There have been a lot of couples who still try to win each other back after getting through break up. They suddenly realize that the break up was just brought about by illogical thinking and love is still evident.

Sad to say, failed relationship can be attributed to absence of knowledge by the couples on how to actually get back together with their ex. The article will help those couples who do not know how; here are the 7 tips for them in getting back together after a break up; hate me before, love me now!

Avoid any contact/communication
Do not communicate with your ex this time, this is not the best time and the best way to get him back. Yes, the communication with your ex is somehow important but do not make it a point that you are begging desperately to win him. When you call and text him from time to time, all the more you look so desperate and pathetic.

Have fun with friends
Enjoy your life this time and continue living before you get back together. Have time for your family and friends and always treasure them. When you spend time with those you care about, you will be in a better mood because whatever your mood is, it can be contagious and it will affect your friend's night too.

Be affectionate
Even one sweet gesture for your ex may lead him back towards you. That sweet and affectionate gesture may mean a lot to your ex; that you care and that you still remember him and most of all, you are ready to take chances with him again.

Give Them Space
This may seem difficult but you need to respect your ex's space if you want to get back with him. You need to make sure that you give your ex time to think, and time to miss you. If you are constantly trying to talk to them, they may feel as if they do not have the space to consider getting back together with you.

Have some time to talk with your mutual friends
Talk to mutual friends about your situation. Mutual friends can help because in one way or the other, the thoughts and feelings of your ex are may be known more by them than you, as such you can possibly get great advices.

Take ex for a date
When you feel comfortable, you need to ask your ex out on a date. When you do, there is a great chance of reconciliation.

Take it slow
It is important that you have to take the whole process, from break up to reconciliation until getting back one step at a time. If you try to push too hard, you may push your ex away. Just allow time to get you back with your ex.

Initially, the steps may be so hard to do. There can be some tips that contradict with what you feel inside. Doing some self-control and self-restraint with your emotions can increase your chance in getting back together after a break up.

Author's Bio: 

Johnny Wayne personally believes that all relationship can be saved but it all depends on how much effort is being put in. You can find out more about our Second Chance Romance Review and the tips on how to Bring Back a Lost Love.