Today's women are complex, strong and independent. They juggle careers, family, and a personal life of their own. So, how do you play Casanova to the modern day woman? The fact that she attempts to be every woman is exactly why you need to make her feel like one.

I don’t care if she is the best friend, who loves ESPN, and goes beer for beer with you on game night. She doesn’t need an explanation of romance. Females are born with a gene that allows them to just “know.” Romance is what every woman wants out of a relationship, and most feel they don’t get enough of it. But, romance is a tricky thing many men know nothing about. And she won’t tell you either, because she expects you to just “know.”

1. Give her a morning treat. No, not that kind of treat. Wake up early and fix her cup of coffee. Think small but thoughtful. Romance is in the details. Does she
prefer tea with lemon or a boiled egg with a sliced apple? Whatever it is, show her you know her every desire with a simple piece of toast.

2. Create a private moment. There is always time for romance. Keep a cd of her favorite love songs in the car. Pop it into the dvd player during an everyday drive
and instantly create a romantic moment. Intimate and personal, she will feel like every love song was written for her.

3. Feed her cravings. Chocolate is a romantic gesture, but personalization is more important than tradition. Go across town and pick up the favorite red velvet
cupcake she only buys on special occasions. Or pick up her favorite candy bar or French fries. Not only are you presenting her with a guilty pleasure, giving food
unconsciously represents you love her no matter her appearance.

4. Text your love. The text message is the new version of the love letter. Done properly it is just as romantic. Send a text message that is a touching reminder she is being remembered during the day. It can be as simple as “I’m thinking of you and want let you know I love you,” or “Waiting for you at home, come back soon. I miss you.” You can step it up a notch with a text series. Early in the day text “Why I love you.” Then send multiple emails throughout the day describing in detail why you love them. For example, “You've seen me at my best and my worst, yet love me anyway,” or “You make me feel cherished.” Pour out your heart and you can’t go wrong. If you want a few sizzling text ideas, check out this eye opening video.

The Extras

1. Let your alpha male rise to the surface. Woman don’t want to be controlled in an “I Tarzan you Jane” scene. But, you should let her feel like she is unequivocally your woman. When in a crowd, gently guide her by the elbow or the small of her back. Let her know you are taking care of her, so no other man need volunteer his
services. Besides good manners, your touch is the basis for the subtle accidental on-purpose romantic contact.

2. Lend her your coat or sweater. This may sound like a “Happy Days” rerun, but let her wear your jacket. Next time she is shivering in her little black dress, drape
your sports coat over her shoulders. This is a protective, ownership gesture that is at one time sexy and romantic. It shows you are willing to give up your comfort
for hers, and that what is yours is hers. The simple scent of your cologne on her skin will raise her temperature.

3. Be a gentleman. Open the door, pull out her chair, and help her with her coat. She is completely capable of doing these tasks herself. But even a modern woman can
appreciate your attentiveness. It’s like dipping a woman on the dance floor. She doesn’t know how amazing it feels, till you sweep her off her feet.

Author's Bio: 

This article written by Don Diebel (America's #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: This article is copyright (c) 2011 by Don Diebel and may be reprinted in it's entirety as long as his website, byline, and copyright statement is included. He also features books, cd's, dvd's, cassettes, pheromone products on meeting, attracting, and seducing women at: Gemini Publishing