An excellent starting point for a relaxing and invigorating massage is the back.

  • Begin at the base of his spine with your palms on his sacrum (just above his tailbone).
  • Inhale.
  • As you exhale slide your hands up his back on either side of his spine.
  • With a firm touch, follow the line of his shoulders out from his neck.
  • Slide your hands down the outer sides of his back, coming to rest again at the base of his spine.
  • Do it again and again and revel in his sighs of pleasure.
  • Move on to his buttocks or shoulders or neck or arms—wherever your hands feel compelled to go.

If you are giving your lover a full body massage, make sure to cover every part of his body—ears, toes, eyes (very softly), fingers—not just the major sections like legs and back. His whole body has skin hunger.

Excerpted from our Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook.

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Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host lover’s romantic weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations. For more information call toll free from Canada or USA: 1-800-684-5308 International long distance: 1-819-689-5308. Visit their websites, and their blog Ask About Love and Sex or send email: They have four books published including Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, New Page, 2003; The Complete Idiot's Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra, Penguin, 2007; Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms Body, Heart, Mind and Soul, Llewellyn 2007; Tantra Step by Step: 28 Days to Ecstasy, Llewellyn 2007.

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