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- Possibilities in Relationships - by Do you have a history of painful, unfulfilling relationships? Do you want to stop dating the same type of partners over and over again? Do you want to find a partner who is an easy match for you? Do you want a relationship that goes beyond your expectations and fills you with joy?
You are not ...
Views: 838 - Top 10 things not to do if you want to be considered a great catch by the opposite sex - by This list was developed by listening to singles talk about what they want in relationships, how they evaluate potential partners and why they reject them.
1. Don't be unavailable.
This one is the number one complaint with singles. Again and again, people say they are available when in ...
Views: 920 - How to Choose a Partner - by There are many single people looking for a relationship, but not necessarily finding the one. I hear it all the time in my practice. Single clients and friends tell me they have tried personal ads, dating services and the Internet. Some get their friends to set them up on blind dates. Many go to ...
Views: 731 - Letting Go of Love, Part I - by Most people have relationships in their past that didn't work. Many people have one such relationship that is very hard to let go of. This is the one that got away, but shouldn't have. This is the one that felt as if it was meant to be. This is the one that felt like true love. This type of a ...
Views: 822 - Letting Go of Love, Part II - by Note: "He" and "him" is used throughout this article to make for easy reading. However, the article is applicable to both genders, so any "he" can be substituted with "she."
Last week we talked about letting go of a particular kind of past relationship. It was the kind of relationship where ...
Views: 4687(2 votes) - Ask Right and You May Receive - by Whether in an intimate or another kind of a relationship, how easily do you get what you ask for? And, how easily do you ask for what you want or need?
Many people are frustrated in all sorts of relationships, seemingly unable to get what they need or want. Sometimes not getting what you want ...
Views: 1073(1 vote) - False Advertising or the Benefit of Being All of You - by Imagine that you go to a car dealership and buy a sports car. You take it home, park it in your garage and turn in for the night. The next morning you open up your garage and find a luxury coupe. The sports car is nowhere in sight. Read on to find out what happened with your sports car.
In the ...
Views: 732 - Six Sure-Fire Steps to Become a Love Magnet(c) - by Want to become a love magnet? Want to attract true love or improve your relationship?
Good, because you deserve to be loved! And, lucky you, I will show you how to attract that love by working on the person you see when you look in the mirror.
That's right. Although you're seeking love from ...
Views: 728 - Discovering the Patterns in Your Relationships - by Relationship choices are often based on a pattern created in our childhood. This pattern are automatic and unconscious. We believe this is the way relationships ought to be.
There is no problem having a pattern that lends you in loving, satisfying, long-term relationships. However, more and ...
Views: 1022 - Bringing Romance Back - by Romance dies, that’s a fact, right? When you find the love of your life, you'll both settle into a daily routine of financial, household, and child responsibilities, forgetting you are a couple, right? Romance will only last through the initial crush of the relationship. After that you and your ...
Views: 732 - How to attract true love - by Most singles want to know how to attract true love. Below are nine steps tested out on a number of singles who voted them to be extremely useful.
1. Believe it's possible for you to have a long-term, loving, wonderful relationship
Many singles hope for a wonderful relationship, but few ...
Views: 786 - Why Romance Dies - by Romance is how most relationships begin. We anticipate being with our partner, give flowers, write cards, shower each other with attention and affection, stage seductions, etc. But somewhere down the road, the romance begins to fade. It happens so often that it seems ordinary, expected, natural. ...
Views: 1042 - Feel - by Recently I had a conversation with a friend about relationships.
She told me she does not have a relationship and has not had one for the last few years. I asked her if she was complete with her divorce and the relationship right after that. She said she had no feeling left about her old ...
Views: 747 - How to Stop Being Single - by Are you single but don't want to be? If so, are you also not dating?
You're not alone. Many singles who want to be in a committed relationship tend to date very rarely or not at all. And they can't really be blamed. After all, how do you date if you have trouble finding people to date? How do ...
Views: 1023 - How to open up while staying safe - by When you've had your heart broken in a relationship, it can be difficult to open up to love again and entrust your heart to another person.
Similarly, when your partner hurts you, it can difficult to open up and bring trust back into your relationship. It's hard to give your heart back to ...
Views: 867 - Surviving Valentine's Day - by I ran across something on another website the other day that shocked me. It went something like this: Don't be in the doghouse this Valentine's Day...buy XYZ. Later I spoke to one of my single clients who asked me to help her survive Valentine's Day.
The commercialism associated with this ...
Views: 1371 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part III - by This is the final article of a three-part series on the principles of attracting love easily. If love is what you are after, these principles, when incorporated into your life, will deliver just that.
Working Definition: Love magnet -- a single person able to attract the right partner ...
Views: 853 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part II - by Working Definition: Love magnet--a single person able to attract the right partner effortlessly and able to form a gratifying, long-term relationship. Also, a person in a relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection effortlessly.
Attracting and getting love does ...
Views: 815 - Ways to be extraordinarily romantic this Valentine's Day - by Whether you are in a relationship or single, rarely will Valentine's Day pass by without your notice. If you are single and even if you think the day has no significance, on Valentine's Day you will think about and want a relationship more than usual. If you are in a relationship and Valentine's ...
Views: 1600 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part I - by Working Definition: Love magnet--a single person able to attract the right partner effortlessly and able to form a gratifying, long-term relationship. Also a person in a relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection effortlessly.
We all want love. For a certain, ...
Views: 1074 - Easy Resolutions - by New Year's Eve, as you know, is the traditional time to make New Year's resolutions. Most resolutions are about something we really, really want. Even if you are not the kind to make New Year's resolutions, notice that somewhere, quietly, in your mind, you are probably making some anyway.
The ...
Views: 862 - Relationship Q & A - by Many readers of the Relationship Coach Newsletter, www.WhatItTakes.com, send in relationship questions to be answered by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries. Below is the latest installment of readers' relationship questions and Rinatta's answers. If you have a relationship situation or question ...
Views: 1742 - 10 Worst Dating Mistakes Made by Singles, Part I - by Sometimes the best way to learn is from other's mistakes. Especially others who may now be living a life you want.
This week I interviewed clients who are now in loving relationships about their worst dating mistakes as singles. Then I added some of my own dating mistakes to the list.
These ...
Views: 872 - HeartLogic - by Do you have repeating relationship patterns? Do you attract the same kinds of people again and again? Do you wonder why you can't find available partners? Do you complain that you can't meet anyone? Do you have relationships that only last a few dates? Are you suffering with some other ...
Views: 741 - Does "Mass" Dating Work In Finding Mr. or Ms. Right? - by Mass dating, for the purpose of this article, encompasses dating services, singles' ads on the web and in newspapers and magazines, and other services and venues specifically designed for singles to meet other singles and "find" each other.
For your free copy of the How To Attract Your Ideal ...
Views: 806 - 10 Powerful Reasons To Start A Mass Dating Campaign - by We all know people who are burned out on dating. Perhaps you are one of them. Perhaps you have thrown yourself into the dating world more than once, looking for that Mr. or Ms. Right, only to come up empty handed and disappointed.
And so, the heck with dating, you say. If Mr. or Ms. Right is ...
Views: 957 - What Women and Men Want, Part III - by The following is a lesson learned from interviewing men and women on what they want from the opposite sex in order to create fulfilling, happy relationships.
These interview are detailed in Parts I & II of this article can be viewed at www.WhatItTakes.com in the archives of the Relationship ...
Views: 949 - What Women and Men Want, Part II - by Top Six Things Women Want From Men
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1. Clear, open, responsible communicator & listener
Women want men to communicate. Women specifically want communication about feelings, needs, ...
Views: 1364 - Relationship vs. Marriage: Top five ways a new marriage is different from a committed relationship - by For your free copy of the How To Attract Your Ideal Relationship? Questionnaire, email Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries at coach@WhatItTakes.com or visit http://www.WhatItTakes.com.
1. “I have to live with this for the rest of my life.?
Relationship:
If your partner says something or does ...
Views: 1001 - What Men and Women Want, Part I - by There is a stark contrast between what each of the sexes thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want.
What women think men want from them causes women to have resentments and anger towards men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm ...
Views: 1234 - Single and Happy - by Whether choosing to be single, or in between relationships, you can build a terrific life as a single person. In fact, if you are in between relationships and want to attract true love, having a terrific single life is just the thing to do.
Some singles put their focus on the fact that they ...
Views: 904 - Reader Q & A - by Q. I love your newsletters. I read most of them and anything that I miss my friend tells me about... but I don't recall any information on how to tell the wrong person it's not working when you've discovered Ms. Right isn't so right. -- Cameron
A. Dear Cameron,
There are no specific words. ...
Views: 798 - How to Complete with the Past, Part II - by The first step in being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by dropping baggage from your past. Baggage here refers to resentments, hurts and fears towards anyone who was either a role model or participated directly in a relationship with you. Some ...
Views: 826 - How to Complete with the Past, Part I - by The first step in being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by dropping baggage from your past. Baggage here refers to resentments, hurts and fears towards anyone who was either a role model or participated directly in a relationship with you. Some ...
Views: 903 - Forgiveness is a Destination - by Forgiveness is a destination and not an action. When you tell yourself to forget and forgive some wrong or hurt, you can not. You tell yourself to take the action of forgiveness, yet can not, because forgiveness is not an action.
When your boss passes you over for a promotion or a raise, you ...
Views: 793 - Why The Attack Happened - by There is one person who is and does the universe. We saw God crash into God on the day America was attacked. Why did God crash into God? The answer is in the question. Something wants to expand its knowledge. The One person who you are reverberates within itself to re-know itself through ...
Views: 1036 - Creating Love and Harmony Through Massage - by Massage brings people together. Where there is conflict and misunderstanding, it calms tensions and creates unity by engendering feelings of closeness and tenderness.The following story illustrates this point.
In ancient Japan a recently married young woman had, according to custom, moved into ...
Views: 2144 - 25,000 Words Per Minute - No Less... BRAIN MANAGEMENT - by That man someday in the future would discover ways to access the diverse and incredible powers of the mind and thus begin utilizing "the other 90%" of the brain has never really been in question. That someday in the future the scientific community will have no alternative but to acknowledge the ...
Views: 8858(2 votes) - Book Summary: Secrets Of Word-Of-Mouth Marketing - by Spread the word about your hot new product or company!
Word-of-mouth marketing is the most powerful and persuasive weapon you can use, and it won’t cost you anything! Based on George Silverman’s years of consulting with successful word-of-mouth campaigns of his own clients, here is one of the ...
Views: 963 - Book Summary: How to Work with Just About Anyone - by “I just can’t seem to get along with this person!”
Every office has that one difficult person to work with, who affects productivity due to a terrible attitude, chronic tardiness, or simply drives everyone else up the wall. Here is the answer to common problems in conflict ...
Views: 741 - The 17 Indisputable Laws of Teamwork - by To achieve great things, you need a team. Building a winning team requires understanding of these principles. Whatever your goal or project, you need to add value and invest in your team so the end product benefits from more ideas, energy, resources, and perspectives.
1. The Law of ...
Views: 935 - A Book Summary: Good To Great - by This article is based on the following book: Good to Great "Why Some Companies Make the Leap... and Others Don’t" Jim Collins, co-author of ‘Built to Last’ Random House Business Books, London 300 pages
Explore what goes into a company’s transformation from mediocre to excellent. Based on hard ...
Views: 801 - Internet Marketing - Do YOU see the Obvious? - by Have you ever walked around the same park, section of neighborhood or strand of beach over and over again? Is it possible that in going "around the block" so many times we actually miss seeing the obvious, what is right in front of us? I believe it is.
Then one day, for no apparent reason but ...
Views: 958 - Ten Tips to Proposing - by If your summer looks anything like mine, then your calendar is packed with weddings. Don’t get me wrong, weddings are great and as a married man myself, my wedding was the single greatest day of my life. As a guest these events can be one hell of a party, but for a lot of single guys I know it ...
Views: 1348 - There is a shortage of GOOD copywriters! - by There is a shortage of GOOD copywriters. Copywriting is as far from academic writing as you can get, and YOU don't have to be a writer at all to learn to be a top-notch copywriter. What YOU need are the fundamental secrets, a few tricks of the trade, and the right contacts.
Here's the first ...
Views: 1631 - The Value of Things - by "What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness only that gives everything it's value."
---Thomas Paine
Sooner or later in everyone's Life, there comes a day when we must strike a bargain with Life. We must lay out the parameters of our hopes, desires and expectations.
Few ...
Views: 825 - Perspective Is Everything - by "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!"
--Anonymous
A living legend turned 100 in May. He's W. Clement Stone, founder of Combined Insurance Company (which is now a part of Aon Corp.) and author of one of the best-selling motivational books of all time, Success Through A Positive Mental ...
Views: 1161 - Love: The Killer App - by "Love is the act of intelligently and sensibly sharing your knowledge, networks, and compassion with your business partners."
--Tim Sanders, Chief Solutions Officer, Yahoo
Yahoo senior executive, Tim Sanders, published a book on Valentine's Day titled Love Is the Killer App: How to Win ...
Views: 830 - Captuting That Illusive Thing Called Time - by "The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing."
- -Stephen Covey
So often I hear people say, “I can’t afford to take time out of my busy schedule to plan!” To that I respond by saying, “If you are that tight on time, then you can’t afford NOT to take time out to plan.” I’ll ...
Views: 986 - The Fine Art of Delegation - by “No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it.” --Andrew Carnagie
Success in delegation is not measured by how you go about delegating, to whom you delegate, or how often you delegate. Your success will be judged by the results you ...
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