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- An Unhappy Marriage: How to Know When It's Really Over - by It's a fact. There are a lot of people who feel unhappy in their marriage. But the real question many of them are asking themselves is, how do I know when my marriage is really over?
Is it when your spouse says, "I don't love you anymore?" Is it after an affair takes place? How do you REALLY ...
Views: 79353(3 votes) - 12 Tips on Sex in Marriage for the Christian Wife - by 1. Don’t dichotomize your spiritual and sexual life. Sex in marriage is a wonderful gift to be nurtured and enjoyed. Growing sexually with your husband is a godly pursuit. Therefore get in the habit of praying about sex and praising God for this gift as much as you would (or more) for other ...
Views: 72031(7 votes) - 11 Interesting Topics to Talk About with Anyone - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2010 from Joshua UebergangAny idiot can ramble on about in conversation and bore the bejesus out of their companions, and it is a legitimate fear for many that this embarrassing turn of events may happen to them at some point. We've all been there, stuck in conversation, trying to dig out of it by throwing everything we ...
Views: 63939(1 vote) - 3 Sexy Lessons for Seducing Your Wife - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2009 from Stephanie BuehlerWhether you’ve been married a year or a decade, you’ve probably discovered that sex can go stale, no matter how much you love your partner. Keeping sex hot in a monogamous relationship is a challenge—but can you think of a better one to tackle? As any sex therapist will tell ...
Views: 60671(23 votes) - Betrayal: When Someone You Love Betrays You - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2010 from Krystal KuehnIt is bad enough when a stranger or foe betrays you, but when it is someone you believed to be a close and trusted friend, partner, or spouse, it is especially hurtful. It might feel like you were taken advantage of, deceived, humiliated, despised, cheated, or stabbed in the back. Oftentimes ...
Views: 60387(2 votes) - Docking Can Be Pleasurable, but Beware of Penis Pain - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2013 from John DuganAs all men know, the penis is a resilient source of incredible and ecstatic pleasure, but some activities may also produce a bit of penis pain if not practiced carefully. Many men engage in the practice known as penis docking or male docking (or simply docking). For most of these men, docking is ...
Views: 59791 - Concerta: Benefits and Side Effects - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2003 from Jeannine VirtueA number of ADHD medications are hitting the market, joining the old Ritalin standby. Concerta, in its relatively short existence, has already grabbed a sizeable portion of the ADHD medication market share. Although Concerta offers a number of advantages over the older ADHD medications, it ...
Views: 59102(13 votes) - The Withdrawal Syndrome: Why Your Man Pulls Away - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Editha RodriguezIt’s confusing, isn’t it? One moment you think you’ve found your soul mate, the next moment he’s stopped calling. You rack your brain for any clue that would explain his behavior. Nothing. Zero. You got along well, he worshipped the ground you walked on. He was smitten by you as much as you ...
Views: 56471(2 votes) - The 7 Reasons Why Women Love Bad Boys - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2007 from Chris WilliamsonHave you ever wondered why THAT guy always seems to get the girls? He's brash, cocky and he marches to the beat of his own drum. He's on (or over) the edge, bordering on rude and doesn't seem to give a damn about anyone but himself - what exactly do women see in a guy like that? You consider ...
Views: 52678(7 votes) - Penis Hair Growth - What's Normal and What's Not - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2013 from John DuganAll humans, male and female, have hair all over their bodies, with the exception of the palms of the hands and the soles of their feet. Aside from the hair on the head and the pubic region, most of this hair is relatively light and downy, and in many cases, it is barely visible unless viewed in ...
Views: 47521 - A mother's letter to her adult daughter... - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2009 from Glenda GibbsA mother's letter to her adult daughter...by Glenda Gibbs Briefing - I had made an earlier request for help, to which my daughter didn't want to have anything to do with it. After sharing a few thoughts, I scripted the following and sent it. Note: With my daughter's permission and her name ...
Views: 47249(5 votes) - Married To A Narcissist And Waiting For Good Times To Return? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2007 from Diane England,When you said your vows, what were you expecting? I suspect if you were like most women, you thought you were entering a partnership. You would enjoy shared power, right? I bet you’ve discovered something quite different, though. I bet he likes to have power over you, isn’t that so? And to ...
Views: 47112(2 votes) - Dry Masturbation 411 - To Lube or Not to Lube? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2013 from John DuganMost anyone who was asked to write a list of words to describe sex would come up with adjectives like: intense, fun, pleasurable, intimate and so on and so forth. A word that would not commonly appear on the list is: dry. Yet many men find enjoyment in the act of dry masturbation i.e., ...
Views: 46250 - Dating a Married Man - Make Him Yours or Get out of this Addiction Fast! - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Sally WebbDating a married man aka being the other woman is one of the hardest thing in the world. I remember couple years ago I let myself blindly get involved in a relationship with a cheating husband. I didn't like him at first and no matter what excuse I threw to myself, it's nothing to do with how ...
Views: 45402(2 votes) - How To Make Him Emotionally Attached To You So He Can't Let You Go - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangHow many of you are confronted with a situation that the guy you are dating and attracted to is not really ready to move your relationship to the next level? Or that he hasn't taken down his profile from the dating site yet after a few months seeing each other? It feels scary for you now that ...
Views: 45046(4 votes) - 4 Tips For Moving Forward When Your Relationship has Ended - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2005 from Susie and Otto CollinsIt seems that everywhere you look, many long-standing (or short) relationships and/or marriages are dissolving. If you’re like most people, when this happens, you find yourself stuck in thinking about the past, wondering what went wrong, and unable to move from the pain of the relationship. ...
Views: 44661(10 votes) - How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You (Based on the Psychology of Falling in Love) - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2007 from M.Farouk RadwanMyths About Making Someone Love You Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process? Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it? Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you? The Truth About Making ...
Views: 44615(8 votes) - 7 Ways to Deal with the Negative People in your Life - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2006 from Lori RadunHave you ever been faced with trying to stay positive when others around you are negative? Negative people can be a challenge to be around. They will bring you down and drain your energy. A negative person can throw your best laid plans to be positive right out the window. Whether your child ...
Views: 43522(6 votes) - When Family Members Stop Speaking to Each Other - by Submitted on May 12, 2004 from Mark SichelWe read so much about family estrangement, about mothers and fathers and their grown children who simply enter a cold war of ceased communication. Eminen and his mother, Jennifer Anniston, Kim Bassinger, Jenna Malone, and their mothers, Gerard Depardieu and his son, the Reagans, whose ...
Views: 42037(2 votes) - Emotional Intimacy - by Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy often does not occur within any kind of sexual context.
Emotional intimacy is a psychological event that occurs when the trust level and ...
Views: 41306(6 votes) - The Ultimate Guide To Texting And Making Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren't careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction. If he is pulling away from you, one of ...
Views: 39030(5 votes) - Fall Out Of Love With a Married Man - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2012 from Cristina AguilarThere are ways to fall out of love with a married man, once you recognize completely that he is not FREE to love you back. It doesn’t matter how powerful his vibes and feelings may be. I doesn’t matter that he is romantic and tells you things that lift you to the highest highs. I doesn’t matter ...
Views: 38226(2 votes) - Prostate Ejaculate Massage - How to Give Him a Tantric Healing and Energy Experience - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2009 from Maya SilvermanJust what is it? And is for real? Well i’m here to tell you that it can happen, although it does take a bit of practice. In case you didn’t know, the prostate gland is a walnut sized gland located just under the bladder. It can be felt by placing a finger 2-3 inches into the anus, although it ...
Views: 37347(1 vote) - Do's And Dont's Of Texting A Guy That Will Make You Stand Out From The Rest - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2017 from Katarina PhangText messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man. Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ...
Views: 37240(6 votes) - Where Do Guys Like to Be Touched? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2010 from Roger PeterUnfortunately guys are not blessed with as many erotic points as girls are. They say that with a girl every part of her body can trigger wild sensations, if touched right, that’s partly because girls are much more in touch with their bodies than guys are. For some guys the only part of their ...
Views: 36674(3 votes) - My Ex Is Seeing Someone Else, Should I Panic? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangRebound relationship is a common occurrence during a breakup. My clients usually get terribly anxious when they find out that their exes are dating again or entering a new relationship. They want to know how to stop this or how their exes can do this, what that means, etc. They ask, "Does it ...
Views: 36241(4 votes) - 7 Tips on How to Satisfy Him in Bed Better Than Any Other Woman - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Jack HutsonLadies, if you are serious about satisfying him better than ever before - listen up. Men aren't as complicated as they may seem at first. If you want to conquer him and make him go insane over you, you have to give him the best sex humanly possible. You have to give him more pleasure in bed than ...
Views: 35570(1 vote) - Understanding Male Psychology Will Help Get Him Back And Fall In Love With You - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangEighty percent of men are distancers and 80% of women are pursuers. Women have 10-15 times more oxytocin (the bonding hormone) than men, and men have 10 times more testosterone (go-getter hormone) than women: so based on that chemical proportion alone, it's obvious women need more closeness than ...
Views: 35237(3 votes) - Healing a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2004 from Kathryn AliceThere is no such thing as a broken heart-only a heart that is learning to love more and better. Realizing that your heart isn't damaged is a relief. But when you're desperately trying to let go of a former mate, and you're in emotional agony, this bit of wisdom is cold comfort. Many say they ...
Views: 34924(7 votes) - The Lover's Guide to Sensual Breast Massage - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2009 from Maya SilvermanBreast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Breast Massage Instructions - The Lovers Guide to Sensual Breast Massage Pleasure Author: Maya Silverman Breast massage instructions should be part of male (and female) everyday learning. It's that important. ...
Views: 34196(4 votes) - What is a Penis Health Cream, and Why All Men Should Use One - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2013 from John DuganFor even the most no-fuss type of guy, there is no denying that a little TLC can go a long way toward keeping the manhood up and running, and many guys turn to ordinary hand lotions for this purpose. However, while many moisturizing skin care products may be designed to soothe itchy, dry skin ...
Views: 32892(1 vote) - Soulmate Or Twin Flame? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2012 from Tonya SomersIf you have met your twin flame there will no drama - none. If you have met your soul mate, there always will be issues. If you have met someone and either of you are married at the time then they are NOT your twin flame, they are NOT the love of your life. Soul Mates The term, ”Soul ...
Views: 32668(1 vote) - Sex Between Older Men and Much Younger Women - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2004 from Marina SmileyThe reality is that sexual desire does not stop once a man reaches the age of fifty. Most of these men are very happyto have a sex partner their own age or close to it. But, there is a percentage of these men, who are looking for sex and possibly a life partner who is much younger than them. ...
Views: 32597(1 vote) - How to Seduce Older Women - 5 Things She Finds Irresistible - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2009 from Mark TaylorOlder women have this certain air of mystery, sensuality and authority that we can't help but to get to admire them endlessly - that's why we also can't help it but to think of ways on how to attract them. Older women are exciting and the passion is can be unbelievable - that's why getting ...
Views: 32307 - Falling in Love Too Fast - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2006 from Gary CaineThe feeling of falling in love is of the most exciting, thrilling and life changing events. Falling in love can change your entire outlook on life. Falling in love can occupy your mind and seem to take away all of life's problems. However, falling in love can bring about a serious problem of ...
Views: 31809(3 votes) - ***Why Less Is More In Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe key of dating an emotionally unavailable man who wants to take things slow is to let him set the pace. Expect that he will go hot and cold. Mirror him in everything he does. When he's hot, reciprocate that, this is your time to establish bonding. When he's cold, also keep a distance. ...
Views: 31286(3 votes) - 5 Text Messages That Will Help You Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2012 from Brad BrowningSo you want to learn 5 text messages that you can send your ex boyfriend to get him to regret leaving you… and turn the tables completely. The beauty of texting is that it doesn’t convey a lot of neediness… so if you play your cards right, you won’t look like a jealous or clingy (which is a ...
Views: 30660 - Dealing With Separation - Breaking Up, Letting Go And How To Move On - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2009 from Lilly CalandrelloWhy do we get so attached to another human being? A fixation on a former love is not unusual. Many have trouble letting go after a relationship is over. The depression that follows the break-up of a relationship is considered by mental health professionals as a normal part of grieving. However, ...
Views: 30574(5 votes) - How To Get Past A Devastating Breakup - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2007 from Susan ElliottTen Things To Do After A Breakup To Get On With Your Life: 1. Know that grieving someone and missing them does not necessarily mean you want them. It means you hurt because you've had a loss. Perhaps that loss is the best thing but it's still a loss. Don't mistake grief for love. It's ...
Views: 30511(1 vote) - 4 Must Do's When Your Girlfriend Wants A Break From You - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Ram GuptaIf your relationship is on the rocks, your girlfriend may have suggested that she wants a break from you for a few days or even a couple of weeks. It may sound like a daunting prospect, especially since you feel like you are losing your grip over this relationship and desperately want your ...
Views: 30419 - The Differences Between Emotional Maturity And Immaturity - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from George BielayWhy should you care about emotional maturity? Because it can mean the difference between a happy, rewarding and satisfying life and relationship versus a stressful unhappy existence with crises that never seem to go away. This newletter introduces the signs of emotional immaturity, qualities and ...
Views: 30279(1 vote) - How to Express Yourself to Others - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2010 from Greg BakerOne of the hardest things to do when you're communicating with someone is expressing yourself. How many times have you said something that just didn't come out the way you wanted it to? How many times have we said something that we really didn't mean, but we were too frustrated to stop it from ...
Views: 29760(14 votes) - How to Arouse Your Wife The Right Way (Husbands Take Note!) - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2009 from Maya SilvermanSometimes when a couple is married for a while some of the foreplay time goes out the window. Maybe you’re busy with work or kids, but you should never let your love life dwindle. “Quickies” are great sometime, but it’s important to focus on arousing your wife as well. If you would like to know ...
Views: 29613(2 votes) - 9 Steps to Forgive an Emotional Affair Without Going Insane - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannAre you struggling to put the past behind you? What if I gave you a simple instruction manual on how to forgive an emotional affair? It's common knowledge that the lies, deception and subsequent broken trust caused by emotional infidelity is much more difficult to forgive than the damage done ...
Views: 29528(2 votes) - “ I HATE MY LIFE! … LIFE SUCKS!” - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2007 from Perry RoseOkay, maybe not for all of you, but a surprisingly large number of people will fire off a “I hate my life! … Life sucks!” at the blink of an eye. “I hate my job.” “I hate not having a social life.” “I hate not being able to afford a car.” “I hate the way I look.” “I hate these gas ...
Views: 29426(8 votes) - Do Guys Ever Want Their Ex Back - Why Men Almost Always Come Back After a Break Up! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeDo guys ever want their ex back? There’s a feeling of sheer and utter panic that a woman feels after a break up if she still loves her ex. You know the feeling all too well, don’t you? You break out in a cold sweat at night when you dream about the man you love dating other women. You start ...
Views: 29362 - Defensiveness: The Poison Pill to Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Jim TammIn 25 years as a judge dealing with relationship issues I almost never had to resolve legal disputes. People were almost always before me because someone got defensive and became a bad problem solver. Defensiveness is a poison pill to good relationships. In conflict, defensiveness is like ...
Views: 28943(4 votes) - How Much Does A Wedding DJ Cost, Prices, Pricing - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2011 from Robert RenoYou pretty much have most of the vendors chosen for your wedding, but now onto the wedding DJ pricing. So how much does a wedding DJ cost? You will see many different wedding DJ prices, keep these points in mind and you will find the right one. Cheap Wedding DJ Prices These prices will ...
Views: 28100(4 votes) - Proven and Effective Ways to Make Your Ex Miss You After Breakup - by Submitted on May 19, 2016 from James UadialeAre you looking for ways to make your ex miss you? Then worry no more as you are about to discover the secret to make your ex miss you like crazy. Wouldn’t it be easier to get your ex back if you can make them miss you? Off course, yes! Unfortunately, many people go about winning back their ex ...
Views: 27984 - How To Know When Someone Is Thinking About You - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2008 from Linda KayeAre you feeling the warm fuzzies for someone? Have you ever asked yourself why it is so difficult to stop thinking about someone? We are all psychic in one way or another. When you connect to another man/woman in a deep way, you are connecting with your souls. Most people don't realize how ...
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