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How to Get a Guy to Want You – How to Make Men Powerless to Resist You

Written by Lisa Redfield

Topic: DatingPublished October 24, 2011
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In the last few years, I dated more than a few guys that, at first, seemed perfect for me. They looked just they way I liked, they were fun to be around and they were attentive. At first I thought I know how to get a guy to want you. But…

Then suddenly, the minute they could feel I was interested, they stopped trying all together. They stopped taking me out, stopped calling and basically, well, dumped me.
I couldn’t understand what I was doing wrong. Is it me? Were they just looking for a one night thing? I didn’t get it. I think I look alright, I have a good job, I keep my body in a good shape and I like to have fun and laugh. So why did I end up with men that didn’t really want me?

I found out that there are secrets to the powerful ability a woman possesses – that causes men to be interested in her — even if she isn’t the tallest, smartest, or the most beautiful woman around.

The guys that did stick around would quickly become couch potatoes on my sofa, brought their own beer, watched football or played PC games and expected me to fix dinner.
I didn’t understand men, I didn’t understand what they really want and most of all I sadly realised that I didn’t know how to get a guy to want you.
I decided to dedicate all the time needed to find out all about getting the guy you want. I stopped taking advice from my girlfriends (you can read why if you go to my first post “How to Get a Guy to Want You? Definitely Not Like This!“) and started researching the secret ways for a man’s heart. This time – from men’s perspectives.
2 Secrets to Get Any Guy You Want

All the while, I kept seeing other women who actually were not as attractive as I am that seemed to get all the “hot” men. Not necessarily gorgeous guys, but the ones who took them to nice places and basically worshipped them and treated them like a queen.
What secrets did they know that I don’t? They didn’t share them with me and sometimes they didn’t even know.

There are 5 things that men absolutely crave – that I had no idea about. Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a man than the secrets I found Here – and if you give them to him, you’ll have his undying devotion. Click Here to Find More – Right Now!

Secret #1 – Confidencer
Are you confident? And I don’t mean arrogant, it’s a different matter. A confident woman knows WHO she really is on the inside. She knows what she’s worth and doesn’t depend on a daily dose of compliments and reassurances to feel good about her self.

A woman complaining about being fat, for example, will turn men off. A woman who voices her insecurities too much will turn men off.
Men like women that feel gorgeous the minute they wake up in the morning – with their hair all messed up and in her teddy bear pajamas. If you really want to know how to make him want you, you should know that they like women who don’t get threatened if they don’t call the next day or the next hour, a woman who has a social life and doesn’t depend on them for anything.

Remember that you were meant to shine, and any man who will get a feel of your inner light will become powerless to resist you.

Secret #2 – Celebrate Being a Womanr
Though we feminists don’t like it, men like to be men. They like a woman to be a little fragile, a little soft, someone who will arouse their natural tendency of wanting to protect and defend women. I used to be a tomboy, liked to swear like one of the guys. That brought many male friends to my life, but not many lovers. Don’t confuse this with total dependence on him. Be independent but celebrate your femininity, make him feel “like a man” and he will never let you go.

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