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- The Swine Flu Scare: Reject Negative Thinking and Avoid Panic - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsNo one can have failed to notice the extensive reporting on the Swine Flu issue. It is presently being given the sort of emphasis rightly reserved for something far more sinister, and our TV reporters are only too happy to whip up the fear. So, let’s have a little perspective. A child has died ...
Views: 663(1 vote) - The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsLast Sunday was Mother’s Day, which reminded me of the Ten Commandments. That’s because there’s only one measly commandment telling you what to do: ‘honor thy father and thy mother.’ The remaining nine are a relentless barrage of ‘thou shalt nots’, telling you what not to do. So if you ...
Views: 534(1 vote) - The Tower - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIn this article, I'd like to discuss an idea that ties together psychology and spirituality. It gives a new spin on the theory of the "subconscious mind," and explains why the spiritual journey can sometimes feel challenging. Let me begin the discussion with a story. Once there was a man ...
Views: 682(1 vote) - The Universe Is As It Is - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: If everything is as it should be, what is, is, (Seven Spiritual Laws of Success), was Nazi German SUPPOSED to happen? Are all the horrors of life SUPPOSED to be? I am confused. I cannot reconcile Hitler's Germany as something that was supposed to be because " the universe is as it ...
Views: 538(1 vote) - The Work 101 - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want. If you want reality to be different than it is, you might as well try to teach a cat to bark. You can try and try, and in the end the cat will look up ...
Views: 726(4 votes) - The ‘Towards’ and the ‘Away From’ Families - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsYesterday in our marketing meeting we had a debate regarding our marketing messages. We are dividing people into two major groups, or should I say two big families. The “Towards People” (People who are driven towards their dreams) and the “Away From” people (People who are driven away from ...
Views: 693(1 vote) - There is No Need to Worry About Yesterday or Tomorrow - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsMata Amritanandamayi (the name means loving mother), one of my great masters in India who we know affectionately as Ama, has the power to embrace a person and rid them of everything they carry unnecessarily. This loving guru has been known to embrace up to 50,000 people in turn, without resting, ...
Views: 614(1 vote) - Thinking the Unthinkable: Six (Uncomfortable) Questions about the Swine Flu Outbreak - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Intent.com Authors1. Is History Repeating Itself? The word pandemic comes from Greek roots meaning "all the people." Not surprisingly, the first known medical reporter to file a story about a flu epidemic was Hippocrates around 412 BC. For centuries, flu disasters have struck just as naturally and inevitably as ...
Views: 660(1 vote) - Third Dimension Stimulus - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2009 from Intent.com Authors"Stimulus is the missing third dimension in all theories of motivation." David Freemantle With all the discussion of economic crisis going on today, there is little recognition of the even deeper poverty of heart which like a creeping malaise impacts the very core of our wellbeing, our ...
Views: 727(1 vote) - This is Going to Happen to You Over and Over again - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsDid you know that it really doesn’t matter how nice and tidy you attempt to make your life, it is absolutely inevitable that you are going to make lots and lots of mistakes? This has recently been brought to my attention by the insane amount of mistakes that I have made ...
Views: 747(1 vote) - This Summer, Show Off in a Teeny-Weeny, Greeny Bikini (or One-Piece) - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsWell, EcoStilettoistas, its that time of year again! Summer equals swimsuit season, the time of year when healthy organic eating and exercise finally pay off. How better to reward our toned and beautiful selves than with an itsty-bitsy, teeny-weeny, greeny bikini? There are as many eco swim ...
Views: 2860(1 vote) - This Week on Intent: Tell Us How to Bring More Wellness into Volunteering - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis week on Intent, we want to hear your tips, tricks and advice on volunteering. Yes, we know that much have been said about volunteering and giving back in light of President Obama's push for more Americans to serve. We also know that many volunteering resources already exist out there on the ...
Views: 1093(1 vote) - This Week on Intent: Tell Us How to Overcome Challenges - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis week on Intent, we want to hear your advice on overcoming challenges. What can we all do as individuals to successfully overcome any hardship that stand in our way? Challenge is essential for character growth, but also has an annoying way of making us anxious, intimidated, insecure, ...
Views: 722(2 votes) - Thoughtful Conclusions About Commitment: Deciding Whether To Marry - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThough we may make many commitments throughout our time on earth, few have a lifelong impact on the path our lives will take. The decision to marry someone you love—to bond yourself to them completely—is unlike any other and can reshape your existence. When two people have similar goals, values, ...
Views: 1149(1 vote) - Tips to Make Cooking Faster and Easier - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe following are some practical and efficient tips to help you cook faster and easier. Cook enough food for two dinners. Most food can be easily reheated. Consider steaming to reheat food. Place a bit of water in a pan and place food on it. Cover. Check frequently to ensure that the ...
Views: 2216(4 votes) - To Have It All - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsMy journey of self-discovery continued, and I was expanding my sense of myself and my own identity. In many ways, I thought that I was finally starting to feel successful and happy. I had a growing sense of well-being and satisfaction, and I adored being a mother and taking care of my son. I ...
Views: 635(2 votes) - To Love or To Be Loved - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsHave you ever asked yourself, "Am I my authentic self?" Is there a deeper more real version of yourself waiting for the right time to show up, but for the most part letting that person out is just way too risky?! Maybe when you were three years old, someone hurt your feelings and to survive ...
Views: 699(1 vote) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Be Social - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsToday the Moon moves from Virgo, the sign that seeks perfection, to Libra, which wants connection. The celestial message is to apply yourself to some type of meaningful task in the morning, but take a break in the afternoon and evening. Reward yourself for your earlier efforts by chatting up ...
Views: 730(1 vote) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Inner Vision - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsOur heads are still spinning even though yesterday's exciting aspects are technically over. The many changes that are afoot will take more than a day to develop and implement! Today's Scorpio Moon can deepen and intensify inner vision, especially as we move towards next week's lunar eclipse. We ...
Views: 718(2 votes) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Power Play - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe Sun and Moon join up in early Cancer, forming the New Moon. This lunation is quite out of the ordinary, however. That's because of Pluto, the Planet of Transformation. Being the outermost planet, it takes many years to travel through just one sign. And recently, it changed signs, moving into ...
Views: 717(1 vote) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Rock the Boat - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsLife could get a little wild and crazy today, as the month ends and rebel planet Uranus prepares to change direction. As I've mentioned before, any planet that is standing still, about to go forward or backward (direct or retrograde, in astro-lingo) becomes more pronounced in its effects. And ...
Views: 756(2 votes) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Self Care - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe Moon continues its sojourn through Leo today, which places the focus squarely on the self. Many folks find it's a lot easier to take care of personal matters at this time of the month. After all, if you don't take care of yourself, who will? In the afternoon, you may be challenged to choose ...
Views: 770(1 vote) - Today's Astrological Forecast: The Face-Off - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsToday is the second exact pass out of five of the hugely important Saturn-Uranus opposition, one of the most potent astrological contacts of the decade. In this confrontation, the forces of change are facing off against the powers that be. This dynamic defines the two-year period between 2008 ...
Views: 669(2 votes) - Today's Astrological Forecast: The Halfway Point - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis is the last full day of the Sun in Gemini, which is always a good time to stop and review. The past four weeks have been all about mental activity and learning. Hopefully you've sorted through some important details and straightened out the things that needed it. Not only are we wrapping up ...
Views: 683(1 vote) - Today's Astrological Forecast: Think Big - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsRemember all that mental discipline you had yesterday? It's evaporating, and it may take extra effort to keep your mind on task today. The Moon in Capricorn still wants you to work hard and aim high. But little Mercury, which represents thinking and logic, is hooking up with expansive Jupiter ...
Views: 598(1 vote) - Too Busy to Change the World? - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsI was on an Internet radio show last night with Bernedette on Hidden Wisdom Radio. At one point Bernedette asked me about my predictions for the future of the world. What an awesome question: often asked. I staggered when presented with this essential question. Before I give my prediction, ...
Views: 863(1 vote) - Too Busy to Create an Intent - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsOk - I admit - I am a workaholic. At least I am sure busy all the time. Not sure if it is always productive but I never really stop until I hit the proverbial wall! Don't get me wrong - I love the things I do and who I connect with face-to-face and on line. But where is the ME in all of ...
Views: 584(4 votes) - Top 10 Pilates Instructors & Studios - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsWhat is Pilates? Pilates is a physical fitness system developed by Joseph Pilates. In Pilates, the mind is used to control the muscles. Pilates attempts to create a fusion of mind and body, allowing the body to move with grace, balance and economy. Traditional Pilates is performed on a ...
Views: 6999(1 vote) - Top Green Beauty Favorites This Season for Face, Body, Home - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsGreen beauty guru and celebrity makeup artist Renata Helfman (pictured above) has been eschewing chemicals in her home and personal care products for years. It was only when she realized the world lacked a one-stop-shop for these eco essentials that she started Vert Los Angeles, calling it an ...
Views: 1157(1 vote) - Top Ten Most Fascinating Movie Characters in 2008 (and their intents!) - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsWe all love movies, but what is it that do you love most about those films? What about them draws you to the movie theater time after time? The actors? the filmmakers? the stories? the photography? For me, it is all about the characters - fictional, non-fictional, human, animal or object. The ...
Views: 645(1 vote) - Top Trainer Tips: Walking 4 Weight Loss - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsI really do love to walk, because you can walk anytime, anywhere, and it’s FREE—my favorite four-letter word. There is nothing that clears and works my mind and body more than an invigorating power walk at the beach in Santa Monica pumping my pink 2 pound dumbbells. Did you know that walking ...
Views: 582(1 vote) - Totally Single Parenting - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsSingle Mothers by Choice: Can we call this *extremely* conscious parenting? The other night, I accompanied my younger son to the end-of-season pizza party for his basketball team. In attendance were eight fourth-grade boys, one younger brother, seven fathers and me. At first, I felt a little ...
Views: 1178(3 votes) - Touch... May it Never Go Out of Style - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsGrowing up, massage was not a part of my life. Touching played no role in my house at all. I think the last time I really hugged my mom as a child, I was 11 or 12. I look around me now and our lives are set up on remote: minimal interaction, minimal physical contact. We email work to say we're ...
Views: 816(3 votes) - Transforming the Kleshas - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: My question today is about kleshas which I believe are sometimes described as defilements and I understand them as character traits rooted in the unconscious mind which give rise to unwholesome behaviour, such as fear, greed, envy etc. Following my shift in consciousness I spent ...
Views: 1183(1 vote) - Trust Your Hopes, Not Your Fears - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThat is the definition of “faith” according to my morning tea mug. I like to be greeted by this reminder first thing because I’m a learned optimist. I used to be a shocking pessimist who availed of every opportunity to worry. But now I know that worry is such a waste of time! But still, the ...
Views: 952(1 vote) - Try The Breakfast Experiment - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsMany people have a love/hate relationship with breakfast. You either love your morning cereal or eggs with toast or you are totally bored with the typical breakfast options. Some people get so sick of their morning meal that they just skip it and wait until lunch or even dinner to eat. Study ...
Views: 589(1 vote) - Try This Simple Winter Cleanse - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQ. Here we are at the end of winter. Can you recommend a simple cleanse for folks wishing to detoxify. A. Sure. Here is a gentle 7 day cleanse that most people should be able to follow. First, pick a 7 day period for the cleanse, timing it so that Day 4 is a day off, where you can rest, take ...
Views: 616(1 vote) - Tuesday Yoga Tip: The Yoga of Effortless Standing - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIn a yoga practice we create energy and move into difficult poses by engaging and lifting our muscles. While this is helpful for yoga asana, lifting these muscles consistantly will result in strain. Muscle strain produces injury. Chloe Wing, a senior teacher of the Alexander technique in New ...
Views: 1517(2 votes) - Two Amazing Fruits Slash Cardio-Vascular Risk - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe fruit of the Amla tree, called Indian Gooseberry or Amalaki, along with the Pomegranate fruit, have a long history as potent Ayurvedic medicines that have recently become the focus of many scientific studies. Both are potent antioxidants for the cardio-vascular system that seem to stand ...
Views: 1790(2 votes) - Uniting in Thought and Action: The Power Of The Circle - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThere are many reasons for why a gathering of people in a circle is powerful. A circle is a shape that is found repeatedly throughout the natural world, and it is a symbol of perfection. We recreate this perfect shape when we join others to form a circle. Being in a circle allows us experience ...
Views: 765(1 vote) - Until You Sleep... Honoring Michael Jackson - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsAfter watching the Memorial to Michael Jackson today, deeply moved and inspired, the following spilled from my heart through my pen.......a message for each of us to ponder. Until You Sleep Each breath filled with promise That your next word, your next action Will be filled with ...
Views: 653(2 votes) - Vocalization + Visualization = Manifestation - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIn my previous blogs we discussed the concepts of "frequency" and "intent". "Frequency" is the rate at which an object vibrated and is also a way of measuring sound. "Intent" is the energy behind any created sound. Together, these two elements create how a sound may be used--it's effect for ...
Views: 1060(1 vote) - Waiting for Good Object-O - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIs it possible to truly hate an appliance? If so, I HATE the vacuum I have been saddled with at our little creaky cabin in Maine. I bought it in a hurry. The old vacuum died, and the place was rapidly getting pretty filthy. There aren’t a lot of places to find vacuums near our cabin, so I ...
Views: 682(1 vote) - Waiting for the Spring - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe goal of making a relationship sustainable should not just be to stay, but rather, to find and cultivate the places in the relationship that are worth staying for. Re-imagining your commitment into a healthy curiosity about the mystery of the other person and allowing for the ebb and flow of ...
Views: 585(1 vote) - Waiting In Line To Smell The Roses - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsExiting Union Station in the early morning rush can be quite an adventure. I've never flown any helicopter missions or been a part of any real political intrigue, but, shuffling in and out of thousands of people on a Thursday morning in Los Angeles can feel every bit as dangerous. Weaving your ...
Views: 613(2 votes) - Walking the road that comes to you....... - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsExcerpt from Cosmic Connection: Messages for a Better World ~ “Walk the road that comes to you. Do not choose it. Do not follow it. Do not find it. Simply walk it as it comes to you. It will curve. It will bend. At times it will disappear from under your feet. And you will fly instead of walk.” ...
Views: 498(2 votes) - Walking the Walk: Giving and Living with Integrity and Compassion - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsEvery morning I wake up bright and early and read the news. This has long been my routine - my quiet time, when the house is still, and the sun is spreading liquid gold all over the world around me. I have grown used to sitting in a favorite chair, sipping cappuccino, and learning what ...
Views: 845(2 votes) - Wanting to be in love - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: My question is about love. I have been in a relationship for five years, he is my first boyfriend. It’s not been an easy relationship, my partner at times has been cold and ignored me. I've resisted him and been unhappy. I now realise I am scared at the thought of falling in love, I ...
Views: 742(1 vote) - We Have Lots of Love for Great Fathers in Our Space - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsFather Pateras El Padre Pappa Pere - A man who raises or nurtures a child - To acknowledge responsibility for - To procreate (offspring) as the male parent Happy Fathers Day to all the wonderful men who joyfully parent their children, others children and or complete strangers. We ...
Views: 716(1 vote) - We of the Sandwich Generation - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe duel burden of raising children and caring for aging parents is becoming commonplace for baby boomers, and will probably last longer for us than it did for generations past. Based on a Pew Research Center study, one in eight middle-aged Americans are raising a child and caring for an aging ...
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