Improve Your Lifestyle and Social Life by Becoming Your Own Self

To have a lifestyle that matches to your niche, you have to live with the wishes or desires that arise from inside of your own self. There are many people who run her life by imitating others lifestyle, want to fulfill others wishes, or also want to be like everyone else. For these things, they are legitimate, but by doing it, you do not develop a unique ability that you have. So what should we do to be a person who has high life values on others’ perception and have a better life? The answer is be yourself in your lifestyle.

To improve a better lifestyle and social life, what we have to do are:

1. Carry out all things that are useful and important for own self and others.
Doing things that are important to self is very good; but, we do not be too selfish. Doing things that important for others is also very important. Because it can increase our social life value, so it can make as become an important figure in a social life. here a brief example. Let’s say you are a member of a social networking site like Facebook. You add people become your friends, but you looked likely only telling your problems in your wall. This is not good. Try to share with others, care for others, give a good comment to others, so the others will love you. Or, in real life, try to be a good listener, but do not only convey inspiration or your ideas. Try to listen to what they say, and make a good comment or answer with sincerity. Life is a matter of sowing and reaping. Try to help others with sincerity, and then you would have noticed and helped by others as well.

2. Be disciplined in everything
To become a disciplined person, not only do things in a timely manner. But, you have to do everything with a high consistent and commitment. For example, if you want to live healthy, do regular exercise. If you want your girlfriend / boyfriend or anyone else loves you, fulfill your promise, as appropriate. By doing these things simultaneously, then the value of your life will go up, and you start to become someone who has a good reputation. For as the proverb says that "The discipline is the key to success".

Many people are mistaken to be a person who has a good reputation. They think the people who are good reputed should be an artist or a politician, so they mimic what the artists or the politicians are doing. This mindset of people is the mindset that is not a good thing to do. In my opinion, you also are a person who has special privileges. Use that right to improve the quality of your life personally and socially, so you will have a good reputation.

Try to do these simple things, and then you will become a useful person for yourself and for others.