When a Child Dies: Grief Self-Quiz
Parents expect their children to outlive them. When a child dies, the parents’ grief affects their lives forever. Take this quiz and learn the best ways for a professional woman to handle grief when she or a co-worker loses a child. Put an “X” next to the answer that you think is the wisest choice.
__A. You tell her how well she is handling it.
__B. You mail a condolence card to her home.
__C. You send her uplifting emails at work weekly.
__A. You tell your co-workers that he was a good kid and wasn’t on drugs.
__B. You ask colleagues to contribute to an anti-drug charity.
__C. You announce at work that your son has died of an accidental overdose and that you are accepting visits at your home for the next two weeks after work hours.
__A. At the water cooler you nod your head when a colleague says Ted sure is taking time to get over things.
__B. You invite him for dinner.
__C. At work you tell him he looks very tired and that you are worried about him.
__A. On the anniversary of the abduction, you mail a condolence card to her home.
__B. You think secretly that the daughter will probably not be found alive.
__C. You give to charities for missing and exploited children.
Scoring and Explanations
Scoring:
4-6 Read the explanations again to learn more about grief.
7-8 You are really trying to do the right thing. Now take your learning one more step.
9-10 Great job! Teach others what you know.
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