We all want to move forward in life! But some of us feel overwhelmed and consumed with heartache of the past. From the time we are born we are learning about relationships. Some of the negative events we have internalized happened so long ago that we don’t consciously remember them. A past love, family relations, or our relationship with ourselves may be haunting us. Subconsciously we tend to hold our present partner or dating prospects accountable for our old relationship burdens. There is a delicate balance of learning from the past versus living in the past. You must learn to release your burdens and use the lessons to guide and strengthen your choices. You can release damaging images of yourself and painful relationships with love affirmations.

Love affirmations that may work for you:
“I love and treasure who I am"
"I happily release the past. I am free to move forward with love in my heart."
“I am worthy of being loved."
"I use the lessons of past relationships to enter into new loving relationships.”
"I select a partner who loves and treasures me for who I am now.”

Releasing your relationship burdens will enhance your self-esteem and give your new relationships new life. It will help you to see the present more clearly. You will make decisions based on the lessons of the past rather than the pain.

You should also use love affirmations to boost your confidence in moving forward by increasing your appreciation of self. I truly believe that love affirmations are the most essential of all the affirmations. So much of what we do and experience is a result of how much we love and accept ourselves. Once you have released your negative relationship energy and reprogrammed your self-talk to be more loving of yourself, you will see that your relationships will drastically improve.

More Love Affirmations:
“I now view my past relationships as stepping stones to my perfect love.”
"I appreciate the love that I have to give."
"I forgive myself for internalizing unpleasant images of relationships.”
“I am confident in my ability to identify healthy relationships.”
“I have a lot to offer the right person.”
“I now see my past burdens as an enlightened path to my perfect mate.”

Your current situation may be the opposite of the above love affirmations, but the point is to change your thoughts and your relationships moving ahead. It is import to let go of apprehension and concern about the future and to stop repeating mistakes of long ago. These love affirmations should become your self-talk. You must effectively convince your subconscious that this is your truth. You will gain a new perspective about yourself, your past relationships, and your love life. Once you have changed your consciousness by using loving affirmation exercises, you will feel an unparalleled sense of freedom from your old thinking patterns and enthusiasm about love.

Author's Bio: 

Maya Kante has been an avid student of Science of Mind with an emphasis on positive affirmations for over 15 years. For more great information on positive affirmations for love, visit PositiveAffirmationCenter.com