Becoming an adult means different things for everyone. Some people live with their parents while others live alone. Some have kids while others don’t. However, there are some life skills that everyone should learn and embrace—especially before they’re 30. Here are a few!
One of the most important things to learn before turning 30 is how to be happy when you’re by yourself. No one wants to be or feel alone, but everyone needs their “me” time. In fact, spending time by yourself can give you a new sense of self-confidence. Being at peace and happy with yourself when you’re alone is an important part of finding out who you really are.
Spending alone time will allow you to form your own opinions about things and think about standards and beliefs. Even if you’re in a committed relationship or partnership, you should know who you are as an individual and be comfortable choosing just yourself every once in a while. The important thing is that you learn how to be at peace with yourself.
As you’re taking that long desired day trip, the tire of your car pops, leaving you stranded on the side of the road. Naturally, you don’t want to call a tow truck that costs a fortune, so why not learn how to fix it yourself? Learning basic car repair is actually pretty simple. Take the time to get familiar with your car. Ask plenty of questions when you take your car to mechanics. You might even want to take a class or too about car repair.
When something happens to your car, try to figure it out yourself with the help of YouTube and knowledgeable friends—just be sure not to destroy anything. Before long, you’ll be replacing parts and doing minor repairs all on your own. This will help you in emergency situations, sudden breakdowns, and help you cut car costs.
It’s no secret that everyone enjoys a nice meal from a restaurant, but eventually, it’s going to become routine. On top of that, it’s going to put a huge dent in your bank account. Instead of wasting money on take out, take the time to learn how to prepare meals at home. Find the joy in food and cooking for yourself. Start with the basics such as pasta, eggs and, for some, toast that’s not burnt. Taking a community center class, learning from online tutorials, or even teaching yourself will put you on the road to healthy, homemade meals every night.
You’re way past the age where you need your parents to wash and fold your clothes. Having your laundry done for you is nice but knowing how to do it yourself is important. Take the time to learn how to separate your laundry, what items need to be dried and what shouldn’t and washing your clothes effectively without accidentally destroying them. As you master these skills, try to learn how to fold your clothes in a neat and unique way. That way, you’re not just shoving them in a drawer and hoping for the best.
Be sure to learn how to repair small rips, patch holes, and remove a variety of stains. This will help you save your clothes and your money.
While there’s no handbook for living as an adult, being able to do the above tasks will prepare you for bigger and better things. Put your mind to learning and let the adulting commence!
Dixie Somers is a freelance writer who loves to write for business, health, home, and women’s interests. She lives in Arizona with her husband and three beautiful daughters.