There are two ways you can approach life. You can approach life as if you are at the effect of things or like you are the cause of things. Both are true. The way you focus creates your reality. It’s clear that you are being the cause of your life because you are reading this blog about self improvement. The only question is, “Are aware of what you are causing?”

In order to manifest a new lover, the perfect job, that next big opportunity or millions of dollars…you have to get present to your ability to magnetize what you want. You have to see it, realize it, know it and trust it. That’s why I host classes to create a structure for seeing your power in action. That way you can trust it. Because of the exposure people receive in my classes, they are never the same again.

The Law of Attraction is operating in the background of your life at all times. It is similar to gravity, which is so much a part of your life that you are almost never present to it. Yet, whether you are present to gravity or not does not stop it from affecting your existence. By getting present to the effect of gravity, we are able to use it to our advantage. Airplanes, rockets, kites and cars all use gravity as a part of their operation. In order to learn to fly, airplane designers had to get present to the invisible forces that pull objects back to the ground. Rocket designers realized they needed to go 17k miles per hour to pull away from the Earth’s gravitational field. If you only go 16k miles per hour, you won’t make it.

Similarly, in order to manifest your desires and outcomes, you must get present to those unseen forces that orchestrate the activities of the universe in the background of your life. The Law of Attraction: You attract into your life what ever you give your energy, focus and attention to, whether you want it or not. Like gravity, the Law of Attraction has no opinion or discernment. In other words the Law of Attraction does not care what you attract.

You are free to create whatever you want. The problem is that most people have been conditioned to believe they have no control over their lives and therefore keep attracting what they don’t want by focusing on it. The Law of Attraction is always affecting you, whether you believe in it or not. If you said to yourself “That’s it! I give up on gravity!” would you float away? No. Gravity is there whether you believe in gravity or not.

Even more important is the fact that we have named the unseen force gravity. Is it really “gravity”? No. That’s just what we named something we observed. It’s not true or false or right or wrong, it’s just something that occurs predictably. By naming it, we make it useful to us. So it is with the Law of Attraction. By naming it, we make it useful. As a child, you didn’t think about gravity. Gravity taught its properties to you through demonstration, right? Learning to walk was learning about gravity. Gravity is invisible, and yet it’s obvious and measurable. Gravity was revealed to us by an apple dropping.

The Law of Attraction is far subtler yet no less real. Our senses can easily identify the effects of gravity because it’s instant. Yet, the effects of the Law of Attraction are much harder to spot. Not because the principle doesn’t hold true, but because of the duration of time it takes for it affect us. Some of your desires manifest instantly, others take a life time. It depends on how attached you are to the results. The more attached you are, the longer it takes. The less attached you are, the shorter amount of time it takes. Just like it was hard for us to see that the world was round when it appeared flat, the Law of Attraction is hard to see because it usually happens over long periods of time and is very subtle… But eventually you are living exactly what you had thought about, in one way or another.

I’ve been experimenting with this concept since 1989. Through my tracking I have seen that approximately 70% of my dreams have materialized in one way or the other. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction becomes a powerful tool when you align yourself with its effects. Fight against gravity and you’ll die. Fight against the Law of Attraction and you’ll suffer. Work with gravity and you can soar…Work with attraction and you can live a totally fulfilling and satisfying life.

Thinking is manifesting. Thinking is setting forth intentions and delegations. You get what you think about whether you want it or not. The Law of Attraction is absolute. Your life is the sum total of what you have been thinking about.

Author's Bio: 

Matthew Ferry a Life Coach,The Life Coaching Company Matthew Ferry International offers life coaching, law of attraction and dozens of training products and seminars relating to the law of attraction to help you find your passion and love your life.