Men harbour a deep, dark secret every woman should know: they WANT to be seduced. They pray for it, and heave a great sigh of relief when an attractive woman spins her web of seduction on them. Although women have been honing their skills of seduction for centuries, there are still some who has yet to learn these skills. Whether you want to seduce your man, or just about any man, the secret to winning him is by hitting his “hidden switch”. Every man’s switch is unique—it’s up to you to find and use his hidden turn-on to your advantage.
Read on and discover the best ways to seduce a man: Seduction is not about walking around buck naked or doing an intricate pole dancing move. In order to properly seduce a man, don’t hesitate to send signals. A man may look confident and charming all right, but it doesn’t mean that you should just sit there like a stiff board and wait for him to make the first move. Little things like touching him, preening yourself or whispering to him will give him even more confidence to get closer and be more comfortable with you. It’s already date number 3: he already knows tons of stuff about you, like how you want your steak rare, and why you hate watching horror movies.
Well then, it’s time to pull out another trick in your sleeve and surprise him! Does he know that you spend your weekends doing volunteer work in the nearby shelter? Pleasant surprises such as this will make you more mysterious and more interesting, which will surely get him hooked. In order to be able to attract love and love others, one must first be able to love oneself. A lot of women find it very hard to feel confident and see themselves as somebody attractive and sexy. Why? Our perception of sexiness and being attractive is distorted by what we see on TV, and in magazines, where models have pencil-thin legs and flawless skin.
We live in the real world, and real women have curves. Sexiness is not the size of one’s waist or the perfectly bronzed skin: it is an attitude, a confidence to look at one’s self in the mirror and say “I'm hot”. If you believe that you are sexy, men will think that you’re sexy. Every man has a little kid inside of him. A woman who knows how to bring out that kid in him is very attractive. Learn to let your hair down, do crazy things and have fun. Most guys would rather be with a girl who can let go once in a while than spend time with a stuck up and boring prima donna with perfect nails.
Often, the secret to a woman’s beauty is not her expensive, perfectly-applied makeup—it’s the smile on her face and the optimism that she radiates. Smiling is a way to show that you are optimistic, and people like to be around a person who exudes positivity. If you want to attract men, show an attractive presence. Smile and he will come to you.
The author of this article Ruth Purple is a Relationships Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Ruth recently decided to go public and share her knowledge and experience through her website relazine.com. You can sign up for her free newsletter and join her coaching program.