CAN I SHOW YOU HOWTO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE?

Save your marriage! People marry when the think they have falling in love. When couples marry they are generally so infatuated with each other that they don't think to ask each other about the life altering decision that they have just made. They are in love and that is all that matters and everything will be OK.
What are some of the warning signs that your marriage is failing? Remember in the early days you had to hug each other every chance you could? Or just the sit or her /him took your breath away. How about just sitting and talking about the future? And now you don't even hear when they speak.
You know that it is the little things that matter the most. According to some marriage counselors, many couples talk to each other but they do not really communicate with each other. If you or your spouse is stating to sound like a broken record and you seem to argue over the same things, this is a common problem the couples have when they have run out of words to express themselves.
Think of the healthy thing you need to talk, about learn to complement one an other. Most of all learn to listen again like you used to, with your heart not just you ears. Because with out this you could be on the road to divorce.
There are many possible reasons why your spouse is avoiding you and some of those reason could be that your spouse might be having problems at work, your spouse maybe financially stressed out or your spouse might be going through some personal issues ,and if one of these reasons are the cause of the distance between you to, the best thing for you to do is to let him know that you are there to listen and to provide him with love and support.
On the brink of divorce? Should you decide to give up? I think not!! Learn to change the attitude of your awareness and accept that your marriage could be on the brink of divorce and decide to change it and come bouncing back to a more in depth love for each other. Make a commitment to yourself that you are going to do what it takes to work thru and restore your marriage.
COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS.
First is the feeling of devastation, as if there is a great loss.
Second is anger because you feel helpless. Third is defeat,but don't give up because him /her can always change their mind.
CAN I SAVE MY MARRIAGE IF THERE HAS BEEN INFIDELITY?
Infidelity does not mean that the marriage is over because surviving infidelity and healing your relationship is possible. Analyze the present consequences of the relationship if you decide to forgive him/her. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair. And forgiveness always brings relief.
What is a happy marriage?
The first thing is to start to communicate again not yelling and screaming but rational and thoughtful. Next respect the other person and allow them room to express themselves And last but not least is to FORGIVE, forgiveness is the foundation for all restoration with out it nothing can be accomplished.
CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE? YES!! Plan things that the two of you can do together reconnect with things that both partners enjoy. If there are children then plan family activities that all can enjoy, turn off the cell phones,computer,TV,and any other thing that would distract from the people you want to be with.
At least once a month plan a DATE NIGHT for just the two of you this gives you time to focus on your partner.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED? Having excellent marriage quality depends on being able to disagree without inflicting permanent damage upon the relationship. Learn that as time passes that both of you are going to change, that what use to be important won't be. Learn to change and grow together not apart. Be willing to understand that you will disagree and that it is ok. Always be quick to forgive and slow to anger,slow to speak. Never ever ever let the sunset on an argument, that is something that my grandma told me many years ago and she was married for 60 years to my grandpa and it has served me well.