During the month of September lovers everywhere will be paying closer attention to each other. We’ll see a bit of scrutinizing as well as changing what no longer works.

The Virgo energy is hard at work now to help you discern the useful from the nonuseful in your love life, so let’s carefully step in and look around.

ARIES: This month is the time to make sure you and your relationship are on the same path of goals. If you want marriage and he or she does not, why stay if your needs are not being met? Talk honestly and openly about what you both want in the next 12 months. Lucky Numbers 4, 10, 18, 20, 19, 6

TAURUS: Have you ever heard the true story of the baby monkey experiments where one was raised in a cage alone, another with a blanket and still another with a steel replica of a mother and the last one together with its loving, touching mother? You NEED to be touched and often to thrive in your relationship. Lucky Numbers 40, 10, 9, 31, 22, 16

GEMINI: Check out some online programs for Non Violent Communication. Sarcasm, denial of accountability and judgment are hurting your love life. It is possible for both of you to learn how to ask for what you need without demanding it. Verbal abuse is unacceptable at any time and there’s room for change now. Lucky Numbers 4, 5, 18, 32, 9, 50

CANCER: Look at a tendency for you or your mate to be spending too much time at work and not enough time with each other. Of course everyone needs a little alone time for reflection but this month you may find a resentment brewing by feeling neglected. Instead, plan on cooking & presenting a nice meal together. Lucky Numbers 19, 23, 16, 11, 20

LEO: Appreciation is the keyword of the month for you and your lover. Too often one of you assumes the other knows how much they are loved. “Oh, I don’t have to say it. He/she knows how I feel.” Assume nothing this month. Recognize your lover’s smile, hard work, funny jokes and appearance. Lucky Numbers 50, 60, 21, 33, 8, 11

VIRGO: Happy birthday and thank you for reminding us all that if something is not working in our relationships to not give up, but to keep looking for a solution that works for both partners. You are an inspiration for narrowing our focus into workable compatibility. Lucky Numbers 49, 57, 1, 22, 29, 30

LIBRA: You have a gentle approach to making changes this month by speaking in a way that is not alarming or condemning. You may both want to look at your dietary habits to stop eating foods that upset your stomachs. And smoking will become a big question this month. Review your health carefully. Lucky Numbers 7, 11, 17, 31, 35, 50

SCORPIO: Denying your feelings to your lover is not solving your problems. Yes, you’ve been feeling abandoned in more ways than one lately, but hibernating is not going to get you what you want. Instead say something like this, “I feel lonely when you continue to watch TV and not answer my question. Would you be willing to turn off the TV for five minutes so we can talk?” Lucky Numbers 12, 49, 50, 57, 56, 9

SAGITTARIUS: The more you two have a chance to get out in nature this month the better your mood. This is a great time for you to pick an outdoor adventure one week and your lover to choose the following week. Swimming? Camping? Boating? Harley riding? Go have fun. Lucky Numbers 2, 5, 18, 27, 30, 44

CAPRICORN: When was the last time you and your sweetie dressed up and went to a play or museum? Your personality needs the cultural rub on a regular basis. Because the good life is what you strive for, make an effort this month to feed your sense of art, for art’s sake. Lucky Numbers 57, 56, 40, 2, 19, 12

AQUARIUS: You might have meant well, but your crankiness got in the way of your romantic mood. Outside troubles at work or with family are interfering with your ability to focus on the here and now. Just for this month take extra notice as to where your thoughts are at random times of the day. Be here now. Lucky Numbers 27, 1, 55, 54, 31, 11

PISCES: Denial is not a river in Egypt and now would be the time to become accountable for your part in any relationship problems you two are experiencing. Ask yourself if you were vague, unable to set good boundaries, or under the influence when the argument started. Your caring personality can admit & fix now. Lucky Numbers 12, 16, 57, 28, 44, 3

So, take a careful look everyone and fix what’s not working. There is a solution if you’re both willing to find and use it. Here’s to your happy, loving relationship.

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