Inviting Love into your life Part 1

Psychics are always asked about
Valentines Day.  For some this could be "singles awareness day."  Therefore
below are tips for inviting love into
your life.

With the fourteenth of February quickly approaching, a lot of people are
starting to think about Valentine's Day and what they are hoping for on one of
the most potentially fear-producing days of the year. Some people have come to
dread this day while others look forward to it all year. Whether you have a
Valentine, are looking for one, or could care less, the ideas below may help you
to find what you are really hoping for, or at least will give you what you
really need during this wondrously complicated holiday.

1) Re-spark love in a relationship

Sometimes when we get a little too used to someone who always seems to be there
for us, we can forget to let that person know how special they are. We just get
too caught up in the mundane day-to-day experiences we are used to and switch to
autopilot to get us through our busy days. The problem is, we forget to switch
to appreciation mode when we get time with that special someone and end up
making them feel like they are not special anymore. In this case you might want
to think back to when you first met this person and try to recreate some of the
experiences that made it fun to be with them in the first place. Let them know
how special they are and what they mean to you on this special day. But most
importantly, do not fall back into this rut once this day has passed.

2) Be open to love

This may seem a little odd at first, especially when we feel alone and want
someone in our lives. But take a step back and reconsider your opinion about
where you are in your life or your relationship. If you are focused on all the
negative things that seem to be happening to you at this time, you will surely
miss out on the good things that are trying to manifest themselves in your life.
Rethink your approach to love, confirm that you want to love and be loved. Focus
on the positive things you have to offer someone and also consider what you like
about the person you are with or if you are alone, the person you want to have
in your life. You do not need to specify an actual person, just the personality
traits you would like them to have. Focus on what love feels like and not on any
negative emotions you may have been focusing on.

3) Be patient with love

Sometimes we get to feeling like we need something we want sooner than we have
it. In this day and age of instants we may forget that it takes time for some
things to manifest as they are meant to be. You can no sooner rush a fine wine
to age more quickly than you can hurry love. While you might be facing this
holiday alone, try not to get caught up in the disappointment that you do not
have what you want as of yet. Time has a way of working things out so that you
get something better than you had originally hoped for. And like the difference
between an ordinary bottle of wine and an outstanding bottle of wine, time makes
all the difference. Just because you do not have what you want this year does
not mean you will not be joyful next year.

4) Be available and/or take action

Sometimes when we may have been patient long enough and still have not gotten
the results we had hoped for, it is time to change our approach and try
something new or different. Take a realistic look at perhaps why you do not have
what you are wanting in your life at this time and then consider why this is and
how you could change your situation. If you are in a set routine of doing things
the same way all the time, it will be of little wonder that you are not meeting
new people either. If you are not allowing others into your life then it should
not come as a surprise that you are not happy with the number of possible
relationship opportunities that come your way. Open yourself up to doing
something different. Get out and try new things, go to where there will be
people you have not met before so that you increase your chances of meeting that
special someone.