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- Jealousy in Relationships Can Be Unhealthy - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2012 from Cheri ValentineAt the root of jealousy is insecurity, low self-worth, lack of trust, and fear of abandonment. The irony is that because this is where you energy stems, you actually attract what you do not want. Jealousy can erode a relationship. Trust is a very important element to a successful and healthy ...
Views: 709 - Caught Between An Ex and a New Possibility - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2012 from Cheri ValentineYesterday, one of my clients reached out to me. In our sessions, we have been releasing the hurt, disappointment and anger at the man she loves. We’ve helped ease the pain of missing him, too. She is diligently working on her daily gratitude project. In creating her attraction plan for the ...
Views: 739 - Grow Your Inspired Relationships Like Your Garden, with love - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Cheri ValentineWhen you want to enjoy a beautiful garden of scents and explosion of visual colors,you begin with planting the seeds. Then you water, feed, and nurture them so that the seeds can blossom into a wondrous, uplifting garden. Relationships are no different. If you want to enjoy inspired and ...
Views: 995 - Breathing Life Into Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2012 from Cheri ValentineHow do you begin your day? Do you jump out of bed, dash to the gym, and then rush to work from there? When the alarm wakes you from slumber, do you give yourself a moment before the mad rush of your day takes over? You have so many responsibilities between work and family. Most of the time ...
Views: 927 - Sadie Jackson Valentine’s Day Blues - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2012 from Cheri ValentineIt’s here again! That dreaded day of hearts, chocolates and flowers! How unoriginal, how boring, how lonely! Here I am, facing another romantic love holiday – Valentine’s Day with no one special in my life to celebrate this day with me. How did another year come and go without Prince Charming ...
Views: 852 - Facing Our Fears - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineAs I embark on the project of writing a book, so many fears have shown up for me. I am still working through them. I am fortunate that I have so many tools available to me to use, and I am engaging many of them. Meditation, yoga, walking, energy work, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and ...
Views: 1035(1 vote) - How I finally had healthy relationships, found myself, and my ideal love partner - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineMy own personal healing and growth in the physical, spiritual and emotional realm has been greatly enhanced by practicing EFT regularly. I have invested in working with several highly qualified and trained EFT coaches who have facilitated my own healing and growth in many areas of my own life, ...
Views: 1048 - Online Dating Tips - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineIf you’re looking for that someone special you may be curious about online dating. An online dating site can contribute to your search in finding the person who is right for you. Here are three three tips to help you get started: 1. Decide what type of online dating service is right for ...
Views: 891 - You Are Never Too Old for Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineRecently, I received a call from a woman and her belief is that she is too old. She is turning 70 this year, and has been advised to lie on her online profiles. She does not feel right doing this and asked me for my advice. My response was that I could easily hear in her own voice how ...
Views: 988(3 votes) - I’m Too Picky for Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineI remember when I thought after two marriages that I would love being single. I could not imagine that I would want to give up my space and freedom again. That was true for a while. Then I realized that deep down I like being coupled, but not for the sake of being with another – I had a strong ...
Views: 1019(1 vote) - Excuses That Keep You From Love – too much baggage - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineToday’s topic for tapping is the myth that you have too much baggage for anyone to love you – so not true, yet if you believe it, then it is! So let’s bust that belief and embrace one that is more empowering for you. Hi. I’m Cheri Valentine and I’m back to do some more tapping with you on ...
Views: 1520 - Attracting Love and Tapping on Migraines – is there a connection? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineOne of my clients, Carson* called me last week. She was concerned about how comfortable she was with communicating with more than one man at a time in her dating life. So we set up an appointment for a coaching session since it had been some time. I chuckle to think that this was her concern ...
Views: 634 - Power, Strength, Royalty, Feminine and Love - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Cheri ValentineIn mediation class last night, we ended with looking at creative rings in our energy fields for next steps and the integration of the creative rings which represent our body, mind, and spirit – Thank you Seven Levels Coaching. I was intrigued with what I saw – a dark shadow of a man in a ...
Views: 963 - Don’t Let This excuse keep you from love – all the good ones are taken - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Cheri ValentineIn previous posts I talked about how false beliefs that we are holding can interfere with our allowing Mr.or Mrs. WOW into our life. Naturally, most of you are unaware that you are doing this, yet since working with so many people I’ve found that if we look at your situation deeply and honestly, ...
Views: 830 - Love and Valentine’s Day - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Cheri ValentineWith a name like Cheri Valentine, I am often told how can I be doing any thing other than helping people find love. Although initially people associate finding love with finding a partner, to me love is so much more. Love is the air we breathe, the essence of our being. Love has the power to ...
Views: 610 - Tapping to love and so much more - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Cheri ValentineThis morning after receiving an email from Nick Ortner of The Tapping Solution I felt compelled to respond to his blog, and want to also share his email tip with you! EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as “tapping” as been a great gift for me personally, and I have finally embraced ...
Views: 814 - Sadie Jackson’s Dating Escapades – False Advertisement - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Cheri Valentine“Oh, good Lord! That cannot possibly be the man I am meeting tonight,” I exclaimed out loud to no one in particular. “Excuse me,” I said to the waiter passing by, ““Is that portly man, and I am being kind, mind you, waiting for anyone in particular?” Before the waiter could answer, the ...
Views: 1074 - Mental Scan of Potentiality - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineDating is an opportunity to Get out and socialize. Have an open mind! Stop screening everyone as a potential and likely candidate for the perfect mate and start enjoying people and experiences for the pleasure of them. Start living and being present with the people whom you meet rather than ...
Views: 708(3 votes) - Wanting vs Ready to Be in Love - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSo many people want to be in love. It's a great place to be when it is healthy and satisfying your requirements, needs, and wants. Yet so few people are really clear about what these are for them. If you've been in relationships that have ended, and you have allowed yourself time for grieving, ...
Views: 817(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - What To Talk About On A First Date - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIf you haven’t been on the dating field in a while, it can be daunting to get started again. Even for seasoned professionals, that first date can be so awkward and uncomfortable. The most common complaint that I hear is, “I don’t know what to say.” If you get tongue-tied when faced with new ...
Views: 725 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Happiness Attracts Happiness - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIt is nearly impossible to escape hearing the words “Law of Attraction” especially with the explosion of “The Secret.” While it is great that this book and movie have helped more people become aware of the power of this law, there is so much more to it than simply just wanting something and ...
Views: 1226 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Setting Boundaries In Life and In Dating - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSetting personal boundaries is important in relationships. It allows you to be centered, indicates to others how to treat you, and helps you find the right person. If we do not set personal boundaries, we can become resentful, stressed, and quickly disappointed in attempts at dating. We ...
Views: 1072(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Who Are You Bee-ing? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIn your search for Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right have you ever stopped to consider who you are being in this search? When you look at who you are and the why of it, it helps you to act from a place of intention. This is helpful in both everyday life and particular situations. There are several parts ...
Views: 716 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Where To Find Them? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIn searching for Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right, I am often asked, “Where Can I Find Them?” Many do not enjoy going to bars and feel like a fish out of water when they do go. Other people think they are too busy to look. First of all you can find them anywhere doing what you already do. This works ...
Views: 663(1 vote) - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Be Passionate About You - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSo many men and women tell me they want a mate in their life. Some just do not want to be alone. Others think it will make their life easier. While many others just want to have someone with whom to share their life. How many of you have considered the possibility of sharing yourself? I ...
Views: 735 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - No Need To Settle - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSo many people tell me that it’s impossible to find someone who is everything that they want, and that they must settle. This is only true if you believe it to be. You can spend your time thinking that you will never meet the right mate OR you can think thoughts that affirm you will meet a ...
Views: 802 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Believe In You First - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineDo you believe you are worthy of being loved? Finding Mr./Mrs./Ms. Right begins with you believing that there is one person in this world just waiting to love you. It is important to know who you are, what your values are, what your beliefs are, and what it means to you to be in a relationship. ...
Views: 759 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Where To Start? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Cheri ValentineHave you convinced yourself that you are destined to being alone because Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right does not exist? If so, please take a deep breath. Now, allow yourself to believe the possibility of finding them is very real. The universal law of attraction states that what you focus on expands ...
Views: 686 - Stop Looking for “Your Type” - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineYou think you know your type In fact, you are sure of it. You have actually dated them, perhaps even married them – more than once on both counts. So, let me ask you, if you know your type so well, why are you still looking for Mr. Right? Get over your type and open your mind, your ...
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