How to Take Action When You Don't Believe in Yourself?

Why don't you believe in yourself? The reason is probably because most of the people have a lot of head trash. What Do You Have to do to Take Action When You Don't Believe in Yourself? People should start a plan in order to step forward to their goals and live easy, focus their mind to the action and create change in our daily life. People should get rid of that head trash that's saying I can't do it because.

What is Head Trash?

-Head trash is the thing that's holding you back
-Head trash is the voice in your head that says I can't do it

Examples of Head Trash

-I want to make more money, but I don't think I can do it right.
-I want to double my income like your clients do, but I'm not even gonna try.
-I want to get to 30k per month in my online business like your clients do, but I can’t.

1. Identify Your Pot of Gold at the End of the Rainbow

-What is it that you want?

Do you want to publish a book?

Do you want to have an online course?

Do you want to get to 30k per month in your online business?

Do you want to do virtual events?

Do you want to do one-on-one coaching or group coaching?

Do you want to have an advance in your career?

Do you want to have a happy relationship?

Do you want to lose weight?

People need to figure out what it is. People should set a destination, set a target; not your goal but your target.

2. Reaching Your Target

- What is holding you back from reaching that target?

Three reasons you're not reaching your target:

1.You have a Knowledge Gap that means you don't know what to do.
2.You have a Skills Gap that means you might not have the tools or you might not know how to do it.
3.You have a Belief Gap.

A Belief Gap is the thing about your head dressed, it says I can't do it because.

-I want all those things you just talked about but I don't have the time.
-It's going to be too hard.
-I'm not a technology person, I don't want to get stuck in all the tech stuff.
-I don't have a lot of time.
-I don't have a lot of money.
-I've tried everything else
-I've been lied to before, the gurus lied to me and ripped me off so I'll just stay right where I am.

Are you thinking, What Are You Going to Make Yourself?

-If you say you don't have the time, you won't have the time.
-If you say you don't have the money, you won't have the money.
-If you say you can't do it you're going to make yourself right.

Setback your imperfect path and fears from your decisions. It only takes a couple of minutes to make your mindset right, it may not be perfect but it can change simple decisions in life to start in a positive energy.

People Should Identify What is in the Way

-What's the gap? Do you have a knowledge gap? Do you have a skills gap? or do you have a belief gap?

-Learn to understand your action, is there something wrong?

-Are you making progress? Assess yourself and change your habit into something powerful to increase your enthusiasm.

It's a combination of all three of those, that's what I've seen both of myself as I've tried to progress throughout my lifetime and throughout my career. Every single time that I wanted to reach the next milestone, whether it was getting to my first ten thousand dollar month, my first hundred thousand dollar month, my first million dollar year. Every single time there was one or more of those gaps. Life offers success, however life offers failure too. It's only a matter of waiting for the right time, learning to stay focused, and starting to apply positive actions in our day to day life.

3. Determine How You're Going to Overcome the Gap

In the case of a knowledge gap, someone probably knows what you want to do. In other words, somebody's probably done what you want. Practice an effective mind to manifest the possibility to increase the chance of your dreams.

Let's say you want to publish a book, for example:

I publish 15 books - As someone who's published 15 books, I know everything there is to know such as the resources and conditions about publishing the input and output. I've helped a lot of my clients get their books published, their very first book even when they thought they couldn't do it.

A quick example, here's a case study for you. One client came to me, she hired me and she said I want to publish my book. I said great, do you have it already? I mean is it something you've been thinking about? Have you already written it? What's the status of it? then she said

I've already written it. Do you know where it is? I asked, she said it's in a shoe box in my closet. I said really? You have your book manager in a shoe box in your closet? She said yes.

I said, the first thing you should do is to take it out of the shoe box. You might want to take it out of the closet because it's kind of hard to get it published in the shoe box or in the closet. Second, I'm just curious how long it has been there and she said that it's been there 15 years.

Do you think there's a little head trash there? Isn't that interesting because she actually already did it, had already done the hard part and the heavy lifting. She'd written the book but because she didn't know what to do, she didn't have a knowledge gap, she didn't have a skills gap. What she did have is a belief gap, she literally said nobody's gonna like it. What if they make fun of me? What if people criticize me? What if they don't like it? What if they don't like me? The fear of feeling that she won't achieve success rules her systems.

She slammed her foot on the break for 15 years. Long story short, I coached her through my power habits process and not only did she publish the book, she has published six more books. What are the odds of you creating difference and motivation for the people if you started working your writings back then?

Imagine what this means for you, the obvious meaning is that you'll gain your worth and that feeling would force you to effectively progress in life. The point is, you are capable of creating your life perfectly. People are born with imperfect lives to live, but we have a chance to escape the pain of living unknown. Follow the goals and dreams you set to avoid the feeling of inaction, time flies fast and so are we.

What you can do when you overcome your knowledge gap, your skills gap, and your belief gap?

That's really all you need to do, now you can hire a coach like me. I would say that the number one thing for most people is they don't have someone in their corner believing in them. That is the number one reason that's holding most people back from the success they're capable of. Taking action even when you don't believe in yourself. It only takes minutes to spend a day with people who pay attention and listen to your words when life gets pretty bad.

Let me just say one other thing, sometimes you have to take action when you don't believe in yourself. There's that old phrase that I hate which is called fake it till you make it. That's not right because instead of faking it, just take action and then you’ll realize that you will gain opportunity after you've done it.

There were many times that I took action even when I didn't believe myself, I didn't believe that I could ever be a Hay house author. I dreamed of it but I never thought it would really happen, but now I'm a Hay house author, HarperCollins author, and a Nightingale-Conant author. People spent hundreds of dollars to make life feel better, because they think that a job is always available for them. The point is, there is nothing wrong in creating your own dreams without the thinking of being stuck. As someone who's done all of this, I can say for sure that 99% out of 100 that I didn't believe I could do it but I took action anyway. If I can do it, you can do it too. Remember that deprivation won't make your life's path easier, it will only create bad existential problems in your life.