Before Meeting Your Soulmate Ask Yourself These 5 Questions

Before you ask “Where do I find my Soulmate?”, you need to ask if your ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate be drawn to? Are you still carrying all the
A lot emotional baggage from past relationships? You have to be open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that your search for a soulmate will bring into your life? If you want to be with someone who is fun, trust worthy responsible, are you putting your self out there to attract people with these qualities? Are you prepared for love? Are you ready to allow love?

Just as you are looking for certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worst thing that can happen to you is to find the person you believe is your soulmate and discover he’s not into you. Not that he doesn’t like you, but that he feels you’re not the right person for him. If you admire men who are financially responsible, then
He’s not going to find a woman deep in debt, over the limit and living pay check to pay check a good choice for a mate. But if you started clearing up your debt, living within your means and learming how to what will make him feel more secure is if you managed you money that some thing that’s important to him, is also important to you.

To be sure that you’re ready to meet your soulmate ask yourself these 5 questions.

What am I looking for in my soulmate? This is where some women get off track. There are some things that are definite deal breakers, but some things that you might list are not really as important. You'll never find a perfect person, no ones perfect. We all have faults, so you need to decide which faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Keep in mind the shorter your list the more possibilities for success. The longer the list the more you’re limiting your self and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate.

What qualities do I need to exude to attract my soulmate? What would he want. Think of the type of person you want to entice. What is it about you that would draw him in? Do you see your self possessing the qualities you want in him. Now I’m not saying change who you are, but if there are things that you’ve wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start the exercise program. Eat healthy. Straighten out your finances. Go back to school.Start looking for a better job. The things you put off until later, start them now. Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time.

What qualities do i have that will attract my soulmate now? Now that you’ve thought about what you are looking for and what he might be looking for, you can start looking at what qualities you might already have. Counting your assets. Count all your blessings. This can be the hard for a few people. So, ask your friends and family to tell you what makes you special. What is it about you that they like? You may be surprised by a lot of the answers. What have you been praised for in the past? What special talents and skills do you have? Make a list and look at it everyday.Add to it often and learn to acknowledge how great you are.

Am I ready for to have a relationship? Some people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more emotional baggage you have the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. Examining how we feel about our pasts can be hard. A few people don’t want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and free yourself from any anger or fear that you might have. Part of growing is realize that you’re a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling. Forgive the people in your past and move on. Never let pain and fear from your past control your future happiness. You could lighten your emotional load and get rid of some baggage. List 5 things in your past and find some way to close the doors on those relationships so you can open new ones.

What do I need to do to appeal to my soulmate? Get out there and meet men. You will not attract your soulmate if you don’t find a way to meet him. Make a profile on a dating site like Match.com, FriendFinder.com or PlentyofFish.com (which is a free site). Join activities or clubs for the things you're interested in. Join the gym. Go to sporting events. Try speed dating. Let your friends set you up a blind date. Put yourself in places where you can meet single men. List 5 places you can meet men and get started.

Being at your best will give you confidence. When a woman is confident she displays an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to dismiss these qualities. At this point you'll never have to ask yourself “Where can I find my soulmate?” again. You'll be drawing your soulmate to you.