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- Enmeshed Family: What Can Happen If Someone Grew Up In An Enmeshed Family? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is a separate being that has their own needs and feelings, based on how they typically behave, it can be as though they are merely an extension of others. They are then going to be focused on other people’s needs. Due to how caught up they are in other people’s lives, they ...
Views: 32 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Expect To Be Abandoned If His Mother Was Emotionally Unavailable? - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, a man may have been in a relationship that seemed to be going well and then, out of nowhere, it came to an end. As a result of this, he could be in a pretty bad way and find it hard to function. When he is not feeling low and flat, he could be filled with a deep sense of sadness and ...
Views: 38 - Mother Wounds: Why Would A Man Feel Emotionally Empty If He Is Not In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to experience a breakup, he might end up feeling very low and as though he is missing something. Due to this, it might not be long until he is having casual encounters with one or a number of women. Then again, and even if he was to have casual encounters with one woman, he might ...
Views: 37 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Believe That His Needs Are A Burden If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperHaving needs is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that a man will feel comfortable with all of his needs. So, when it comes to his basic needs, such as his need to eat and sleep, he could be fine. But, when it comes to his emotional needs, such as his need to be seen and ...
Views: 46 - Inner Critic: Can Someone Have A Critical Inner Voice If They Had A Critical Parent? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was able to record how they talk to themselves and then play it back through speakers, they could find that they are typically not very kind to themselves. By having externalised what is going on for them internally, it will have been easier for them to see what is going ...
Views: 36 - Shadow Side: Does Someone Incarnate With A Shadow Side? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperThere are those who had a childhood that was very nurturing and then there are those that didn’t. Along with this, there are those that had a childhood that was in the middle; neither very nurturing nor overly depriving. When it comes to someone who had a very loving childhood, it can seem as ...
Views: 38 - Healing Trauma and Your Inner Child - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2023 from Darlene LancerWe all have an “inner child,” which is an unconscious archetype coined by Carl Jung. It holds our vulnerability, spontaneity, creativity, curiosity, and magical ideas. It also holds fears, anxiety, shame, loneliness, and insecurity experienced growing up and is a vital part in healing ...
Views: 43(1 vote) - Is My Relationship Toxic? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2023 from Darlene LancerIt's a question I hear over and over from people ... "Is my relationship toxic?" Healthy relationships nourish and support us. Like poison, a toxic relationship is one that is damaging to us. Instead of uplifting us, it makes us feel worse. When it ends, we might experience trauma, ...
Views: 45(1 vote) - False Self: Why Would A Man Have The Need To Come Across As Extremely Masculine? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperBased on how a man comes across, he might appear to have more in common with a superhero than a human being. The reason for this is that he might not just be somewhat masculine, he could be exceptionally masculine. Due to this, it might not matter where he is or who he is with, as he could ...
Views: 35 - Disconnected: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their True Self? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone is born, they are going to be an embodied human being. That is, of course, unless their time in their mother’s womb and their birth was not traumatic. By receiving the right attunement and care throughout this time, their connection to themselves will be supported and ...
Views: 34 - Grieving: Is Grieving An Important Part Of Being Able To Embrace Life? - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperExperiencing loss is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that someone will grieve after they have experienced a loss. As a result of this, they can do their best to carry on as normal. Still, this is not to say that they will consciously avoid how they feel as this can be ...
Views: 37 - GAP-CLOSING - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2023 from William CottringerGAP-CLOSING By Bill Cottringer Life is all the stuff that happens in between acknowledging our gaps and trying to deal with them. ~The author. We are all confronted with problem gaps than need closing solutions in life. The differences are in the nature and priority of these gaps ...
Views: 41 - Happiness: Can Someone Feel Guilty For Being Happy If They Grew Up With A Depressed Parent? - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone feels happy, they could soon feel uncomfortable and their inner state could change thereafter. This could be something that is the rule as opposed to the exception. But, if this is something that is normal, it might not be something that stands out. As a result of this, they are ...
Views: 38 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Fear Women If He Had An Emotionally Unstable Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man could see, if he was to reflect on his life, is that he has the tendency to keep women at a distance. He could find that this is something that typically just happens, without him consciously choosing to be this way. This can mean he has been single for most of his life and has ...
Views: 31 - Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Grew Up In An Oppressive Environment? - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, they may see that they don’t have a strong connection with their feelings. As a result, they are going to spend a lot of time in a disconnected state. Not being in tune with this part of them is going to undermine them. This is ...
Views: 35 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Carrying Underdeveloped Parts Inside His Consciousness? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperEven if a man is unable to see that he is out of balance by putting his mother’s needs first, there might be people in his life that are able to see clearly. So, he could have at least one friend and/or perhaps a family member who is aware of what is going on. This person could struggle to ...
Views: 50 - Navigating a Crystal Shop to Find the Right Rocks for You - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2023 from Alex NickIf you've looked into clairsentience power psychics online, you may have noticed that some mediums use crystals to enhance their abilities. Did you know that you can also utilize crystals, even if you don't possess well-developed psychic powers? You can use them for meditation, healing and even ...
Views: 46 - Remember the Big Things - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2023 from Rick HansonIn every life, reminders arrive about what's really important. I’ve received some myself, as I’m sure you have, too. Perhaps it was news of a potentially serious health problem, the death of a loved one, or an accident that could have turned fatal. These are uncomfortably concrete messages ...
Views: 41 - Boundaries: Can Someone Lack Boundaries If They Were Treated Like An Object During Their Early Years? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAs someone is a separate individual, with their own needs and feelings, it is not going to be possible for them to always say yes and to do what another person wants or suggests. If they were merely an extension of others, this wouldn’t be the case. However, while they will need to say no at ...
Views: 51 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Focus On A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Avoid Herself? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAfter having been with a man who is overly focused on his mother for however long, a woman could have spent a fair amount of time trying to understand why he is the way that he is. This could be something that has been going on for a number of weeks, months or even years. Throughout this ...
Views: 37 - Unveiling the Secrets of Non-Surgical Body Sculpting: A Revolution in Aesthetic Transformation - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2023 from Saba AlamUnveiling the Secrets of Non-Surgical Body Sculpting: A Revolution in Aesthetic Transformation In recent years, the world of cosmetic enhancements has witnessed a remarkable technological advancement, offering individuals new ways to achieve their desired physique without undergoing invasive ...
Views: 48 - The Rise of Online Therapy: Exploring the Growth and Benefits - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2023 from Saba AlamIn recent years, there has been a significant shift in the way mental health services are delivered, with the rise of online therapy revolutionizing the field of psychology. The traditional face-to-face therapy sessions have now been complemented and, in some cases, replaced by virtual ...
Views: 48 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Woman Need To Understand The Law Of Resonance If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman has been in a number of relationships where the man was overly focused on his mother’s needs, she could be ready to turn her back on this area of her life. She might believe that it is better for her to stay single. She is simply not going to want to be with another man who is like ...
Views: 51 - Relationships: Can A Relationship Allow Someone To Meet Their ‘Shadow?’ - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has met another person who they are attracted to and is getting to know them, they can have only good things to say about them. Not only this, but they can want to spend a lot of time with them. If they take the next step and end up in a relationship with them, they can end up ...
Views: 36 - How to Support a Loved One with Depression - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2023 from Radhika SinghHelping someone who is depressed can be difficult. If you know someone who is depressed, you might feel helpless and unsure of what to do. Learn how to assist, comprehend, and assist them in obtaining the resources they require. You will be better able to assist someone else if you have a better ...
Views: 47 - Botox for Wrinkles: Treatment Options and Effectiveness - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2023 from Saba AlamAs we age, the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines becomes an inevitable part of our lives. While these signs of aging are natural, many individuals seek ways to reduce their visibility and regain a youthful appearance. One popular treatment option that has gained immense popularity is Botox. ...
Views: 47 - Inner Darkness: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Darkness If They Have The Need To Be Positive All The Time? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to self-development, a lot is often said about the importance of being positive. The impact that this will have on how someone feels, their relationships and their ability to attain what they desire is typically mentioned. With this in mind, if someone is into self-development, ...
Views: 51 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man See Women As A Threat To His Survival If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperEven if a man has the desire to connect with and develop a deeper connection with a woman, it doesn’t mean that he will be able to achieve this aim. So, if he has been able to connect with at least one woman, he might not have been able to take things further. Then again, he might not have ...
Views: 42 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Wouldn’t A Woman Be Able To Accept That She Doesn’t Randomly End Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperTo have been with one man who was overly focused on his mother would have been a lot to deal with, and, therefore, if a woman has been with a number of men who were like this, it is not going to be a surprise if she is well and truly fed up. For however long, she will have wanted to be with a ...
Views: 54 - Where to buy Modafinil? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2023 from Saba AlamIn this article we will make an effort to determine the various sources from where you can purchase the modafinil medication. Before we find out how we can get this medicine let us know more about this drug and its use. What is modafinil? Modafinil comes under the brand name of ...
Views: 50 - Rest - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2023 from Rick HansonThis practice is definitely a case of teaching what you need to learn: I've been working through a big bucket of tasks lately with little chance to rest. (I console myself knowing that the bucket is emptying a lot faster than it's filling with new tasks.) Sometimes you can really feel what ...
Views: 43 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause A Man To Be Addicted To Porn? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAt this point in time, a man could be in a position where practically his whole life revolves around viewing porn. Therefore, if he is not working or spending time with friends, for instance, he could be viewing it. Then again, there could be moments when he views it when he is at work. If ...
Views: 46 - Be a Winner of the Conflict Trifecta - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from William CottringerBe a Winner of the Conflict Trifecta By Bill Cottringer Conflict is the beginning of consciousness. ~M. Esther Harding. There are three main types of conflicts—against life, between others, and within ourselves—which we all face in trying to get through life and live our own ...
Views: 53 - Exploring the Power of Flow in Golf - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Leon EdwardIn the world of golf, achieving peak performance goes beyond physical skills and technique. It requires a delicate balance of focus, relaxation, and mental prowess. This is where the concept of flow comes in – a state of mind that can significantly enhance a golfer's performance on the course. ...
Views: 52 - The Essence of Purpose: Unleashing Joy in Life's Journey - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn the pursuit of a joyful and fulfilling life, few things are as crucial as finding and embracing our purpose. Purpose gives our lives direction, meaning, and a sense of fulfillment that transcends daily routines. In this article, we will delve into the significance of purpose and how it serves ...
Views: 52 - The Power of Goals: How Pursuing Your Dreams Can Bring Happiness - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Barry ShoreGoals are not merely targets we set; they are powerful catalysts for personal growth and fulfillment. Beyond the satisfaction of achieving milestones, the pursuit of goals plays a significant role in our overall happiness. In this article, we will explore the ways in which having goals can bring ...
Views: 40 - Cultivating Joy: Embracing Happiness in Busy Lives - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn today's fast-paced and demanding world, finding joy in our daily lives has become more important than ever. Busy professionals often find themselves caught up in the hustle and bustle of work, leaving little time for self-care and moments of happiness. However, it is crucial to ...
Views: 40 - The Power of Movement: Prioritizing Mental Health in a Sedentary Lifestyle - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn today's fast-paced world, where busy professionals devote most of their time to work, the importance of self-care often takes a backseat. As we increasingly rely on sedentary routines, it's crucial to recognize the profound impact that movement can have on our mental health and overall ...
Views: 48 - OnlyFans: Why Would A Man Be Drawn To OnlyFans? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperThanks to a platform that offers a ‘virtual girlfriend experience’, a man can receive far more than he did in the past. Before this platform was available, he would have been able to view pictures and videos of a woman but that would have been about it. Now, by paying a certain fee to a ...
Views: 46 - Critical Thinking: Are Some Men’s Lives Being Ruined By OnlyFans? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperFor many, many years now, it has been relatively easy for a man to access adult content. The only thing that he has needed is a device and an internet connection, with this giving him the ability to view an endless amount of pictures and videos. In recent years, however, a man can not only ...
Views: 35 - Developmental Trauma: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Falling Apart If They Experienced Developmental Trauma? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperBased on how someone typically comes across, they can appear to be a together human being. However, beyond the impression that they create can be someone who doesn’t have firm foundations. Thanks to how they live their life, though this could be something that they are not fully aware of. ...
Views: 51 - Relationships: Can It Be Hard For Someone To Bond With Others If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAs someone is an interdependent human being, it means that they are not their own island. As a result of this, they are not on this earth to do everything by themselves and to always be in their company. Likewise, they are also not here to look towards others to do everything for them and to ...
Views: 39 - How to Prepare for Couple Counseling Sessions - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2023 from Radhika SinghBefore we delve into preparation, let’s take a look at what exactly couple counselling or therapy is. Couple Counselling is a type of psychotherapy that uses well-researched methods and techniques to help couples identify and resolve conflicts in their relationships. It may begin with ...
Views: 56 - Do You Think Opposites Attract? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2023 from Marcia Naomi BergerIf you think opposites attract, think again! Just about everyone believes that opposites attract, but they don’t. Yet many relationship experts write that people seek partners whose traits complement their own. THE OPPOSITES ATTRACT MYTH It’s a myth that opposites attract, states Matthew ...
Views: 57 - Personal Power: Can A Man Reject His Power If He Was Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for a man to be walked over by others and to do what other people want. He is then not going to stand up for himself and he will act as though he is an extension of others. As a result of this, he is likely to often be in a very low place and experience a fair amount of ...
Views: 37 - Learned Helplessness: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Believe That They Are Helpless? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might soon stand out is that their life is not very fulfilling. So, just about every area of it might not be going how they would like it to go. Now, this might be something that has been at the back of their mind for quite ...
Views: 40 - The Importance of Healthy Habits and Positive Routines - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2023 from Saba AlamTo maximize productivity and enhance your well-being, maintaining healthy habits and positive routines is crucial. Discover the profound connection between habits and productivity, along with the significant impact habits have on your overall well-being. Unlock the potential for a more ...
Views: 55 - Relax, You've Arrived - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2023 from Rick HansonWe spend so much of our time trying to get somewhere. Part of this comes from our biological nature. To survive, animals – including us – have to be goal-directed, leaning into the future. It’s certainly healthy to pursue wholesome aims, like paying the rent on time, raising children well, ...
Views: 46 - Mother Wounds: Can A Fear Of Abandonment Cause A Man To Be A ‘Nice Guy’ Around Women? - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a man is around a woman, he could typically lose himself. In other words, he won’t be in touch with and express his true self; no, he will end up putting on an act. As a result of this, he can be easy-going, needless and have a strong need to please. By being this way, it is likely to be ...
Views: 44 - Mother Wounds: Can A Fear Of Abandonment Cause A Man To Be A ‘Nice Guy’? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, a man could be easy-going, needless and do his best to please others. He is then rarely if ever going to assert himself, express his needs or disagree with what another person says. But, although how he comes across won’t be a reflection of who he really is; he could believe that ...
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