The Guided Life

What does it mean to have a guided life? It means to feel supported, guided and blessed internally. That happens when we do our Divine work. Divine work is the work of love: It’s loving yourself, loving others, loving work, loving life and loving God. I think of the word GOD as an acronym for the Guiding Organizing Design of life. So loving God is loving life and life’s design.

I believe there is a system and a plan. How could one not? I recently returned from a safari vacation in the Serengetti. Watching the behavior, pecking order and survival of the fittest of the animals, and the migration based on weather and movement of the stars and planets was startling. In migration, the zebras led the wilderbeasts. We were told that zebras have better memories – and could remember where the water holes were. Yet, the wilderbeasts have better sensory perception and can detect danger more readily. It was fascinating how they worked in unison with the zebras leading the wilderbeasts. And then watching the vulchers and sometimes one not so patiently waiting his or her turn while a jackel was eating a dead gazelle karkas, and then from across the road a sprinting heina barging through the vulchers, scaring away the jackal, picking up the karkas and running away with it. It was nature at its best system.

So knowing there is a system and a plan and we’re in this system, then there is a plan for our lives. How do we find out what it is? We are guided by the sensations, instincts, intuitions, images, thoughts, and feelings in our brains, hearts and bodies as well as the way people treat us and who or what we attract to us. We are born with certain compulsions towards acting a certain way. Our role and goal in life is to transform these compulsions to love. As stated in the bible, when God told Abraham “Lech Lecha,” "Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you," we come in with certain compulsions based on the DNA – the land of the fathers. When we free ourselves of these compulsions, we are more open, more loving, more real, and truer to ourselves. When we are in a state of love and follow our intuition we feel supported guided and blessed.

How do we know when we’re not in a state of love? It’s when we’re not in a state of equanimity. Adapted from my book, Personal Kabbalah, there are signals and signs:

HOW DO WE KNOW WE ARE NOT IN EQUANIMITY?

•Paying attention to the body:
o Stomach discomfort
o Heart pounding
o Anxiety
o Losing temper
•Feeling either superior or inferior to others
o Judging
o Criticizing
o Holding grudges
o Wanting revenge
o Blaming others
o Building cases against people
o Feeling insecure
o Not speaking up to others
o Withdrawing from confrontations
•Making demands of others:
o Telling people what to do
o Getting the last word in
•Watching other peoples’ responses:
o Other people attacking
o Other people becoming defensive about their behavior
o Other people withdrawing from the conversation
•Being unforgiving
o Holding onto anger
o Resenting
o Maintaining animosity
•Being unproductive or uncreative
o Feeling lethargic
o Having no direction
o Finding no meaning in life
o Feeling depressed
•Being too high
o Feeling manic
o Feeling overly excited
o Blood vessels seemingly ready to burst

Invitation:

I invite you to pay attention to your brain, heart and body, how the people in your life treat you, and what you have in your life now. If it’s not what you desire, then pay attention to the above signals and pray and intend to rid them.

Keeping in touch and in love,

Penny