Every Relationship requires a several elements to keep it going on and alive, just as a Vehicle needs Fuel to reach the destination.No relationships are perfect in every aspect. But it’s up to them, How they handle each other and keep it going.

A Mutual understanding and Emotional Bonding are must,to maintain the harmony between 'em. There are other elements which keep any relationship alive and interesting. Here are the elements, that i think plays a major role in the making any relationship alive and Refreshing for long time.

TRUST- A Fuel for any Relationship
It’s a “Trust” between partners that saves one from other external negativity and own negative thoughts as well. It’s a trust on basis of that a relationship lasts for long. No Trust, No Relationship. It’s a trust that keeps the relationship alive and keep it interesting. So if you are in a relationship, make sure your partner trust you and you also keep that trust unbroken.

Surprising elements keep any relation alive
As we got bored on the routine life, a person also feels the same in a relationship as well. There must be some amazing things to create or to do, for keeping the exciting the loved ones. Maybe it’s by arranging surprise trips or short vacations or even long drive as well.
Add surprising elements and that’ll keep the relationship alive, and this always make them excited about what surprises awaits next.

Relationship demands enough space for each other
True relationship never demands a person has to available all time, and that doesn’t have to. Too much availability sometime give an exhausting feeling to both. Because of Being available too much, there is the chance that any one of them loses their interest & excitements.

So it’s better to give each other some space and free time for pursuing habits together. By staying apart for sometimes is really necessary for any relationship to keep it alive.

Valuing each others’ Life as well
When you are with the right one, they understand that you, too have life. You, too have your own priorities, Dreams & A Life. And they respect that. Hence, the right one will not force you to do what they want.

Instead, they give their partner some free time to take own life decisions. When in a relationship both values each other's space and life, then it a sign of a Healthy relationship.

Helping each other in achieving goals
As both ones respecting each other’s priorities in life, they also help each other to fulfill their life & career goals as well. There is no only a relationship things only, career is also important for both. One partner feels the exact same passion as others feel for their work of interest.

They keep motivating & supporting each other to achieve the goals have determined. In hard times, one becomes a personal motivator for another.

Remember & celebrate every important day
People tend to remember the things they have enjoyed. A person remembers their very small but important event in the relationship, when they actually mean it.

Remembering small details and events (Like first date etc.), it’s like respecting other’s presence in life. And that feeling gives them a feeling of being respected & loved.

A relationship that gives memory that one like to live again
In order to keep a relationship alive, there must be some good memories which they have created together. A Relationship demands some beautiful time of life, spent together. A good time becomes proof of their strong & alive relationship.

All they need is to create as much as more happy moments of their life together. So that they can remember this golden times later in life,and can share stories with their Children & Grands'.

Setting the Relationship goals together
When the goals are clear, the journey becomes easier. Same in a relationship, both have the goal in mind what their future will be. They create a future plan together and actually work on it together. Planning a future together, ultimately reflects how much serious they are about relationship.

This relationship goal, both understand well and keep that flame alive. That is early sign of a good relationship between them.

Instead of Talking to about other, talking with each other
One reason for killing trust in a relationship is because one of them trust the third person more than their own partner. When one really wants to save the relationship and solve the issue between them, they try to solve the problem together.

Instead of talking about each other, they listen to what others want to say. Respecting other words is also a sign of valuing their relation.

Solve the issues together
There comes a faze in a relationship,when both arguing over who is right, instead what is right? But right partner always gives chance to another for placing their valid points, instead of proving them wrong. They never take a hard decision on temporary events.

Handle the conflicts well, and never forget the best time they spent together. There should not come a why me always, But concern for both, and that solves many problem at a very beginning.

Be with partner,in Hard times
Everyone has a hard time in life, and that teaches us about who is the right one for us. Sometimes, just being there with the partner, can solve their half of the issues.

Caring nature is the one characters every likable persons have that showing values for other one. It makes them feel that there is someone who wants to see them succeed and to support to go ahead.

Showing you feel proud of having them in life
It takes only a few minutes to say a nice word with a true heart to your partner. Show them how proud you feel about having them in your life. This feels amazing to them and to you as well and helping to value more for the relationship.

Keep sharing this positive vibes with each other, and that never let you feel bored and keep it alive forever.

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Author's Bio: 

Ketan, a 20s guy a Life blogger at Monk at 25. Writing mostly about life learning, career, relationships things also sharing own experiences. Having aim to deliver a feel good blogs to his readers and make a positive impact in their life.