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5) Balance socializing with personal time

This may seem a little counterintuitive, but you might be socializing too much.
Of course it helps to get out in order to meet someone, but if you are always
going to the same places with the same clique of people, you could be denying
yourself the opportunity to meet that special someone. If your idea of
socializing is going out on the town with several people, you might want to
consider taking some personal time and go out by yourself. Either try to go
somewhere that is new or perhaps to the same places you usually go but by
yourself. In this way you can get a new perspective on the people around you and
it could even allow someone who has been trying to get your attention a chance
to open up to you that they might not have tried when you were surrounded by
your friends.

6) Be ready when least expected

You never know when love will come knocking and first impressions are hard to
mend if you are not on your best behavior. Always smile at people you first meet
-- and especially the ones that you have met a hundred times! Be pleasant and
open to others, and when someone gives you some attention, be polite and return
their attention with a compliment. If you are having a bad day, try to catch
yourself and let your negative emotions go. Try to see yourself from someone
else's point of view. Are you happy or irritable? Remember that most people do
not get a chance at a second impression, so make your first one your best one.

7) Focus on what you really want

This is a very important thing to remember. Your reality at this time is a
combination of your thought and your choices. But it all starts with a single
thought. Any building or structure you see was once only a thought, what you are
seeing is the thoughts and actions of the person that designed the building and
their vision. Your life is the structure of your thoughts and actions. So if you
are not happy with your current situation, take some time and think about what
you really want. Write these thoughts down on paper in order to give your
thoughts some form of reality that you can actually see. This will be the
beginning of manifesting your hopes and dreams. Write down all the positive
things you would like in a relationship, also write down all the positive things
you have to offer. Focus on these things and if you catch yourself thinking
negatively, stop and remember your list. Focus on the things you want and not
the things you do not have in order to bring positive change into your life.

8) It's okay to be happy all by yourself too

This is the most important thing of all. If you are not happy with yourself, it
will be hard to be happy with someone else. It is okay to feel good about being
alone if this makes you happy at this time. You do not need to feel
uncomfortable about not having a relationship just because this is a holiday
that most people relate to having a partner to share it with. If you are happy
with yourself you will be happy at this time too. It is important to like
yourself so that if you decide that a relationship would be nice then you can
like someone else for liking you. If you find yourself alone at this time, maybe
instead of being disappointed with yourself for not having a relationship, look
at the things that you really like about you. Let your negative feelings drift
away and fill the emptiness with thoughts and feelings of what you like about
yourself at this time. Do not worry so much about future you, just focus on what
you like about you at this time. When you are comfortable with that, look to the
improvements you might like to try in the future. We are all on a journey and
enjoying the journey is the important thing -- after all, once you reach the
destination then you have nowhere else left to go! So make the best of the time
you have with the person that you will always be with no matter what --

Author's Bio: 

Jackie Williams has worked for as a manager overlooking the talent department for a prominent new age communications company. Later as the internet developed, she diversified her recruitment specialty to server global clients for a internet based spiritual network.
She attained her Master of Arts in Anthropology from Northern Arizona University and her BA from Hunter College.