Divorce sometimes offers an illusion of happiness to people of all ages. Approximately 65% of all divorce in this country is filed by women. So why are so many women giving up on their marriages?
During the early stages of a marriage, women are usually the premier care takers of the ... Views: 1213
I once heard a man tell me that he does not feel the same way he always felt about his marriage. I asked him "Why?" He said that his marriage lack the excitement that he see in other marriages and that it is not as glamorous as the Hollywood marriages with some of their steamy sex scenes.
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Getting to the root cause of problems in a marriage can be challenging. One way of doing this is to dig into the past of each person involved, either with the help of a therapist or by yourself; to discover how past experiences helped to shape your lives today.
While all this may be good ... Views: 996
Take an in depth look at your marriage; would your spouse say that you are critical or complimentary? In most cases that I have seen, the spouses said that their partners were more critical.
If we really think about it, we are not shy about telling our love ones what we dislike about ... Views: 855
Many married people consult a divorce attorney before making a final decision on their marriage, most times to check out their rights. This is not a bad idea. However, remember that it is not the attorney's job to say to you 'try to reconcile and work things out, or seek counseling for a ... Views: 753
Some people love to ‘Fix it all’, to the point where fixing their marriage becomes a central focus.
While this may seem like a good idea, the challenge with it is that relationships, for the most part, are like see-saws. The more one person does something, the less the other ... Views: 745
We are all creatures of habit. Many times we are on auto pilot. We take the same route to work everyday. We sleep on the same side of the bed every night. At the dining room table we sit in the same chair.
While being on autopilot allows us to economize and requires less concentration on ... Views: 713
My friend James works really hard. On weekends, most times, he just wants to relax and unwind and prepare for the week ahead. His wife Sherry, on the other hand is a very active person who likes to be on the go during week ends.
One day Sherry said to James, “I think our marriage is rather ... Views: 710
Being a strong advocate of the marriage vows; I am convinced that outside of extreme circumstances such as physical or severe substance abuse, chronic infidelity, and your spouse is not willing to change any of these for the sake of the marriage, I do believe that most marriages can be ... Views: 700
I have seen on many occasions where a husband and wife may have an issue. And both spouses confide in some one else outside the marriage. This has both good and bad consequences.
First, when you share your unhappiness with some one else, what they hear is your side of the story, and your ... Views: 673