As if dating is not hard when you were younger, it gets tougher now you’re a senior. You think, how can you come through in senior dating. Should you follow the trends and go for online dating? It’s much convenient and you don’t have to go through the anxiousness of approaching and waiting to be approached by a man. It’s quite normal to feel ridiculous at times when you think about dating again. How you’d wish somebody would just come along and both of you would hit it right off, so you won’t have to go through the process of dating.
How’d you wish, you look like Demi Moore so you can still get any man you want and have them running around for you and not to mention having a younger guy who looked like Ashton Kutchner. Too bad things like that don’t happen in real life. We have no choice but to deal with the reality- make the most of what life has to offer. Why can’t dating be more like fishing? Throw out your bait ‘till someone catches it by the mouth and he is yours forever. Dating for seniors can be awkward that is why they should learn to loosen up a bit.
But it’s not too late. Everybody has the right to have romance at whatever age they are in. Before you do, remember certain restrictions and limitations when you’re in senior dating. The maternal date never works in all ages, so much more when you’re in your mothering age. Men never liked to be controlled or be dictated upon, well maybe in bed but beyond that they will never allow it. Mothering men is too much for a man to handle, especially lecturing and instructing them about how they should run their life. Men don’t go after you because they need another mother; they need a date and a romantic partner.
The best thing a woman to do is to act her age, act accordingly to the wisdom you learned through the years. Never try to compete with younger women its futile. They have their own style and you have yours. Never race with them in a drinking spree or in wet t-shirt contest. It’s also essential to dress within your age limit unless you have Haley Berry’s figure then its okay but if you don’t then wear clothes that enhances your assets and hides you liabilities. When you are acting your age, you don’t need to materialize your physical aspect most of the time, use your intelligence, and use your wit and sense of humor to attract men.
Intellectual seduction is your weapon; this is something the younger ones don’t have. When mental seduction is used men are sure to stick around. It’s also essential for senior dating to have realistic goals and objectives. Women who wants to join senior dating should be grounded, looking for an unmarried partner ages 40’s to 50’s is very complicated. Searching out for the likes of Justin Timberlake is too much high expectation and may leave you high and dry. Last but not the least never pretend to be somebody you are not. Be yourself- be comfortable of you who are. Women are like wine so they say, the more they age the more priceless they become.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple , is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.