We all want to make our dates as romantic as they can possibly be correct? To have the biggest impression, where all other dates are compared to right? Here are some great date ideas that will change your usual date, into something memorable.
Treasure hunts make it interesting
Using post-it notes, people, or some inventiveness, you could make a treasure hunt out of the date. You can make it big and city-wide, or keep it low maintenance and make it neighbourhood wide. You could even keep it happening throughout the date in different venues.
Be adventurous
Make them feel alive by doing something new and adventurous. People get bored and take for granted what ordinary and done already, be exciting. Bring something new into their life. Go to somewhere you've never been to before in the city, in a different city, and do something completely different. This is how you become known as spontaneous, interesting, and adventurous. It will leave them anticipating the next time you take them out, and if you hit it off, you'll hit it off big.
Using love letters
It begins by building anticipation of the big night. Do something special with a hand written love letter. Have it be hand-written, beautifully wrapped, and sprayed with a great scent that will trigger their romantic side. You can throw in a present like a cupcake or stuffed animal for bonus points. You can throw in a sense of humor by writing the letter as if you’re shipping off to war, or whatever the plot was in the last romantic movie you watched together.
Charm them, even in your absence
With a little preparation, you can take their evening from perfect to unforgettable. Just before leaving their house use the washroom one last time, but instead sneak a little present on their pillow. It should be something small that will remind them of the date you are about to go on. Then after your date is over, and they think it could get any better, you charm them one last time before they go to sleep.
Give them something unexpected
Typically a man will show up with flowers for the woman he’s about to go on a date with. Keep it unique, give her a stuffed teddy bear instead, or show up with a puppy. A present that’s sweet and unique, that will stand out from all the other presents that people have given. Something that’s uniquely you, even if it’s a little quirky, can make your date memorable. Something like beats, why beats? Because they remind you of her, something that’s beautiful and sweet. Then she’ll be reminded of your date every time she looks at them on her kitchen counter.
Relive the first date, or scene from a book
This is where your memory and the details will get you the most points on your date. Experience again your first date, an anniversary night out of town, or the one where you proposed. Does she have a much loved movie or book? You could also relive a date from the movie. Make their dreams come true, that’s what makes you stand out.
Have a surprise ready throughout the evening
Everyone loves a good surprise; don’t hold them back from your date. Having a nice gift ready to ambush your date is what makes your date memorable, even if it’s not that expensive. Tape the present under the table or having it hidden behind a tree. Its surprises like these that portray you as exciting and put you above the rest.
Getting others in on your date
On the topic of keeping things exciting and surprising, you could get others in on your date. Get the waiter to bring out your present along with dessert, or have a group of children bring her your gift in the park. With a little preparation and perhaps some bribery, your little efforts can make a great impression.
Stargazing or the city skyline is what makes the mood for romance
After the dinner portion of the evening is over, people like to get away somewhere quiet and unwind. Make the most by providing the best atmosphere. Don't just go to a plain cafe, or somewhere just as uninteresting. Go to place with a view of the stars, or city skyline. Let their beauty provide the right environment for romance to settle in.
The classic lines will always be the classics
Somewhere along the date make a bet with them. You know the one where if you're right they buy you dinner next time, but if they're right you buy them dinner? Either way, you've got a date for next Sunday. This can be very helpful in letting them know you're interested in a future with them and that you don't just view them as a date.
The mystery is what makes it exciting
When they ask, “what are we doing next”? Or “where are we going”? Don’t let them know. Keep it a mystery, keep it a surprise. It’s the mystery that makes it exciting, utilize it. In their mundane 9-5 day in - day out job, you can be known as the one thing that stands out in their life.
Give them options
Having a backup plan or having some options if good for your date just in case they are tired, or don't feel like a walk on the seashore. Just don't be indecisive about your decision making. Keep the options limited, and simple.
Stay away from Mr.Predictable
When it comes to making an impression and checking to see if your date is a right match for you, people favor variety of character over one or two really strong traits. This means women will favor a man who displays; integrity, compassion, expression, and love, over a man who just shows really strong character and conviction. Use the evening to display more of your sides, and show off all of you. You can start off showing your compassionate side by helping out at an animal shelter and then shift the focus onto your humorous side by taking them to a comedy club. The idea is that on your date, you don’t have to make it monotone. Making an impression means showing off all of your sides.
Photographs help them fall for you
Getting a photo of the two of you is a great tool in building relationships in the heart of people. It helps them remember and fall in love with the other person in the course of a relationship. People fall in love faster and deeper when they have photographs of each other close by. Help them fall for you by finding a picture of the two of you and giving it to them. With iPhones so abundant these days, this step should be easy, and you have no reason to ignore helping them fall for you.
When it comes to great date ideas, the key is in using; originality, excitement, intrigue, surprise, and a sense of romance, to make a date impressive. It ultimately comes down to living your life in the fullest, and sharing those moments with someone who happens to be in it. Get excited about life, and live it with your special someone.
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