I want to show how our life can be so much different if just before a silence we end up positive in our talk. The last note of our talk is like the last note of a song, it stays longer and it has more impact on our mind. The end of a sentence brings you somewhere. It could take you somewhere you like, and make your life easy.
Let me give you a few examples!
CHANGE THE ORDER OF THE SENTENCES
We usually say things like: "I would call my brother in Australia but it is too expensive". But what if we say "It could be expensive but I want to call my brother" . Now if you put a silence here, after the second a revised example, you would probably go and call your brother, whether your first sentence gets you stuck.
USE ENDINGS THAT WILL BRING YOU TO A SOLUTION
Sometimes, blocking language patterns are reinforced more than once, suggesting that lots of effort is needed to achieve what we need.
"I need to buy a new printer. It will take me 1 hour to get to the shop, if I am lucky and depending on the traffic. Then I will have to be sure that I choose the right one for me, and I hope it will work as I expect… otherwise I will just waste money and time… and get home tired" …. Then silence. I bet your experience could be exhausting.
Don’t we all have thoughts like this?
What about: "I am going to get a new printer today. I am excited to get a new tool to satisfy my needs"?
Then silence. Where is this sentence bringing you?
If you use this last sentence, it will come natural to you to think about what your needs are instead of torturing yourself with how exhausted you could be.
Use this new language tools and improve your daily life.
Your Life Catalyst Coach
Composer, writer, acting teacher, yoga, meditation teacher and transformational spiritual activist. Vincent has been practicing meditation since he was 17. He trained in London, Italy and India where he lived for 1 year as a monk in the tradition of Kriya Yoga.His vision and methods embrace ancient and modern times, uniting insight and practicality for highest human achievement. Part of his work is that of understanding the symbols that are at play in our life so that we can bring clarity and move into a multi-leveled unified action. When this union is experienced, one gains full power over one’s life.Vincent continues to travel intensively, enriching his direct experience and expanding his insights and understanding.He developed new methods of mentoring. coaching and transformation that apply to anyone, no matter what creed or background, based on sacred teachings, ancient and modern knowledge and his direct experienceVincent is the host of the Internet Radio Show Awareness of the Soul on BBS Radio.