A few days ago, some lovable soul left my mailing list and community (sob) with a terse note about me being disruptive.
And I got to thinking about the word.
I liked being called disruptive.
Why on earth would I want to not make any waves at all?
I am called to be disruptive!
To break ... Views: 1414
You have been working your socks off!
And so far, nothing much to show for it!
You look around and see others that do less than you and you feel angry, resentful, kinda yukky inside…
And that brings you right down, honey…
RIGHT DOWN!
Down to a place where you cannot win.
Down ... Views: 963
I see you…
Going through the motions but not actually doing anything that gets you any attention in the marketplace…
Giving into the crazy voice in your head…
Giving into the many, many, MANY demands on any leader’s life…
Doing less and less and getting absolutely nowhere…
WHEN WILL YOU ... Views: 671
What was your immediate response to that headline?
An indignant ‘YES, of course I do’ followed by an uncertain, more silent ‘NO, I am not sure that I do, actually’…
And guess what? The ‘no’ rules you at the moment if you are not at the income level you want to be at.
That silent ‘No’ is ... Views: 970
Sometimes, we get so focused on the practical sides of running a business and that is absolutely right and fair that you do that but this is the thing…
If your brain is set to always believe that things are going to be a struggle, then who is to say that you are not creating the struggle with ... Views: 809
Leader, it is time to step things up!
It is time to stop giving into the excuses…
It is time to be the POWERFUL creature you were created to be!
That leader who does not give excuses and actually gets off their butt and does the work that they are born to do…
The leader who recognises and ... Views: 654
For a long time, money made me uncomfortable…
I felt I did not deserve it…
I felt it was greedy to want it…
I felt I should be willing to work for peanuts or even ‘better’, free…
And needless to say, I was not able to make money or keep money…
It seemed to flow away from me.
Yes, I looked ... Views: 641
Honey, I can see you…
YOu want to say certain things but you hold back, worried that you might lose all your friends…
You want to do powerful work, change lives and create a super-successful business but you are scared that someone, somewhere will think you are mercenary…
You worry ... Views: 1235
So… you have a big dream…
EXCELLENT!
WOOHOO!
WAHEY!
And it includes changing the lives of many, many people with your product, service or business opportunity…
Again, HOW EXCELLENT!
And you also dream of the awesome lifestyle you are going to make happen for your ... Views: 872
I resisted for so long…
Pre-children, I was scared a heckuva lot of the time…
Scared to play full-out for my big dreams…
Scared to go all in…
Scared that I would lose the little stability that I had gained after years of working my socks off to become a pharmacist…
Years of not ... Views: 897
Lets be honest, you have been worrying and worrying and staying stuck in indecision as to what to do next and where has it got you?
Worse off, right?!
The hole keeps getting bigger and bigger…
You are still not living the life you want to live but you are definitely worrying more and more ... Views: 828
Just because you have always acted a certain way does not mean you have to continue acting in that certain way. The moment you decide, truly decide to drop the act and become whoever you want to be, you can.
There is a distance between the vision of who you see yourself being and ... Views: 789
Your focus is too much on the here and now…
And so how can you create the wealth and riches you want while all you see is the debt and struggle of today?
When you act in fear and uncertainty, of course the result you get is more fear and uncertainty.
You cannot physically see the big vision ... Views: 738
So, you sit there with your computer in front of you, wondering what to write about.
And if you are completely honest, you will realise that you have discarded about 10 ideas because you wondered if they were good enough, sweet enough, attractive enough to everyone out there when really, the ... Views: 854
Most spiritual peeps feel they have a call to do the work of changing lots of lives…
And they willingly give themselves to that call…
However, they cannot do as much as they want to because they also feel compelled not to learn how to do the real work of building a sustainable ... Views: 687
Enough of the waiting…
Enough of the asking for permission…
Enough of thinking that anyone else has the right to tell you what you are allowed to do or not do…
Have or not have…
Be or not be…
Enough, enough , enough!
If you want something, ... Views: 778
Oh for goodness sake, are you not done with the whining already?
This is the thing – I see you moping around the place looking for answers INSTEAD OF BUCKLING DOWN TO DO THE WORK…
You persist in telling yourself that you are too scared…
As though that means you get a free pass…
You ... Views: 898
You are still stuck trying to be the same as everyone else…
Judging your every thought and word before you let it out because you want to be sure that it will be accepted by everyone…
And so, you blend right in and get NOTHING that you want!
You think that just because people want something ... Views: 736
Can I let you into a ‘not-so-secret’ Facebook advertising trick?
One that could start the revolution of your business, especially if you are one of those fairly established businesses with a client list…
(And if you do not have a list of people who have bought from you, maybe ... Views: 727
It is that simple, leader…
You plant your feet firmly on the narrow path and you look the vision in the eye…
And you say…
“I am making this happen”
“I will never ever back down”
“I will do what others only talk of doing”
“I will defeat my internal negativity”
“I set my mind and this ... Views: 946
People go to their spiritual place on whatever day of the week and think that that is faith.
People set rules for other people to live by in order to be part of the ‘faith’ club and again, think that that is faith.
But none of that is real faith.
Real faith is an act of ... Views: 927
Faith…
You need it, you know…
You might be uncomfortable with the word because it reminds you of that crazy preacher man from your past, calling down fire and brimstone and now you associate the word with that…
But that is not what I mean…
No need for religion ... Views: 683
Have you seen a baby learn to walk?
Have you heard that example time and time again?
Have you learnt the lesson in it YET?
Or are you still thinking that unless you can take one step to greatness everytime, then your ideas, your visions, your mission is not worth getting back up and trying ... Views: 1973
You must be able to create a lot of content in a short space of time if you want to generate a lot of traffic to your site. Traffic equals eyeballs on your products, services and it does tend to lead to more sales and more people to pixel so that you can remarket to them time and time again ... Views: 792
There is a switch inside of you, waiting, waiting, WAITING for you to flick it on…
When you flick it, you will suddenly realise that you have always been limitless…
That everything you desire could have been yours…
Whenever you wanted it…
If you would have just made the decision to create ... Views: 666
I know you want it…
The automated way to get more customers, clients, recruits, with minimal input from you…
You want to set up this machine and see them coming in over and over and over again with no more work from you…
And yes, it can happen but you will always work the ... Views: 953
Come on now, you have tried to do things that way, have you not?
You have toned yourself down, tried to be obedient to every rule that the gods of business and the internet and social media propose…
You have tried to be polite and nice and to kinda be under the radar while trying to tell ... Views: 1495
Listen, I like making money…
And sometimes, it feels like there would be easier ways to make money than to do what I feel called to do which is to support you, spirit-driven leader in growing your business, getting more clients, impacting more people and increasing your wealth…
After all, I am ... Views: 1118
So, I have a love-hate relationship with my extended family…
I was never quite sure why I felt out of place, thinking there was something wrong with me…
Never wanting to play to the rules…
Never really understanding the FUCKING RULES!
I was considered selfish and rebellious…
The one who ... Views: 763
You have an identity…
A way you see yourself…
A way you look at the world…
And there are only certain things you are allowed to do when you act within the confines of that identity…
You can only eat certain foods which can be a good or a bad thing…
You can only belong to a particular ... Views: 646
Is it really freedom if you can only choose within the constraints and boundaries that others have set up for you?
Is it really freedom if you cannot express what you actually think, without fear of being cast out of your church, your work, your friend circle?
Are you really free?
Or ... Views: 1100
Yesterday, I doubted myself…
It was pyjama day so I allowed myself to indulge in it and guess what?!
I regretted it.
I ALWAYS regret it and yet, I never seem to learn.
I allowed the doubts a voice in my head for about 4 hours and then I realised that I was getting absolutely nowhere ... Views: 1347
Yep, I see you…
You have fallen off your perch…
Everything you want seems to be getting further and further away from you…
You feel abandoned, alone, fed up!
Actually fed up is such a small word compared to how you really do feel!
You feel broken!
Yep, that is it, BROKEN!
As though ... Views: 843
There is something decadent about getting everything you want…
You kinda want it all…
But there is a part of you that also wonders if you really do want it all…
Why?
Because there is a part of you that knows it is not always easy to get everything you want…
And you are not sure if you want ... Views: 740
I get it, leader!
You are scared that if the real you actually did stand up, no one would want to know…
You would be ignored…
You would lose all your money…
Go bankrupt…
And die alone!
OK, so maybe a slight exaggeration but be honest, it is ... Views: 1233
We all have rules…
Rules about what we have to do in order to be fulfilled and make money…
Who we have to be…
How exactly we have to make it happen…
So many hidden rules, so many obvious ones…
And all those rules just get in the way of what is TRYING ... Views: 651
Once upon a time, I allowed myself to remain poor by holding on tightly to the little money I had and refusing to let it out of my sight because it felt so hard to come by.
I was living in poverty and I did not even know it.
ON the face of things I was successful, I had the career, the ... Views: 1335
So, you have listened to this guru and that guru telling you exactly how things MUST be done…
They have given you the instructions and you follow it to the letter…
Surely this is how life and business must work – That person said it and so it must be so!
Right?
But then nothing ... Views: 732
The Spiritual Entrepreneur is a maverick…
At least the successful ones are!
You may learn the foundational knowledge that other trainers and successful business owners teach you but when it comes down to it, you go your own way.
You have the courage to find your own path and stay on course ... Views: 737
You already are somebody…
You already have something to say that can help people…
But they do not know it!
Because you are not telling them…
And even when you do tell them, you do it in a scared kinda way…
And so no one trusts that what you have to say will really work for them…
And so ... Views: 776
Let’s be honest… Great things take time.
And YOU are called to a GREAT THING!
You want everything yesterday, right? And this waiting game is not pleasant at all and yet, it is inevitable that as you stay on the path, you WILL get what you are ‘hustling while you wait’ for.
And it takes a ... Views: 905
Today, I struggled to come up with something to say to you…
And I know for most people, that would be a reason not to try…
But I am committed…
Committed to communicating with you…
Committed to showing up with that timely word that will propel you forward…
Committed to reminding ... Views: 1498
You may already make more than an average of $300 a day…
Or you may not make anywhere near that amount…
Either way, it ain’t fun!
Money itself, the lack of or the abundance of it, does not determine whether you have fun and enjoy life…
Because money itself is not alive!
I know you know it ... Views: 741
Everywhere you look, you are surrounded by the familiar…
Things and people that have been around you since forever…
It is all so the same
And yet, you feel different inside
You feel called to follow through on a particular call, a particular purpose
And it is unlike anything that ... Views: 1220
A few days ago, I watched Tony Robbins do his thing in a documentary created by Netflix. If you have not seen it, you need to. It is powerful.
OK, so I must admit, I am currently in between pain and no pain in a hotel in Turkey so I watched, dozed, watched, dozed the whole way through ... Views: 558
Most of the time when I ask people what their challenges are, they come back and tell me it is a lack of money, a lack of finance, a lack of the green stuff that makes the world go round…
And I listen to them and depending on what stage we are in our relationship because some people just do ... Views: 721
Leader, leader, LEADER!
I see you doing this thing again where you forget that you are leader…
Where you forget that there is no push button strategy that will completely show you in your glory…
Where you forget to put your energy and power into delivering the truth of you…
Because you got ... Views: 602
Leader, leader, LEADER!
I see you doing this thing again where you forget that you are leader…
Where you forget that there is no push button strategy that will completely show you in your glory…
Where you forget to put your energy and power into delivering the truth of you…
Because you got ... Views: 625
Leader, leader, LEADER!
I see you doing this thing again where you forget that you are leader…
Where you forget that there is no push button strategy that will completely show you in your glory…
Where you forget to put your energy and power into delivering the truth of you…
Because you got ... Views: 730
If you would just read this and simply do it, you would win but you probably will not because it took me years to get to the point of actually just believing this and getting on with it.
There is simply something inside the driven, determined maverick, that wants to complicate life, business, ... Views: 803