We've all heard it before. Confidence counts for a lot. Confident people get further in life simply because that sense of belief in oneself is often what's lacking in those people who just fall short. Not only do other people respond differently to the confident person, but other people tend to listen to, respect and even admire confidence. We can say that it is universally attractive. When it comes to sexual confidence this is also true and even more practical and useful in intimate relationships.

While most guys talk big amongst their friends, it is often a very different story in the bedroom. Modern men are notoriously bad lovers and most men don't even have the sexual stamina to satisfy a woman sexually - not to even mention the emotional satisfaction.

When we have significant experiences in life, we tend to develop mental associations. A good example is with sexual confidence. One or two bad sexual encounters in your youth can easily break down all your confidence in the bedroom. When you are young you just don't know what you are really doing and the lack of experience is often the springboard for developing low sexual self esteem.

Women are much more in tune with their bodies and they understand intimacy on a different level. When you are young, sex is all about feeling like a man and quenching your enormous sexual appetite.

Sexual confidence is all about KNOWING that you are a good lover and having a frame of reference is essential. Being told by multiple women how great a lover you are is one way to develop this confidence. In fact, most super confident guys are guys that women like to be with. This type of confidence easily translates into other parts of your life and "being a man" is synonymous with being able to satisfy a woman.

Sexual confidence is something you need to work on and build - especially if you are low on it. Realize that all your past experiences was just learning experiences and that it does not really mean anything.

You can learn to become a great lover. There are plenty of really good books and courses that can teach you the art of being with a woman. You are not doomed to be a loser in the bedroom. You and only you can do something about it.

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