Have you ever have your heart broken? Imagine how you would feel after you found out that your husband of 15 years, the father of your child, the man who was the co-writer and producer of your music and one of the biggest driving forces of your multi-platinum, multi-million dollar career was having an affair. And to make it worse he was having the affair with a woman who was very close to you, someone you would consider a very close friend. Now imagine that the news of his affair would be broadcast all over the world on every major television and news outlet, including the internet.
It would make you want to seriously consider giving up on love wouldn't it? But why is it that a person who can have their heart ripped out, have it put on display for the world to see is willing to take that chance again?
For many the experience of having their heart broken causes them to build an emotional wall that is impenetrable by any man and the experience of having their heart broken once scars them forever.
Yet, for others like Twain, no matter how much pain and suffering they have experienced they are willing to do it all over again for the sake of love.
What causes one person to close down and the other to put themselves out there and risk being hurt again? I don't think we'll ever know. But one thing I am sure of is that those individuals who win in life, whether in love or in business, know that they can never have what they desire if they give up after getting knocked down.
It would have been very easy for Shania to never get married again. But the fact that she is willing to walk down the same road and take that leap of faith is a testament to how wonderful and powerful love is.
Yes, the experience of having one's heart broken is one of the most painful things we can experience as human beings. But from the smile on her face in her wedding picture, it is obvious that the only way to find love again is let go of the past and embrace the future.
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Dr. Joe Amoia, is the founder and creator of Smarter Dating For Women And The Ultimate Relationship Program. He is also the author of the soon to be published book, Smarter Dating For Women.
Dr. Joe's unique approach to dating and relationships is based on his 5 Step Relationship Success Formula, The same formula he used to find & meet his wife in less than 90 days.