Interesting stuff. Have you been watching the latest Bob Proctor videos? They are awesome.
But what I find especially interesting is that it’s what I’ve been saying for quite a while now.
Nice to know that Bob and I agree;
Bob Proctor calls them ‘paradigms’; I call them habits.
But what we both agree on is that it’s ‘stuff’ that we learned as kids, at school, from our parents and those beliefs and behaviours are what keeps us stuck. What sabotages us when we are looking at goals.
Have you noticed how when something happens in our lives, we always behave in the same way. We say the same things, act in the same way.
Because we’ve been ‘programmed’.
It wasn’t meant to harm us. I’m sure it was done with the best of intentions.
But in order to move forward we need to change those habits (paradigms)
So how do we do that?.
We change our thinking. Once we do that everything in our lives starts to work
If you believe that you don’t deserve good, then nothing good will happen to you
And that could apply to anything – relationships, money, health, weight.
If you believe that you do deserve, that you’re worthy of the very best then that is exactly what will occur in your life – miracles will start to appear as if by magic.
Changing your thinking is not easy and sometimes we need a little help.
It’s like medicine you need to be taking it every day for it to work.
You clean your teeth twice a day, so you need to be practicing changing your thoughts every single day.
As Louise Hay says “It’s only a thought and a thought can be changed”
If you get up in the morning dreading the day, guess what? You’ll miss the train, get caught in the rain, deal with difficult people and you will have a bad day
But if you wake up looking forward to the ‘adventures’ that life will bring; the traffic will be smooth, the rain will only start once you’re in the office and people will be nice. Because they will be reacting to your good humour!!
(But even if the traffic is bad, you’ll say ‘so what’? If it rains, so? As my late mother used to say ‘you’re not sugar you won’t melt!)
We believe our lives are dramas; you only have to listen to people on their mobiles – with their boyfriend problems, girlfriend problems, boss problems, colleague problems, spouse problems – frankly I don’t want to hear it)
These people are what I call ‘hooveres’ ‘negative ninnies’; naysayers; ‘thought vampires’
Whatever you call them they drain you of your enthusiasm, your energy. They suck the life out of you.
And the trouble with them is so often we say ‘oh but maybe they’re right’ and ‘why should I bother?’
And before you know it you’re in the decline and they’ve won.
What would happen if you said “I’m just going to let it be”; what’s the worst case scenario here?
Could your life become easier? I think so.
It’s not the problem its’ how you deal with it.
"Most everything that you want is just outside your comfort zone."
-Jack Canfield - #1 NY Times Best-selling author of "Chicken Soup for the Soul"
Just as your car runs more smoothly and requires less energy to go faster and farther when the wheels are in perfect alignment, you perform better when your thoughts, feelings, emotions, goals, and values are in balance.
-Brian Tracy, Motivation Expert and Author of "Create Your Own Future"
“Every choice you make has an end result"
Zig Zigler
So you see it’s not just me saying this
Louise Hay (Publisher, author, Hay House owner) she knows -
Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy and Zig Zigler are four of the Big Guns, the Gurus, they know -
they all know the same thing
That bad habits need changing and the only way to do it is with positive thought.
Change those habits and see your life change.
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Author's Bio: 

I've been on my own personal development journey for many years, discovering, learning and studying with some of the very best experts in their fields.
I’ve always worked in a people environment helping and advising so it seemed a natural progression for me to move from that to becoming a personal development coach.
I believe very much that unless you re-programme your negative beliefs and thoughts you'll never 'move on' and that could be with relationships, weight loss, health, career, money.
Using the very powerful and effective processes of EFT, NLP, and Hypnosis, I motivate and steer people toward living the lives they want rather than what they 'should' or been told to. This gives them the opportunity to truly live the life they deserve.
I believe that what we put out there we get back and the only way to improve our lives is by ‘reprogramming’ our mindset.
The 3 greatest internal blocks people have are fear, self doubt and procrastination. When we release those we can be, do, have whatever it is we truly desire.
Like a computer when the 'hardware' isn't congruent with the 'software' no advancement can be made when we are out of sync; and it's the same with our brains. If we say one thing – and believe in our subconscious something totally, different we’ll never make the changes we think we want. Our thoughts and beliefs are what makes us tick so whatever the issue whether it’s relationships, work/career, money, self esteem, confidence; I help people look at what is holding them back and help them release those ties enabling them to go forward with whatever it is they desire. . But it can be a very painful process, the letting go, and people have to be ready and willing to make the changes. Affirmations are wonderful tools but useless without that one major ingredient – Action!
Once you take the Action, are consistent and make the commitment – YOU make it happen
With Persistence plus Confidence YOU equal Success
My greatest joy is seeing the transformation when someone releases their blocks and moves forward.