In my previous article “Does visualization really work?” I mentioned how visualization has helped me manifest some of my goals in life. When it comes to attracting a mate, it is very much recommended that you set a specific time to visualize daily.

I personally spent around 15-20 minutes every night visualizing myself with my dream woman. I included all the 5 senses as well.

Combining the 5 senses in your visualization helps you to feel the emotions as if they are real.

3. Faith

I had absolute faith that I’m going to find the woman of my dreams. I had trust in God that he will make everything happen. I didn’t know how and when I will find my partner; I just had faith that it is going to happen.

It is very important when you have faith to be unattached to the results. The chances are if you have strong faith, you will be unattached to the results, which will help you achieve your goal faster.

4. Persist

Many people when they try for a few months and nothing happens, they end up giving up due to lack of patience, belief, and persistence. Had I given up in 3 or even 6 months, I won’t have attracted the woman of my dreams. It took me 9 months to attract the woman I want. In return, my persistence has paid off.

Next time you want to give up, remember that you might be too close to achieving your goals and to attracting the partner you want. If others could do it, I could do it, you can do it too. You just have to become persistent.

5. Take an inspired action

When the time is right, you have got to act on the inspired action. If you do all the above, and fail to take action, then you won’t attract the mate you are dreaming of and all your work will go in vain.

Author's Bio: 

Dia Thabet

Do you know that only 3% of the world’s population manage to plan and reach their goals? The main goal for is to help you become from the top 3% of the world’s population who know how to achieve any goal they desire in all areas of life. ”The ultimate guide to achieve your goals” was released to help you achieve everything your heart desires