I remember when I came to the realization that I frequently didn’t do what I knew I should do, and that I often did things I knew I shouldn’t do.
It was 1982 and I had just gotten married. I was taking stock of my life. I realized I was totally committed to exercising regularly, I knew all ... Views: 2712
Do you often walk away from people thinking, “Did I say the right thing”; did I offend someone”; “should I have said or asked …”?
Do you frequently hear that “little voice” in your head saying: “What will they think?”?
Do you often feel you need to be a certain way and you can’t just be ... Views: 959
Would you like to get rid of the anxiety or anger you feel much of the time?
Because many emotions are caused by beliefs, getting rid of the beliefs can frequently eradicate negative emotions. For example, the belief that “Dogs are dangerous” will result in an emotion of fear when ... Views: 932
Although most people think that behavior change usually is difficult and does not happen overnight, I disagree. About 24 years ago I developed the first in a series of interventions that literally do produce rapid and permanent change. The primary one, the Lefkoe Belief ProcessTM (LBP), ... Views: 844
A few years ago Leeza Gibbons devoted the entire hour of her daytime talk show to an investigation of the causes and cures for prejudice. I had been on the show before talking about how beliefs cause most of our thoughts, feelings, and behavior, so she asked me to come back to discuss the ... Views: 801
Why are so many of us “driven” compulsively to seek or do things that frequently aren’t in our own best self-interest?
You probably aren’t surprised that my answer is: beliefs. But there is a specific type of belief that results in “driven” behavior. And it is formed in a very specific way. ... Views: 745
"Yeah, sure," you might say. "And how exactly am I supposed to get rid of all the stressful things in my life?"
Here’s how I answered that question for myself.
I was filled with anxiety for most of my life. I worried about what people thought of me, I was worried about not having enough ... Views: 694
Many psychotherapists tell us that our current difficulties are a direct result of our childhoods. As a result many people “blame” their parents for any upsets or suffering they experience as adults.
When you eliminate a belief using the Lefkoe Belief Process it becomes quite clear that ... Views: 694
Back in 1984 my life was not going very well at all. I was a management consultant with very few clients. I was on my third marriage and we were arguing a lot. I had a two-year old baby girl and money was really scarce.
Right after New Year’s Day in 1985 I was on a plane from New York to ... Views: 636