The Baby Whisperer Vol 6: Living in Conscientiousness

Along your life’s journey, I am sure you have met many significant people; possibly you’ve fallen in love and have been willing to open yourself up to taking the next step in your life by becoming vulnerable to another. How magnificent it is to open yourselves up to an extension of yourselves. But are you really prepared to take on this brand new journey?

While you have consciously made the decision to form a new union and cultivate a new beginning, a new chapter in your journey, have you truthfully taken the steps to make sure this new encounter will bear multiple blessings both now and in the future?

Many of us carry the baggage of our youth, our sorrows, our fears, our anxieties and our painful experiences deep within the recesses of our subconscious mind. All of these things have built up over time and we have carried them into our relationships…relationships at work, relationships with friends, relationships with family, and our relationships in love. Now instead of just one laundry list of “stuff”, we have two. If you have already raised your level of awareness to where you are at one with your little you and at one with your adult you, then you are already a step ahead of the game. But is your partner?

As an example, if you have reached a certain level of heightened awareness in your life and you have made peace with your inner self, how can you, as a helpful partner aid in the transitional phase of your significant other? …the transitional phase of going from a couple to a family unit. How do you create the mindset for this new experience and taking on the role of the future parenting? Parenting is a process of nurturing not only the newborn and youth but also giving the physical, social and intellectual support to those that you care about through the sharing of your skills and values. There are a lot of questions to ask yourself before entering into a new phase of your life…especially if you are living in consciousness.

The first step to creating a sense of harmony (in all of your relationships) starts with an open field of communication and trust. To express and exhibit a clear understanding of what is acceptable behavior requires that you must each first teach love and respect of self. With each experience and stage of development each person, child, adult will need to be continually conscious of bestowing self-love and respect, of forgiving oneself and learning not internalize the outcomes and at the same time to emotionally heal yourself from all past challenges. Once you have moved beyond this initial step of self preservation and awareness, the next step is to realize that bringing a new life or a new experience into your world should never be viewed as a burden but as a gift. Each new life and each new experience that enters your world is a brand new Soul being that offers you the opportunity to grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually as you seek your wholeness.

When we choose to live consciously of our actions, our thoughts and our reason for being, we are better prepared to tackle all the challenges that life presents to us.

The Baby Whisperer Vol 6: Living in Conscientiousness
By Joan Marie Whelan The Baby Whisperer

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