Couples have "dumb" fights when they don't have a clue about what they are really fighting about.
Fights about stuff like buying the wrong bagels, bedroom frustration, and clothes strewn on the floor are really about someone feeling neglected, ignored, or misunderstood.
When we feel ... Views: 2282
You find someone that you adore and your relationship is truly BLISS...for about 6 months.
Sooner or later, you realize that this person that you thought would be the ANSWER, can sometimes be the PROBLEM! Even the best relationship can start out with BLISS, promise and expectation but ... Views: 1709
Dear Guru,
I am looking for a therapist for my boyfriend and/or myself. We've been together for the better part of 6 years and he suffers from what I believe- based mostly on the book "He's Scared She's Scared" and our history together- to have fairly severe commitmentphobia.
I am hoping ... Views: 6175
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10 Smart Moves for Dumb Fights - by Rhonda Audia, LISW (founder of The Guru For Two Counseling Center in Cincinnati, Ohio.)
Tell me about your last "dumb fight."
You have got to know, first, that you are not alone. Most couples that have loving relationships get bogged down with repeated, energy draining, “dumb fights.”
Usually the conflict is over silly things like rinsing out coffee cups and closing ... Views: 2475
It's been a long time coming but I think it's finally time that I make a stand about couples counseling.
If people are telling couples that their problems will be over when they discover the source of their conflict and eliminate it -- I believe they are wrong.
I'm not sure exactly what ... Views: 1711
DON’T LET THE ECONOMY MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP “SUB-PRIME”
Rhonda Audia – the “Guru for Two”
Your dream house has become a nightmare. Because of great interest rates and an adjustable mortgage, you were able to get everything you’ve always wanted in a ... Views: 1740