My Husband Doesn't Sleep In Bed With Me: Separate Bedrooms For Married Couples

My Husband Doesn't Sleep In Bed With Me: Separate Bedrooms For Married Couples

What Husbands Can't Resist is a great resource for wives who are frustrated because their husbands not longer seem to desire physical intimacy with them.

What wife doesn't want her husband to be happy and fulfilled? What wife doesn't want her husband to look longingly upon her? What wife doesn't want to be able to thrill her husband?

This resource is quite usable. Many wives have seen their marriages turn around quickly in this situation. They also have seen many other benefits in their marriages when they put these principles into practice. They find ways to entice their husbands (willingly) to do almost anything they want.

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Almost 20 percent of marriages in a recent survey claimed to be sexless marriages. The surprising thing is that it was often the husband who was responsible for not wanting to engage in physical intimacy. Not many books specifically deal with this situation, yet What Husbands Can't Resist gives real answers for this problem. Bob Grant has much experience in giving help in this area.

What are some things you can do right now?

- Help your husband relax

- Really listen to him when he does want to talk

- Help him to feel respected and admired--this is one of his greatest needs

- Learn about all the techniques you can that can help improve the situation

There really are things you can to do help this frustrating situation. I know. It's not like you haven't tried. Maybe you just need a few simple things that you can put into practice right away.

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We will continue to explore some of the underlying reasons why many married couples seem to be drifting apart and offer suggestions how to prevent or minimize these pitfalls. Being aware of the marital problems and actively working to avoid them can help restore or saved a marriage in trouble.

1. Lack of understanding. A lot of the frustration between married couples arises because one partner feels the other just doesn't understand them. But maybe they would understand if the situation was communicated to them better. It may be clear to you but it really needs to be clear to them. Explain the problem in a different way and give them a chance. Don't be vague and if you have to, break it down in smaller components. BE PATIENT! It may take longer for them to understand. Have them repeat the scenario in their own words so that they can translate it into something they can understand. If they want to work the problem out with you, then a solution will be found and met.

2. No teamwork. A marriage is the union of two people working together towards one main goal- to be happy with each other. There are plenty of times when you two are not physically together but there still needs to be a mutual connection so your marriage can run smoothly. Teamwork depends on communication; letting the other person know what you're doing to keep up your end of the deal. A simple message telling the other person that you took care of the bills this month or went grocery shopping let's them know that they don't need to worry about those issues. In this two-person team, each individual has their own responsibilities to tend to. If each side pulls through, the stress levels will not be so high and you can move on to the next matter. It's like rowing; if only one side of the boat is paddling, you'll continue to go in circles and you'll never reach your destination.

3. Little compromise. When you're single in this world, it's every man for him self. But in a marriage, it's crucial to have some "give and take." Somebody has to cook or clean or pick up the kids, that's a given. But if time, effort, and energy allows for it, go the extra mile and offer to do or help with one of your spouse's duties, especially if you can tell their energy level is low. You may end up putting a great deal of effort into the task but the outcome will exceed the energy exerted. Your spouse will see and appreciate your deed and will want to repay you when your energy level is low. As far as arguing goes, pick your battles. If you can tell your partner feels strongly about a certain issue, a suggestion would be to back down. However, if you feel strongly on the opposing subject, try negotiating a deal out where both of you are happy. If you give a little, an understanding partner will give as much as you. Once you inch closer and closer to each other, a happy medium will be met.

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4. A need for organization. Many people feel their lives are chaotic when their home is a mess. The positive energy that comes from an organized home can spread through out many areas in your life, which is why it's so important to create a system that sorts out your domestic matters. A few suggestions may be to designate a specific place to put your incoming and outgoing mail. If you feel it necessary, make an official "Inbox" and "Outbox" so there is no confusion as to what bills or letters need to be mailed and which ones need to be read. Another idea is to use a bulletin board or dry erase board. This is a place to leave "I'll be back soon" notes or grocery lists or "Things To Do" lists. As the chores are completed, for example, they can be crossed off the list that is out in the open so everyone can see. This may sound a bit clerical but running a home is very similar to running an office and in order to have an efficient workplace, all involved parties need to be informed; just like at home.

5. Lack of knowledge. Love is a very important factor in a marriage but think about this... say you're offered a promotion in a field you're not too familiar with but always wanted to learn more about. You may really love the idea of a better job or career change and will love the pay even more but you should ask yourself if you're really that prepared to take on all the challenges and responsibilities that come with that promotion. Maybe before taking the job, you'll need training and more knowledge to build confidence and skill in that field. The same principles can be applied to marriage. If you're not ready to deal with the challenges and difficulties of marriage, maybe you should educate yourself more so you do feel comfortable. Even if you do feel you're ready, read up on marriage matters and watch other married couples to gather book and real life tips and guide lines. The more you know ahead of time, the less unfortunate surprises you'll have and the more you'll be able to advance past the little obstacles that others can get hung up on. This will decrease the stress levels in your marriage and free up time so you can focus on more important concerns such as bonding with your spouse.

This list is not entirely comprehensive as there are many other factors that can occur. However, these ten points seem to address the most issues that are plaguing today's couples, many of which may not seem so obvious. I feel that your marriage can definitely improve even if you only practice a few of these points. The key word however is practice. Good Luck.

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Putting aside the theories and legends of Columbus' "discovery of America", let's use commonly cited information to compare with our modern day relationships.

Christopher Columbus went in search of a westward route to Asia and discovered America. It was a difficult journey, probably a bit embarrassing that he missed his mark, and at the time, he didn't realize the full magnitude of the amazing discovery he had made.

The same is true of our marriage relationships.

-A Difficult Journey

My 12 year old, in a rare introspective moment, recently asked me, "Mom, what do you do if you get married and later your wife gets all weird and does bad things?"

It was a wonderful opportunity for me to talk with him about the steps I took in deciding to marry his dad, and the importance of considering many different things when making important life decisions. I was also able to reinforce the importance of faith and prayer.

It's important that we each put some serious thought and prayer into deciding who we will spend the rest of our life with.

Then when the tough times come...and we are all afflicted with tough times in our marriage, we can have the confidence, commitment and trust in our original decision, and spouse, that we work through the problems and don't allow them to work us.

When these rough times engulf our life, take time to reflect upon the many things that caused you to fall in love with your spouse. Look at the things you are doing as a couple that weaken and strengthen your relationship, then try to do more things to strengthen your relationship.

Most relationships need just a few simple extra efforts to shore up the weak areas. Commit yourself to weekly dates nights, this will keep the communication lines open and the magic in your marriage.

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Take time to talk each day about successes, failures and things that are going on in your life, it's so important to feel connected to each other.

-Embarrassing Moments

We can learn from Columbus' efforts to make the best of his discovery and not go stomping back to Spain blaming his first mate for the wrong turn he made.

We've all had times where our spouse did or said something that embarrassed us. We can choose to be a Columbus and embrace the moment. Or go stomping back to Spain and not allow ourselves to grow from the experience.

Of course, it's important to discuss privately how that situation made us uncomfortable. Discuss how it made you feel and ways it could be handled differently in the future. But in the moment, have a sense of humor and see what you can do to grow from the experience.

Having a poised or humorous response to an embarrassing situation helps diffuse the discomfort for everyone and shows what champion discoverers are made of!

-The Grand Discovery

As you remain committed to your spouse, even when the journey takes unexpected turns, you will make a grand discovery.

It doesn't really matter where we end up on our journey, it's what we allow our self to discover along the way that fills our life with joy and not fear. Then we will be able to find and enjoy all the hidden treasures in our marriage relationship.

Allow your journey in life to be a grand discovery so that you will be able to see the many hidden treasures you have in your spouse.

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What do you think would happen with the husband and wife union if couples committed themselves dutifully to following the characteristics of the Sermon on the Mount? I think there would be way less divorce, how about you? Also, there would definitely be happier children in the household, wouldn't there?

Below I have made a one-week affirmation guide for marriage using the "Sermon on the Mount. Try it for one week, and if all goes well, try it for another week, etc.

Copy/paste/print this weekly marriage guide out -- follow it for three weeks and see how you feel about yourself and spouse. If you feel like emailing me the results, I would love to hear from you.

1.) Today on Monday, I will not act proud with my spouse. I will humble myself, even if I think I'm right.

Blessed are the poor in spirit for their is the kingdom of heaven
Matthew 5:3

2.) Today on Tuesday, I will only please my spouse, not myself. The whole day I will be sincerely gentle and kind to my spouse. I will do only those things that would be giving and thoughtful to my wife/husband.

Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth. Matthew 5:5

3.) Today on Wednesday, I will give in to my husband/wife wishes. Whatever they ask, within reason will not be denied. I will not be self-seeking.

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4.) Today on Thursday, I will find one or more biblical ways to enhance my marriage. What would God want me to do for my marriage today? How can I make my wife/husband feel good about who they are? How can I make them happy?

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Matthew 5:6

5.) Today on Friday, I will forgive my wife/husband for wounding my heart. I will ask God to rid my heart and mind of negative feelings and resentment towards my spouse. I will truly forgive.

Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Matthew 5:7

6.) Today on Saturday, I will admit my weakness to my spouse and most importantly to God. Today I will ask God to grant me forgiveness and free me from the temptation to sin.

Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God Matthew 5:8

7.) Today on Sunday, I will be a peacemaker. I will not quarrel or fight with my wife/husband. Today I will find one or more ways in which I can bring contentment and peace into my marriage.

Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God. Matthew 5:9

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Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your spouse to feel even more distant from you. You can make your spouse fall back in love with you, all over again.

You don't have to worry about whether your spouse is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make them fall hopelessly in love with you.