No one likes to be criticized. I wish I could avoid it completely, but that’s not the way life works.
I have spent many an hour listening to clients complain about the criticism they receive from parents, spouses, and bosses. They clearly need my empathy and understanding and perhaps ... Views: 1153
“Overcoming Excuses” (Part One):
You are two weeks into your new weight-loss program. You are following a well-balanced dietary plan and you are exercising more. Then one night, you feel a strong urge to polish off a bag of potato chips or a carton of ice cream. As you head for the ... Views: 1075
Overcoming Excuses: (Part Two)
In a recent newsletter, I taught you the technique of writing out your excuses in advance, finding the lie in them, and writing a gentle but firm rebuttal for each one.
I then suggested that you write each rebuttal on an index card, carry the cards around with ... Views: 988
There’s a fairly simple explanation for all social anxiety. It is caused by the unfortunate mental habit of “mind reading.” That is, we imagine what other people are thinking about us. “Do I look good?” “Do I sound intelligent?” Our unstated mission is “I must make them feel good about me!” ... Views: 1112