How many times a day do we wonder: am i attractive enough? The answer is not simple, yet it is. You are and you are not. It depends on to whom you are talking and what you mean by attractive. Why do we play this “attractive” game when we don’t know what we want to achieve by trying so hard to be ... Views: 11642
Oh, yes they do! Now, let’s see how this works. I understand that it is a generalization, but we are generally either men or women, so this would apply to all of us to a larger or smaller degree whether we are aware of it or not.
Everyone knows what a man’s agenda is, at least at the ... Views: 4979
Are we our feelings, or we just have them? Sometimes it seems that we are made of them. Feelings pervade our every day lives. How do we manage them and how we use them or abuse them? We have good feelings and bad feelings. When we feel good we appear to be a totally different person than when ... Views: 4853
This is what the dictionary says about what we mean by Humility:
humility |(h)yo??milit?|
noun
a modest or low view of one's own importance; humbleness.
But is this really enough to grasp the whole importance humility plays, or does NOT play in our lives? Is being humble a positive or ... Views: 4116
I asked my good friend Philip, an Aikido practitioner, to wrote this article because when I first time heard of this technique I immediately recognized it as a gold mine for resolving relationship conflicts (although this particular story is about a conflict with a neighbor) and and at the same ... Views: 2201
Reacting means to act again, re–act. Reacting is based on what we already know and often so well that we do it automatically. Some reactions are very useful for our survival, like pulling our hand back from a hot furnace or jumping away from an oncoming car. In other words when our bodies sense ... Views: 2110
In the last few years since I’ve been selling The Relationship Saver and coaching people in their relationships, I have come to see an interesting trend in age-old beliefs and behaviors taken for granted, never questioning whether they work or if there is a better way to do things. Namely, there ... Views: 1836
Certainly not; your wedding wasn't. Let me try and explain, but first let me say what prompted me to write this article. I'll make it short. I recently talked to the parents of a couple who was about to get divorced and they said: "We cannot do anything about it. It's their business and their ... Views: 1756
After buying and reading the Relationship Saver, some people ask for coaching. One of the most frequent reasons they mention for their partner leaving them is either they say their partner does not love them, or is not in love with them any more. These two may sound very similar ... Views: 1755
Here is the theme and the statement of the day: In order for any relationship to work and have any lasting prospect of existence what it must have first and foremost is INTEGRITY.
So, what is this thing we call integrity? We use the word usually in relationship with others, like ... Views: 1719
After dealing with thousands of people and their relationships, it became very obvious to me that the people who are looking for relationship help usually seek it after they have exhausted all the knowledge and tricks they themselves had up their sleeve. By the time they start looking for ... Views: 1624