How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

Breaking up or being dumped by someone you love is tough. It can send you into depression and misery for days. And it sends you into desperation of getting your ex-lover back. You constantly text and stalk her to get back. But you know what, you are doing it all wrong. Women find it annoying when men do that all the time. So you ask, “how do I get my ex girlfriend back?” Here are some tips on getting there.
Believe or not, the first step to take in getting your ex-lover back is to move away and leave her alone. This may sound contradictory to your goal but this actually works. It’s like how reverse psychology works. The more your absence lingers on her, the more she’s going to realize how much she misses you and how much you mean to her. And the more she sees how fine you are without her, the more she realizes how painful it is not having you. Well, this is actually a crucial move. If you leave too long, it may give her the idea that you have moved on already. And if you show her how much you really enjoy your separation, it may push her farther away. No, this is not the impression you may want to give to your ex-girlfriend.
So how do you really do it? Once you decided to leave her alone, divert your attention on how to make yourself a better person. Clear your head and work out the things that were once the cause of your problems before. But let this time away just be enough for you to fix yourself and for her to miss you. Don’t make it too long for her to think that you don’t want her anymore. And about showing her how fine you are without her, don’t let it go too far. When you bump with each other, talk to her in a civil way. Show to her that you still care but don’t let the subject of getting back together come up. That’s the only time you are going to communicate with her, do not call or text her. For as of this moment, you have to focus on yourself first.
When you’re done fixing who you are, here is the next step. It’s a simple strategy but a very convincing one. You have to think of what attracted her to you in the first place. It’s like starting all over again, from being friends to dating again. This actually works because what attracted her to you before will attract her again this time. If she sends you cues that she still wants to be together, then you are doing it the right way. Remember that you are the only one who knows you’re ex-girlfriend well so you know all the things that make her tick and the things that tells she wants you. Pay attention to verbal cues and body language. Then work it from there.
Put this in mind that sometimes not all of these steps might work. It’s not because you did not do it the right way but because you’re ex-girlfriend just wants it to be really over between the two of you. She has decided to move on and forget. Well, you should see this coming though so that all you’re efforts will not be put to waste. If she rejects your offer of getting back together, then move on. You have done your part already. It’s time to pack your bags and leave for good this time. Don’t worry about never finding someone as good as her because as far as you’re concerned, there are a lot of girls out there willing to be yours. You just have to look closer and be open-minded. And whoever was at fault for the downhill of your past relationship, get over it. If you’re ex-girlfriend can’t accept that you have changed, someone will eventually. Just hold your head high and move on.