The Law of Attraction

What it is not magic, fake, or a cure-all.
What it is- the basis of how subjective reality works, the art of manipulating energy, a principle. Everything is energy. At our most molecular level, we are zooming particles of energy.

The Law of Attraction states that whatever you think about, you bring about. You can't control anybody else's attractions because only YOU exist in the subjective reality model. By focusing on yourself, you can see the change you want. This gives Mahatma Gandhi's quote "Be the change you want to see in the world" a whole new twist.

What are the Steps?

1) Become what you desire. Desire, but not attachment, is the starting point for everything. Our choices shape who we become. What do you desire? Don't think about it, don't talk about it-BECOME it. One very common theme that comes up with clients is one of MONEY. They say they would like to be more abundant, and I tell them then BE it. What makes you feel more abundant? Do it. The old adage goes-"Dress for success" but the truth is that you must transform into what you wish to be. We have a very linear concept of time, when in reality all that exists is the NOW. If you think about your past, it becomes your now. If you think about the future, it becomes your now. Our minds really don't have a concept of time. Whatever we think about, becomes our now. So if you can bring the 'future' into the now by becoming what you desire, you are aligning your energy to attract what you want. LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE. Yes, opposite poles attract, BUT like vibrations attract like results. Like particles flow in the same direction.

2) Let your thoughts flow only where you will dare to go. Our thoughts are powerful, so focus them only on the things you want. If you wouldn't want what you are thinking about to manifest, then its best to think about something else.

3) Feel GOOD! This is the most underrated yet the most important step. When we are feeling good, we attract good things. Feeling good involves removing energy drains and introducing things that make us feel better! When we feel good, our energy is vibrating with the things we love, and hence attracting even more of those things!

4) Take inspired action. There has also been a lot of speculation here. To take action or not to take action? Personally, this was the step I had to really "unlearn." We are all great at taking action, it is our thoughts that need help. Action is what we do best. We are a culture of go-getters. Inspired action is about becoming a magnet instead of pulling things to you. It is about learning to draw experiences and events that you want, rather than chasing after them. BECOME what you want, and the details will be attracted into your life. BECOME wealthy, and money will be attracted to you. Take action that feels good. If it feels like you are struggling-then that is probably not the way to go. Action is great. Enjoy the process of getting there, because there really is no "over there." The fun is in the journey! The old "no pain, no gain" is definitely not what we are aiming for here. Release struggle and embrace action that feels good. = )