I Want Him Back But How Do I Get Him?

When separation between couples happens, one or both of the parties would naturally miss the times they had together. If this has happened to you and you realize you want your ex back, there are things you should do to achieve that reconciliation. Just do not force yourself or the reconciliation on your ex because these will just scare him out.Think about the breakup and know what led you both to it.If the separation was caused by one person, there is a chance to repair the relationship.But if your togetherness has been marred with constant fights, pain and frustration, it may be impossible to fix it. You should first ask yourself if the relationship is really worth the fight. Go out with your close friends and ask them what their opinions are as to why you and your ex broke up. They may see things that you do not know.
Give your ex some time for him to miss you. You should use the time apart to be busy on your own, thus the need to communicate with him would be avoided. The time alone will make him see what life without you is. You would also get used to independence which you will need if reconciliation is impossible.Know the negative attitude of yours which led to the breakup. Change them into something more positive so that your ex would see and appreciate this. If he sees you have changed, he may want to take a shot again with you.
Look physically good. Shed off additional fats, get a new haircut and change your wardrobe. Be more confident as men get attracted to confident women. Have a new sport and hobby as these will add more to your confidence. Focus on your life and the things you wish to achieve. The opportunity to be single will make you grow as a person. If you have a well-rounded lifestyle, you will become more attractive and interesting than ever.

When weeks or months have passed after the breakup, try to communicate with your ex. You can email or send him a text message asking how he is. Be friendly but never eager. Ask him out for a drink or a hotdog in the park. Make the call last for only five minutes and tell him you have to hang up as you are very busy. When you become a mystery, he will become interested in you again. Never give an inkling that you wish to reconcile.Know the things he loved about you and show him those things when you go out. However, do not overdo it. If he liked your hair in a ponytail, make sure he sees you again with such a hairstyle. If he loved that sense of humor of yours, make him laugh again. He would miss you more if he sees those things he loved about you in the first place.
When he continuously asks you out, you should be honest to him and tell him your feelings. If you need to apologize for your past mistakes, do so. You do not have to make promises but say you will try your best to change if it is necessary. Refrain from blaming him for his own mistakes but just accept that things turned the way they did. Tell him you are open to reconciling but if he seems unwilling and hesitant, say you are not expecting an immediate answer.Patiently wait for him. If the guy still loves you, he will come back, thus you do not need to beg. Do not call or visit him often just to get his answer as he will see behind your motives. If he still does not give you an answer after weeks or months have passed, this means he is not interested to reconcile, thus you must move on.If you want him back, follow these tips religiously.