After 8 years of sweaty hands and heart palpitations before packing up a car for a visit to my MIL’s house at holiday time, I figured enough was enough. How could this little old lady with the rheumatoid arthritis and wig cause such fear and trepidation? Coming up with some strategies was an ... Views: 2027
1) Advice
This is something that all parents give, regardless of in-law status or not. However, when our mother-in-law offers us advice (particularly of the unsolicited persuasion) there is a specific formula that we must adhere to in order to preserve our sanity. And that is to thank her ... Views: 1713
Mistake #1 –– Don’t be Objective When Your MIL Criticizes You –– You must always remember your objectivity!
Solution: If your MIL tells you your hair looks better the other way, enthusiastically thank her by solidly agreeing how difficult it is to be objective about yourself. Then style it ... Views: 1650
Your MIL is coming! As your mother-in-law is due to arrive in a couple of hours, your hands sweat and your heart begins to palpitate as you quickly try to neaten and straighten the house to perfection. HELP! Can you possibly live up to her standards? Will anything you do be to her satisfaction? ... Views: 1650
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For the newlywed daughter-in-law, here are five more simple (but not always easy) strategies to follow. You will soon reap the benefits of this advice. For example - want to lose weight? Forget Atkins! Make friends with your mother-in-law! She'll come over, watch the kids, and YOU can go to ... Views: 1358
Okay ladies, here are a just a few more tips when preparing for that visit from your husbands other woman. It just takes a bit of effort, but will make all the difference in the world and you can begin to actually look forward (almost) to her arrival. After all, it means a lot less cooking and ... Views: 1167
The Daughter-in-Law Newlywed: What to Do When The Honeymoon is Over (Literally!)
So, you’ve just stepped off the bus–do not delay! You must take these 5 rules and place them in your arsenal of weaponry immediately!!! It is often the most vulnerable time for a daughter-in-law (although you ... Views: 1164
Okay ladies, here are a just a few more tips when preparing for that visit from your husbands other woman. It just takes a bit of effort, but will make all the difference in the world and you can begin to actually look forward (almost) to her arrival. After all, it means a lot less cooking and ... Views: 1153
Ladies! There are a few simple things you can avoid that will save you from repeat D.I.L.Z. (Daughter-in-Law Zings) that we all experience from time to time (some of us more than others!). Although these exercises started off as a tongue-in-cheek coping mechanism, once I began putting a few of ... Views: 1153
There are a few key things that you need to be aware of, before going over to your MIL’s place. First of all, know in advance that you will be making mistakes, but this is actually good, because you will take specific, and copious notes that will provide you with plenty of material for ... Views: 1105