What Your Type Of Divorce Reflects

The way a person goes about divorcing and all its variations are very telltale.

Analyst’s Divorce:
It was your analyst’s suggestion that you part. After all the therapeutic sessions, your analyst was comfortable with the both of you divorcing, although neither of you were convinced. You are not an impetuous individual and need to have your opinions affirmed by others.

Attorney’s Divorce:
You sought out an attorney to handle all of the divorce proceedings, because of an underlying yielding nature. You have found your attorney to be capable of inflaming you and convincing you how much you are used. Although before the actual divorce proceedings you actually had a higher regard for your spouse, you now realize how he has terribly mistreated you. Thank you mister attorney.

Celebrated Divorce:
You made a gourmet dinner to celebrate your splitting up. You have lots of class and positive energy. You do not have hard feelings and considering all, you actually have very little feelings about your ex.

Costly Divorce:
Due to the fact that you feel delinquent in carrying out your divorce, you believe by paying extravagantly for your breaking up of your family, you have relieved yourself of the blameworthiness. As one in control, you needed a rationalization for being stormy. Now you can pin that on the exorbitant bill.

Courting Divorce:
How ironic that after you broke up, you appreciated each other more. Your inflexibility demands its own space. You will notice that this is true about you in other relationships as well.

Delayed Divorce:
You really prefer staying together because making a decision to change is a hassle. You actually desire for things to get better.

Furious Divorce:
You find fault in just about everybody, because you expected much more from them than they were actually prepared to give you. Feeling victimized, you are going to make your mate pay for this.

Impending Divorce:
With the intimidation of the divorce proceedings overhanging, your everyday living together has actually improved. You prefer to stay. The problem is that you don’t tell this to your mate.

’In’ Divorce:
Your need for development overshadows your continuing being together. Your nonchalant behavior throughout your breakup typifies your other inter-relations, which of course may be broken for the same reason.

Invalidating Divorce:
It is very hard for you to admit that you could possibly make any mistake. To err and to erase - that leaves a mark. By legally construing that your marriage never existed, you never blundered.

The Living Together Divorce:
The fact that you stay together, be this because of the children, etc., demonstrates that you are actually fearful of loneliness. Forlorn and hopeless, you don’t really imagine that your situation would be better with someone else. Of course, should somebody sign in front of a notary that they’ll marry you, you will then have the courage to move out.

The Never Ending Divorce:
You’ve been married for two and a half years and the divorce proceedings have taken four. You still have great devotion and affection for your mate. Owing to your inherent dedication, your connection is insured by your lawyers and by the ongoing proceedings.

The Premarital Divorce:
In lieu of the possibility that you eventually separate, all movable and non movable possessions have been allocated. This occurs because you can only give of yourself when you are assured of a proper return, your marriage having taken on more of a business relationship than an intimate one.

The Prolonged Separation:
Your nature is not to let anything out of your grasp. The time allowed in these proceedings assists you into your new lifestyle, one of seclusion. Your technical state of marriage psychologically helps you in not having to be with your mate- or anybody else for that matter.

The Recurring Divorce:
In order to get divorced you have to marry. You love love. It would be better if this was your mate. Although you are very romantic, staying married could bring you down, due to the actual needs of everyday life. Being divorced from practicality, it would only have been a matter of time that your spouse would file for the divorce.

The Speedy Divorce:
You have no time for any painful experiences. Even if you realize you will lose, in any given situation, you feel that it’s better to do it in the least amount of time as possible. You inherently believe in yourself and your conclusions, therefore it’s easy for you to expediate major decisions.

The Unavoidable Divorce:
The opinion of others is extremely vital to you. To such an extent that they often weigh more importantly to you than your own intimate relations. The fact that so many people believed that your marriage would never work, has served as a constant negative reminder to you, that you really should divorce because you never should have married. Strangely enough, the underlying fear that your friends might not agree with your decision again threatens you.

The Unexpected Divorce:
How is it possible that your marriage appears to have been full of bliss and out of nowhere you receive an attorney’s letter? Your spouse has filed for divorce proceedings. You do not let yourself see reality. Living in a dream has kept you from facing the reality of your poor state of affairs. Although your spouse’s attorney has won the case easily, you’re sure that all the negative charges against you were only conjured up to insure the large settlement.